 Your soulmates are actually the people that aren't in your life forever the people who come in they challenge you They make you realize your problems your flaws everything that you need to work on You might break up with them. They might disappear and then they make you better because We've all been in relationships that didn't work and you realize they had flaws, but then you realize Crap I had a lot of flaws too Like I really screwed up a lot of parts and you go into the next relationship You try to work on that and try to make yourself better and then you finally get into relationship. Hopefully Where you get with someone and they've worked on their self You've worked on yourself and you can come together and I heard a phrase perfectly the other day And it's like don't try to turn your person the person that you're in relationship with Don't try to fix them Don't try to fix their flaws because what you're trying to do if you're trying to fix them and fix their flaws is Make them a mirror of you What you have to do is you have to love and accept yourself And if you love and accept yourself for all of your flaws and all of your problems You can look at someone else you can love and accept them for all of their flaws and all their problems as well