 We do struggle in some areas. We are also a human. We also like to be adult We like to be independent. We like to do our own thing We like to plan out our life if you don't give us space to do that or at least you don't ask us about things Before doing them for us Then it's gonna make the dynamic in your relationship a little bit uneasy one person's gonna feel like They're being babied Which they don't want to feel because they're an adult. They're human and Then on the other side someone's getting very resentful for doing all these things constantly for the other person I would suggest that you have a conversation about this you iron out the things that That they find difficult and things that you could help with if there are things that They would like you to do on a more regular basis Then sure, but you need to have that conversation