 He's ready. He's ready. He's ready. He's ready. Go go go He's ready. Oh He is dodging you You know, I gripe a lot about my body and I look in the mirror sometimes and I'm just like, oh God work. What's that? Is that my body? But I got to thinking and I'm like, you know what Lord? I guess you really know me better than I do know myself And you made me a little bit uncomfortable with the way I look and that's great. You know why? Because that keeps me from whoring Because if I had a perfect body like some of these girls on here and a nice big juicy booty and firm breasts, I'd be the biggest slut this county'd ever seen. I mean y'all just thought you knew a few whores, but you put no whores like I like I would be whoring I'd be a whole new kind of whore on a different level Man, whew, I'd be nasty. Just nasty and I know it So I'm grateful that I'm a little chubby too chubby to get naked in front of anybody Hmm. I've got a new question for you guys. Why do you think guys no longer want to get married? Because there's no upside for men So if you get married to someone and as a man have some sort of mental health issue You have something like an 80% chance of that woman leaving you directly because of that mental health issue If you lose your job and your income lowers, you have something like a 70% chance of the woman leaving you directly because of that issue And then if they do leave you because of those things or any other reason They get all your income. They get your assets and if you have children, they get the children So there is no upside to this and if for some reason you guys end up staying together chances are She is gonna control your entire life out of fear Partially of her leaving you. I mean, how do you think the happy wife happy life saying came to be? If you're wondering what a $4,000 a month NYC dorm looks like here it is This is what you see when you walk in a tiny hallway my kitchen the bathroom a tiny closet a desk If I had a roommate, this would be their bed, but because of corona. This is just where I throw all of my clothes Another desk except this is just where I prep my food drawers for storage This is my bed This is the living room This is the gym. This is Amy. This is the library. This is Tommy. This is my dog This is my window that doesn't open all the way This is where I sit and read and watch my neighbors who probably pay the same amount of rent as me This is my view the Manhattan bridge a hospital And the Brooklyn bridge This is where you can hide bodies and this is an overview of my closet Stop watching videos And not hitting the like button Jesus Christ people What do I have to do to get you to hit the button show you my tits? They will let me do that on this top Okay, I'm probably going to delete this in the morning. So listen up I would not even believe this if I heard this But I can't make this up I saw a tiktok that said if you just get a tinder and set the age for older guys and put your Amazon wish list and whatever wish list you want people will just buy you to send you money So I was like I'm unemployed due to why not guys it worked people sent me shit and I profiled up for like two days I got a tori birch bag a literal berbery swimsuit Jimmy chews a Chanel boy bag An arizia skirt Guys, I can't make this stuff up. What the heck my tinder got banned But like I got all of this free stuff trend alert she'll go first and last selfie you've taken on snapchat My question of the day is do I really miss him or do I miss being treated like If you're sending the same nude to multiple men you need to be doing this Go to the notes app on your phone and write down the name of every single man on your roster and assign each one a number Or if you're psycho like me you can just reference your excel spreadsheet because it's already well organized and numbered Now find the nude that you want to send and open it in an editing app I like to use pixart anyone works fine zoom into the background of the nude And you want to put a tiny tiny number that corresponds to the number of the man that you're sending it to So that if it ever gets leaked, you know, it was him who did it Good men that have been cheated on and embarrassed don't really do relationships and feelings So if he's trying with you, it's real So he says you don't need any makeup. He says you look better without it Oh, and you don't need those cute clothes either and you don't need to dye your hair Or have nice nails Darling sit down with me Did you know that one of the ways that north korea controls its people is by not letting them have their own hair makeup or style It's one of the first things they do in prison too They get rid of your hair They get rid of your clothes and they get rid of anything that makes you an individual It's actually pretty common in authoritarian settings So does he really like you without it or is he trying to strip you of your identity? Because if he met you with it, why does he suddenly want you without it? Maybe he just doesn't want you to be able to bounce to the next one the second he acts up Maybe he just doesn't want you attracting other men. Maybe he doesn't want you and your true power I think i'm gonna have your faith read this comment And then read it again and again She's not wrong The average american wedding is enough to bankrupt some people and that is A crime it should be a crime. It is an absolute Horror the fact that the wedding industry has come up with so many different ways to scam you out of so much money It's so sad. It's honestly disgusting You put the word wedding in front of anything and it doubles in cost sometimes triples I know you guys are probably sick of hearing me bash on weddings in the wedding industry, but this is why This is why It is literally so difficult to plan a wedding for under $10,000. It's hard disgusting honestly I Mom and dad separated after seven years of marriage. They had a two-year-old and a four-year-old Dad moved out. He left mom and the kids in the house, but he did this He continued to pay the house note. He continued to pay mom's car note He continued to pay the insurance. He continued to pay all the household bills cable electric everything in the house He continued to pay and he felt like this was supporting his kids Now what he didn't do is he didn't pay a specific amount for child support And he didn't buy food clothes things like that for the kids So the case struck on for about two years as the case drew to a close Mom argued that dad should have to pay retroactive child support for two years from dad's perspective He was paying this by paying the house note the car note all these other bills He was essentially helping the kids and paying for child support The court disagreed hit dad with $22,000 of retroactive child support. That doesn't seem fair. Does it something you found out late in life that you should um that my body and looks and sexual Like Desirability was not always going to be the same my entire life and that it was like at its peak In my early 20s and that I should like use that to my bandage in life um that I shouldn't like give up The the cat whatever you want to call it like so early and make men actually chase you because um you know That's the game like that's our power as women. Um, and that the sexual marketplace is Not the same when you're dating in your 30s as when you're dating in your 20s So maybe take it a little bit more seriously When you're in your 20s that you're most powerful as a woman