 the narcissist will train the life out of you. They come around you with that toxic energy that is just weighing you down. It's affecting you. It's affecting how you think about yourself, your confidence in your qualities and abilities because they're constantly putting you down. They're constantly making you feel bad about yourself. They're insulting you, they're telling you you can't do something or anything. They're making you feel like you're not good enough and it's just so draining and the worst part is they just go on and on. I mean I can understand if someone has something constructive to say you can say it once but with them what they say is not even constructive it's just meant to put you down and keep you down. There's nothing positive about it and they don't just say it once, they say it again and again. Every day and you're just wondering when is this going to end? When is this going to stop? It's like you just feel like go into the narcissist and saying okay you're right I'm bad, I'm no good what you want me to do to slay down and die then of course they don't want that to happen because then they would lose their supply. They need you there, they need your eyes to be on them all times they need your ears to listen to garbage that they have to say that's what it really is, you're just an object just an object to see them and hear them because they want to be seen, they want to be heard they're the star of the show and you're just the audience you're just meant to sit back and watch them but watch what because they're never really doing anything anyway and they can't even see it, they can't even see themselves what a joke they are they're not even about anything, they're not doing anything and yet they want you to sit back and be their audience it doesn't make any sense if you're about stuff for real, you're actually doing something you're trying to get things done and yet they want to look at you and criticise you it doesn't add up maybe the reason why they're so sensitive to that why that really gets under their skin is because they know they ain't about anything they ain't doing nothing maybe that's why maybe that's why they have to drain the fucking life out of you maybe that's why they can't give you a break because if that's not the reason, I can't think of any other reason for it that's why they do it I think there's an old saying I can't remember exactly but something like if you don't have anything nice to say don't say it at all and that's very true, you know, if it's nothing positive nothing constructive then what is the point in saying it just to make yourself feel better whatever purpose is there to it than that I mean of course you can't just agree with everything there may be things you don't like things you want to talk about things you want to speak on things that you want to correct but if that's the case then your comments would be more constructive as I've said before in my videos there are two types of people in this world and those two types of people are one someone who has the intention of building you up and the other type of person is one who has the intention of tearing you down and I think we all know which type we are those of you who are watching this video right now and these narcissists they are the type that want to tear people down another thing I've said in a past video there are two ways to build a tallest building in town and one is just to do it to build the tallest building and then another way which is like what the narcissist does is to tear all of the other taller buildings down so that it looks like your building is the tallest because you've just torn down all of the other ones that were taller than yours why can't they just admire other people for who they are and what they've achieved celebrate other people why do you have to go and tear us down just because you feel inferior to us because something about me makes you feel a certain way about yourself that's all that really is that's why they drain the life out of you because they're very insecure they have a void within them that they cannot fill so they have to constantly kick at you and tear you down that's the only way that they can feel bare about themselves you just have to focus on building yourself back up because they're not going to help you they're not going to do it you have to do that on your own you have to do that yourself and I know I am far away but at least I hope this message will get to you and help you because I know we all need a bit of motivation sometimes we need some inspiration and I really want to be that for you that's just how it is certain people find pleasure in bringing people down but for me there's nothing that brings me more pleasure than coming on here and delivering these messages to you these positive inspiring uplifting messages and I do hope that you will do the same for me too down in the comments below and by hitting that thumbs up button as well to support our community it's quite late here I'm just going to go and get something to eat in the car thank you all for joining me tonight and you all have a great day or evening depending on where you are