 Hey everyone. Another live premiere for you. Just open the window by accident. Why are narcissists so negative? The way you've got to look at it is you can't give something that you don't already possess. I'd like to refer to an analogy by Dr. Wayne Dyer. He says, when you squeeze an orange, what do you get? Do you get apple juice? Do you get grape juice? No, you get orange juice. You're only going to get orange juice from an orange. Just like what will you get from a narcissist? Only negativity because that's all they've got inside of them. That's all they've got to give to you. There is nothing else. And that's why they are predominantly focused on the absence rather than the presence of distinguishing features because that's how they see themselves. When they look at themselves, when they look at any part of their lives, they're always focused on what they're missing rather than what they actually have, which is why they are so ungrateful, which is why they don't appreciate anything you do for them. They're negative about themselves. They're negative about their own lives. They're never positive about anything. Sometimes you might see them engage in a magical thinking. They enter this fancy world, which has no basis in reality, but that's not really positivity. They just trick themselves into thinking something that isn't true, something that isn't real, but when it comes down to reality, they are always negative about it. They're always negative about you. Just like Dr. Wayne Dyer said, if you squeeze an orange, you'll get orange juice. If you squeeze a narcissist, you'll get hatred, anger, envy, jealousy, negativity, because that's what they've got. If you squeeze a positive person, you're going to get happiness, fun, joy, peace, laughter, because that's how they feel about themselves. That's how they feel about their own lives. And however a person feels about themselves is how they're going to feel about you, is how they're going to treat you. So please, when the narcissist is negative towards you, don't take it personally. It has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. They're just expressing how they feel about themselves and that is why they are ranting and raving endlessly, but it never corrects how they feel about themselves because you can't just throw your garbage onto someone else and expect them to deal with it. That might mask your symptoms, but it's not going to deal with the cause or the problem. To deal with that, you have to go within. You have to listen to yourself, which is something that narcissists are not going to do. They don't even want to deal with their own negativity. They just want to dump it onto you, but just know when they do that it has nothing to do with you. So don't take it personally and know that these people are in a lot of pain. They're suffering. So you could have some compassion for them from afar, but just don't identify with what they're saying or doing because it really has nothing to do with you. Just remember what Dr. Wayne Dyer said. You squeeze an orange, you get orange juice. You don't get apple juice. You don't get grape juice. If you squeeze an orange, all you'll get is orange juice. Just like all you're going to get from a narcissist is negativity because that's all they have to give. If you squeeze a positive person, you'll get love, joy and happiness. Anyway, I hope this message has been helpful to you. The reason why the narcissist is so negative is because that's all they've got. If they had anything else, you would have seen it. But all they really do is they just take your positivity and try and mirror it back to you, but your intuition always tells you when it's not real. You know when it's real. I don't let anyone tell you what's real and what's not. You know it, you can sense it. Trust your own intuition. Anyway, thank you all for joining me in this life. Please give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed it. Leave your thoughts in the comments. Share it with anyone you believe may help. And don't forget to check out the website www.knocksurviver.uk Where I'm posting blog posts usually at least once a week. I did post one earlier today. And also you can join our support forum on there as well. And you can book coaching sessions too. So definitely check out the website. Thank you all for joining this live and I will see you in the premiers tomorrow.