 Hey everyone, I'm just out here at the park. Hope everyone's doing okay. What's everyone doing? Everyone keeping well doing this quarantine. I'm all good. Thanks, Ed. Judy's taking care of the pets. That's great. It's really good to have pets, you know, especially during this time and when you've been dealing with narcissists You can feel very lonely afterwards And you really need that oxytocin Which you can get from having a pet, so having a pet is great. I'm just out here at the park YouTube car silver maybe more Pictures on YouTube later Yeah, the weather's not too bad. It's not raining now It was raining a bit earlier Yeah, that's very true Irish eyes. It is helpful to have an emotional support pet Actually, I've got one myself My cat is an emotional support pet Officially. Yes, we all deserve it We all deserve great things in life It all starts with a belief You have to believe that you deserve great things And you have to believe that other people deserve great things as well And then you can attract whatever you want Cats are great. I really like them. I know some people might say their class is like Narcissists in a way But they you know, they are animals and they don't really know what they're doing They don't have the the kind of awareness that we do So you can kind of have some compassion for them then Sheila, I believe that a narcissistic person cannot fall in love Even if they wanted to and that's because of the shame and when you're around them You also lose the capability to experience love because they will project their shame on to you Yes, ashwag a lot of therapists aren't qualified to diagnose Whether or not you are with a narcissist it's only like Specialized psychologists who can do that. They could probably give you their personal opinion and really It's not that important to know if you are definitely dealing with someone who has NPD narcissistic personality disorder If you're dealing with someone who has strong narcissistic traits Which is probably something you could identify yourself, you know, if you're dealing with someone who is self-absorbed I'm a slip then If you're dealing with someone who is self-absorbed and lacks empathy You know, someone who clearly doesn't care about you That's enough You know, that's all you really need to know You know if someone's abusing you, you know, if someone's manipulating you Thank you for the donation Yes, Victoria In many cases, that's what happens. They just do something so bad that it's really unforgivable And then they don't even bother coming back because they know you're never going to forgive them That happens a lot. I've never seen the current like this before here. I definitely recommend for everyone To go out for a walk in nature At least for 30 minutes a day even if it's just like your local park or In a forest or something It's very healing to do that Being in nature, that's one of the best things you can do. Just go out and take some deep breaths Breathing that clean air Away from all the cars and the pollution It's great. Going for a walk in nature is a very high vibrational activity Yeah, that's all they really do Swag They just want to keep you Stringer lawn I called it on to them They're just trying to get as much as they can out of you and they create the situation in a way Where they don't have to give anything to you and it's not just because they don't want to give anything to you It's because they have nothing to give anyway If they had something to give and they could just you know keep you around for a bit longer So they could get even more of you They would be doing that But they don't have anything to give so they can't Yes Scandinavian narks fiver They will steal from you, you know, whatever they can get You've got to think that these narcissists are doing the best that they can from where they're at And then like you maybe you can get your own money They're not capable of doing that if they were They would be and that goes for everything, you know, even when like it comes down to your your energy They can't produce their own high vibrational energy. They've got to steal it from you and with money That's all money really is anyway. That's your energy So we're wherever they're going with that They're just taking a part of you with them And it's not a part of you that you really need because you can always produce it again from within anyway But wherever they go, they take a part of you with them And that's also the reason why they can never move on from a grade a source of supply Because they've spent so much of their time extracting energy from you That you're all they can think about Your energy is dominating their minds. I don't know how to pronounce your name, but That's really horrible, you know, your dad would dump his shoes onto you Take his anger out on you That's not fair at all on a child and you'll find that You know, you may also feel that anger yourself now as well. It's wrong. We should always own our own emotions We should never try to drop them onto someone else Because another person cannot resolve our emotions for us anyway Only we can do that. Amy. I think in a way, you know, they might not physically take notes But they do take mental notes of what works for them and what doesn't They are very predatory in that sense. They literally study you And I have done two videos on that Narcissists will study you like a PhD and Narcissists will study you like a test subject And that's exactly what they will do They will study your flaws weaknesses and vulnerabilities and Also the things that they believe you like and they'll try and use that to hook you in But sometimes it can look so ridiculous because they seem so convinced that you like something when in reality It doesn't even interest you and that's often when they They can put themselves in quite a vulnerable position there Where they're just chasing you and trying to get you back, but nothing's working Yeah, it's really sad life is a journey But that is What they always do They can't own these parts of them Because they're ashamed They're ashamed of what they've become So they just want to Drop it on to you. They want you to deal with it for them. I did a video on that how narcissists hate themselves If they really love themselves if they really accepted who they are Why would they ever do so in any part of them? They disown it Because they don't accept it. They don't like it So they want to put it on to you and they want to use that as an excuse to hate you When really it's got nothing to do with you anyway, that's very true magic You can't have a relationship with someone Who lacks empathy because the whole point of a relationship It's where two people have a connection with each other But you can't have a connection without empathy Empathy is when you share another person's experience You imagine what it would be like to be in their shoes But if you lack empathy, you can't do that Which means that you can't really have a relationship Yes, Huda They definitely do feel Some form of regret But it's not in the way that you might think they're not really sorry for what they did They're just sorry about the consequences of their actions and they do feel shame They do feel very ashamed of what they've done. The shame does grow within them But they don't want to own then they don't want to own their shame As soon as something triggers them to reflect on it They'll do whatever they can to project it onto you which often results in them Experiencing the narcissistic rage Well, they become very angry towards you They start blaming you for everything They start making you feel like you're the problem and as though they haven't done anything wrong But then if that doesn't work, they'll just start being nice to you Because they are experiencing some form of regret But as I said, it doesn't mean that they're sorry for what they did to you It just means that they're Sorry, they got caught Well, they're sorry About the consequences that they're now having to deal with Okay, that's it for now We have got a premiere starting later today in about One hour and a half. I think it's the narcissist wants to make you suffer That's definitely one of my greatest videos. So Definitely check that one out. So hopefully I'll see you all in the premiere. Thank you for joining us and I'll talk to you soon