 And one of the fundamental principles that they were espousing in this video is the concept of no contact and leaving this person alone. So they will miss you and want to reach out to you. And I want everybody to think about this for a moment. You know, this person has just ended a relationship with you and all you have to do is leave them alone and they'll come running back. So the reality is these days there's so much ease of replacement at this concept of just simply leaving someone alone and they'll somehow magically come back will work. Because this is true for men and women alike that what happens is there's going to be a period where they feel a sense of missing you and they might return back.