 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder at commitment connection calm and today we're gonna talk about four flirting tips for women and So there's nothing more attractive than a woman who knows how to flirt for a guy You know the difference between a woman who you're kind of attracted to and one that you like Fall head over heels and love with It can be as simple as her ability to know how to flirt and so Let's talk about You know four different things that you can do To flirt with a guy and the first one is invite him over so a lot of women Try to do this You know get a guy to chase you thing which by the way I don't think is a very good idea and in any situation for any period of time. Well, it might work Short-term it doesn't work in the long run. So My suggestion is that if you see a guy that you like invite him over, you know And that invitation could be something as simple as like a glance, you know looking him in the eyes and smiling You know, it could be as something as like, you know giving him like a hand wave gesture to come over and talk to you So, you know invite him over and don't be shy to do that because it can be very very attractive And most guys will not approach women unless they get some type of Indication that she wants him to come over and talk So the second thing is to encourage him to pursue you, right? So again There's a lot of bad dating advice out there about showing disinterest and you know faking like you Don't like a guy and running away from a guy You're much better off Encouraging him to continue to pursue you, you know telling him that you enjoyed Spending time with him, you know telling him that you'd love, you know to to see him again in the future You know that that kind of a thing can be incredibly powerful for a guy because most guys Have spent so much time in the friend zone with women that if he's not sure that he that you like him He'll probably stop pursuing you unless he's really really persistent like he would have to be just in Insanely aggressive in order to Just continue pursuing You know any woman regardless of whether she shows interest in him or not and so if you meet a guy and you want him to Continue to pursue you, you know encourage him to do so invite him to do so And you know you don't need you don't and you shouldn't go overboard here But you know showing him that you're interested in showing and showing him that you want him to continue to pursue you Can be very attractive and it can be the right signal for a guy to continue to pursue you the next one is treating him like a little brother and You know, this is another with all of this stuff There's kind of a happy medium where it's not you're not doing it You're you're doing it, but you're not doing it too much, right? And so treating a guy like your little brother It's really a mindset type of thing where you're you're not taking them too seriously you know being really playful and and having fun with a guy and just you know Talking to him in a non serious way not all the time, you know if a serious topic comes up Make sure you're you know you go into a serious mood But you know being playful and being fun and just you know messing with them and and and having a good time is Incredibly attractive. It's very feminine and it's very attractive to men and then the last one is Going sexual and then pulling it back and so again I'm not talking about getting a guy to chase you or running away from a guy or anything like that I'm just saying, you know, you can go sexual You know, you can go up and whisper in his ear and say you're like, you know If he did something attractive, just you know, you could say that was so hot, you know, and then just pull back and You know and just pretend like you didn't just say that, you know And that can be incredibly attractive Especially if you're like out in public or in a place where it wouldn't really be appropriate for you to say that Allowed, you know, that can be really really hot So that's it for today If you want more information on how to attract a quality man into a committed lasting relationship Make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take the quiz there I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon