 You have a personal question of me. Do you have a question to ask about me and my relationship? I know a lot of people have been asking when my sweetheart is going to be on videos We've been talking about it. She's going to join me in my private group called midlife love mastery By the way, there's a link below to check out the book or the group We're gonna start there and hopefully by the end of the year or the first of the year We'll join have her join us on a couple YouTube videos as well Envy says Do you guys know it? Do you guys see how clean-cut Jonathan looks extra shiny as beloved as a positive influence? You know, it's interesting, you know, I don't know if I was Know if maybe I had a little bit of cynicism before I met her and what I mean to say is I was getting rather depressed With the the the current dating marketplace I was getting rather frustrated with the current dating marketplace swipe dating just felt like such a Big giant waste of time And yet it was a it was an addictive process, too I can tell you that I was literally addicted to the process The addicted to the swiping it was like the hamster getting the pellet. I was incredibly addicted to it I was addicted to the attention many of you give me beautiful attention, which I've been addicted to that as well But I literally reached a point that maybe in some of my videos. I was a bit bitter cynical and such now I am judgmental About human beings who operate with a level of unconsciousness now I'm here to be the wake-up call So if you watch my videos enough if you it's like the definition of insanity if you're doing the same thing over and over again Expecting different results. I'm gonna yell and scream at you to snap out of it Like Cher said to Nicholas Cage in the movie moon struck So but thank you so much for that. My beloved brings me so much joy. I can't begin to tell you and and I feel like it's only gonna keep getting better because Trust is built over time And when you know that listen, can you absolutely trust someone a hundred percent? Do I know that this person is gonna be there for me? Do I know it? I feel really confident about it It does suck though when you've invested your heart into someone and they pull the rug out from underneath you They don't love you anymore or they they don't want to be in relationship with you anymore That feels like the biggest betrayal of all when someone says the word. I love you. I love you I love you. I love you and all of a sudden I want a divorce. I want to break up. I Think the signs are there. We oftentimes refuse to see them This is why I I I view relationships from a 40,000 foot level, but the ground level more from the human behavior perspective Understanding the importance of emotional maturity as being the bedrock to a successful relationship and a lot of times people bond in their traumas and Find that they're attached to someone and there is love there But unless that's a clean love and They genuinely as I shared in this podcast, they make you a priority in their life They genuinely make you a priority in your life It's sad when they say all of a sudden they don't want that with you anymore And it becomes harder to trust again That's one of the greatest challenges these days is being able to trust You know what? I know I'm kind of a giddy kid I'm piggybacking on what was shared but I've dived into the deep end of the pool because you know what I Love the line from the movie Shawshank Redemption where Andy Dufresne says Get busy living or get busy dying Look it. I guess what I dove into the deep end with her and You know what if it doesn't work out? I'm gonna be fine But I don't think that's gonna happen But if it does what's most important when you genuinely love yourself That's why I wrote my book what the heck a self-love a journey of personal development self-help and spiritual work There's a link below to get the book when you genuinely love yourself You're you're it's like a vaccination to emotional chaos You're better prepared to navigate the challenges of life when you say you know what I'm gonna be okay No matter what and Yeah, I'm incredibly attached to this person that would hurt and sting But you know what I've fallen down before and I'm gonna get up again Because nothing is guaranteed and if I've learned one thing after losing my son You know somebody can be there and they can be gone in a moment And what we have to do as human beings or at least this is my invitation for myself and my invitation for all of you is to appreciate every moment and to continually express Attention affection and appreciation and most importantly acceptance to those people that you're calling your boyfriend or girlfriend Because that builds those deep roots of trust Because nothing is guaranteed But what you can do is savor every moment with a person when you're consciously Co-creating a relationship together. Is this sinking and is this resonating? Please let me know Please say yes, Jonathan that sinks in with me Ah, thank you so much