 are you select? Welcome back to my channel. And unless you've been living under a rock this last three to six months, this topic has been picking up much more steam on many men's lifestyle channels. There's a whole notion of being an alpha male or beta male. There's a lot of controversy with those particular terms. So actually a friend of mine, Ron Wills came up with what I think is a better term, select and non select. Let me explain it this way. A guy can be select or a woman's preference for eight out of 10 or 80 out of 100 women, but be completely non select for two out of 10 or 20 out of 100 and vice versa. So in that way, you can actually get a more accurate or honest assessment of actually where you are and where you rank. There lies a problem. A lot of guys have never had an accurate assessment. They don't know whether they're select or not select for how many or whatever. They just lack the assessment of where they are or where they fit in the rank of the hierarchy. But don't worry, your big brother has got you covered. I'm going to give you 12 signs that women give off to men to let them know if they are select. Let's get into it. Shout out to the CIA. Guys, if you want to become part of the movement, do me a favor, join us on Patreon for exclusive video and live stream content that will only be visible there. Details down in the description. These are no particular orders. So let's get started with number one. Women at girly are really feminine in your presence. Yep, you can take the most strong and dependent powerful. I am woman. Hear me roar. If you're a select man for her, you will actually see the little girl pop up inside of her. She'll get girly, kind of feminine. Now, I'm not talking about overly girly, overly feminine. Don't look for huge changes, but they'll be big enough for you to notice. The number two way to know if you're a select, women will send you choosing signals. But here's the problem. A lot of guys have no clue what a choosing signal is. When a woman makes eye contact, looks down and looks back up, choosing signal. When she does all that flips her hair, choosing signal. When she does that in any combination and smiles, choosing signal. When you actually see her walking over there, she starts walking this way. She's not walking in a straight line. She kind of walks into it. She moves herself into proximity for you while making some sort of contact. I mean, we're past the days of her dropping her handkerchief on the ground and you picking it up. But the choosing signal will be out there and it actually will be more than, and honestly, if you didn't pick up one, she'll send one or two more to get your attention. Number three, women are sexually friendly. Now, what does that mean? Women will actually start doing things to exude their sexuality in your presence. Again, that flirtatious smile. One of the biggest things women do to guys that will select, they expose their neck region. This is a primal lust mating sign that women show select guys. The way that the way she actually sits, the way she crosses her legs, whether or not they're towards you or away from you, the way she leans forward, the way her chest is exposed, a woman will become more sexually friendly to you because honestly sex is on her mind too. Number four, the energy goes up when you arrive, whether you're in person or whether you're in person online or on the phone. If you are communicating with a woman in her presence that she finds you select, her energy is going to completely change because she's energetically choosing you. You can watch this happen on YouTube when certain guys come on the panel and a woman can be talking one way to a guy, but then that select guy comes on the panel and he gets a completely different energy. You've seen it multiple times and it happens in person as well if a woman finds you select. Number five, you get free stuff. Yes, free stuff. You go order something. You forget to order your drink. Here's a drink. You go order a little piece of food. Here's a cupcake. Now this sign can be confusing for some of you guys. I'm not talking about your grandma giving you a cupcake. I'm talking about that sexy senior reader, that little hot thing that gives you something and she's sending this in conjunction with other signs. When it's in conjunction with other signs, you're on the right path. Another way you can know you select doesn't necessarily have to do so much with women, but just the world in general. You get special treatment. Let me give you an example. A woman sees you walking. She'll actually push the door open to hold it open a little bit more. Even feminine women. Yeah, they will. Guys will do this. When you are select, there's an acknowledgement by the group. There's an acknowledgement by the individual, the group society that you fit that mold. And the next sign is you kind of get overly lucky. If you ever got pulled over by a cop and you know you should get a ticket, chances are if you select, especially as a guy, you get away with it. When you get overly lucky when dealing with the law, management, people in the positions of power, this is something that happens more often for guys who are select. Now let's get back to women. Women will actually approach you. Yes, actually approach you. They will. Excuse me. Can you show me where the story is? Can you tell me where this is? They will make up a reason to come talk to you. They will know what the hell is going on. They just want to get in your proximity to get a dialogue started. And if you've ever had this happen before, you know what I'm talking about. Later on down the line, she'll tell you, I knew exactly what I was looking for. I just wanted to come holler at you. And now women will actually initiate contact with you to pick up the phone and dial. They'll send you the text message. They'll send you the text message to all acuity emojis. They're actually reaching out to you when they initiate contact with you. And often you can damn sure bet that is a sign that you are select. Trust me guys, pretty women, attractive women get hit up daily on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, all kinds of things. They're inboxes are flooded with guys who are trying to shoot their shot. And if they're going over those guys to try to contact you, that's a damn sure sign you're select. Number 10, women will make time for you. An example of this is when I actually did my ladies panel and I said, well, hey ladies, if a man is out here on this purpose working 60, 70, 80 hours a week, would you be cool with waiting? Would you be cool with him only having one, two, maybe three hours for you a week? And across the board, everyone was like, hell yeah, I'd be willing to wait because when a man is select, a woman would rather wait to get her time with him, even by passing other guys who would actually love to spend more time. She'll wait for what she wants because when a woman knows what she wants, she also tends to know how infrequently it comes around. You don't want to miss that shot. So she'll make time. She'll wait. Number 11, they break the touch barrier. She'll touch you on your shoulder, touch you on your arm. She'll play with your patchy, such and so forth. When a woman breaks the touch barrier in that kind of sexually friendly way, it's sure choosing sign and the sign that you are select for her. Pay attention guys, because honestly, most women are really particular about touch. They don't like guys touching on them, especially guys they don't know. But if they actually initiate, break the touch barrier, especially in that sexually friendly kind of way, nine times out of 10, that's a sign that you are select for her. Number 12, wait, she'll spend serious money on you often. Yep, this is one that a lot of guys really don't see. But when a woman truly finds you select, she will actually know what you like and will actually go out and spend the money on you, spend it. She will actually go buy you a nice pair of Issa and Laurent crocodile boots, if that's what you're into. And guys, it's not just on your birthday. It's not just on Christmas anniversary. No, no, this is just on a Tuesday that she will make a trip out to get you something that she knows you like because she wants to impress you. A lot of guys have never seen this happen. But if you have, you know exactly what I'm talking about. There you go guys, 12 ways to let you know if a woman finds you select. Now, here's the thing, this is not an all encompassing list. 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