 Hi, yo, she was seven. I'm back. Okay. I just washed my hair. So that's why I was looking like this. Okay I'm letting it your drive today, but I was gonna make a video on Clothing like I had a dress to get the kind of guy you want I'm gonna show y'all a few examples because I still have my clothes from when I was younger I'm gonna show y'all what I was wearing when I met my husband. I'm gonna show y'all What he bought me The kind of clothes he selected for me the first time he bought me clothes And I'm gonna show you all this this is what guys like that are about something that are professional that are providers. Okay, so Let me show you what I was wearing Okay And this black blazer and And a camisole a cami under it, you know, like professional everything's covered this this doesn't show cleavage Okay, so this is like this and I had a skirt and Heels so basically this With a black skirt Not long, but maybe to my knee and heels. I was waiting to go to work. I worked in a funeral home. Okay. I Was a few other I was getting ready to go and bomb a body. Okay. I was at a bar and that's what I meant After we started dating The first thing he bought me We went shop. We went to the gallery We're walking around and he bought me this. This is a light blue sweater from Banana Republic and it's made out of cashmere. He bought me a Blue cashmere sweater. This was a $70 sweater. Just Just so y'all know the this was our second date or third date that he bought me this And I didn't ask him to take me shopping either he just like hey you want to go walk around Because the restaurant we were going to was in the same building as the gallery and And The next thing he bought me I don't have the other piece to this because it's in my closet But this isn't silk and Taylor Suit and it came with a sheath dress under so he bought me this the dress comes down to your knee and This goes over it. So he bought me this light blue and Taylor a beautiful silk and this was like a hundred and fifty fifty dollars for this whole thing and That was on our And he also bought me some really nice jewelry to go with it and then When we were dating this is the kind of stuff I wore like when we go Sorry, I'll close everything. We just go out to have drinks I'm doing a video I would wear this blaze. It's this is a Chanel style tweed jacket with Maybe like a black turtleneck or a black sweater or a shirt under it and then a pair of jeans and heels That's what we want. That's what I want to date Because his friends were professionals, you know, his friends were doctors and attorneys and Architects and stuff like that. So you can't be all who'd you fight in front of Men with this type of money because they think you're a hooker if you if you don't dress the part a guy or stripper they don't See you as an equal if you're dressed like a slut y'all. So you gotta dress nice and then We went to Las Vegas What's a Vegas y'all and if you bought me this blazer from some store? I don't know. This is just this is like, you know Or this is some jeans and heels and a little tight top under it or boots and This is how you dress simple professional casual and Not and and like you have class, you know, you don't go around showing everything, you know This is how men with money look For their woman to dress classy Okay, and like after you get married The type of stuff you can wear athletic clothes cardigans jeans You know stuff like that my husband bought me this fuzzy black sweater To go with like with some jeans and some boots, you know, you just dress casual after get married It doesn't matter because you're you know when you have to go and meet people or show like a function Yeah, you can dress back up again And yeah, so I just you know, you just wear this what a pair of jeans and boots and a scarf That's how you dress when you get married you cover up, but you're still stylish your your your fabulous like You don't have to show it off anymore because you've got what you need, you know You you got all the attention. You got the man. You got You know the house you got the car. So you don't have to show all the other stuff off to other people, you know You can buy nice expensive classic pieces that shows your Status in life, you know a woman that shows a lot of her body and cleavage is seen as trashy and Unclassy and probably comes from you know, not a lot of money, but if you ever watch, you know women who grow up with like doctors and attorneys and architects and Business owners and real estate locals as their parents They don't go around dressed with everything hanging out because they don't have to you know They're kind of covered up dressed in nice designer clothes if you don't do designer just get classic pieces that look nice and When you go out certain men will be attracted to you that have the same level of Respect for themselves, you know Men are extra flashy who have money. Okay. They're very conservative. You're not gonna see them coming a mile away You're not gonna see them blinging and flashing everywhere. You're gonna see a reserved casual confident Man with classic clothing on stylish clothing Nice pieces. You're not gonna see fads You're not gonna see a bunch of Colors flashing everywhere. It's gonna be very simple and professional. That's what you're gonna see and for shoes If you wear too many heels that are just like out of this world and like hooker ish Save it for the bedroom where You can still wear heels. I don't get me wrong now But don't make them so Ghetto or flashy or trashy that they draw too much attention. Keep them simple, you know, keep them classic keep them Designer or keep them simple. You don't want to go too much on the shoes because they're like, okay Something's off about this, you know, why does she have on hooker heels with this nice blazer and Whatever, you know, what's going on here and ladies if blazers are not your style You can still do slacks or jeans with a nice sweater and a scarf You don't have to do blazers. This is just what we did when I was young y'all Y'all know I'm old. I don't like for these modern times just a nice blouse with a with a cute Wrap infinity scarf or just a simple top and some simple jeans and heels That's not too flashy. Just as long as you're covered and your clothes don't look like you bought them You know at the trend sale, you know, he can introduce you to his mother in this outfit He can introduce you to your to his colleagues and you're in this outfit He can take you to a business meeting a business function a business dinner with what you have on and you don't have to be like Oh, I gotta go home and change, you know Your outfit can go in from day to evening with just a few accessory changes Okay, so don't and a lot of times guys who are very Business-oriented they don't have time to go home and change and change they keep stuff in their trunk So you have to be also Prepared like have a pair of shoes in your trunk have a different shirt in your trunk Have something always to just you know hurry up and change into because you could go from having lunch to going to some Fancy dinner later on with some work colleagues or just you might see a happy hour that you want to go to because there's a Lot of guys there with money And you live on the way on the other side of town and you don't have to sit through traffic By the time you get back, they're gonna keep stuff in your car so you can hurry up and switch it out Okay, and Like smells you don't want to smell too much like a baby Because grown man don't like that. You don't you want to smell sophisticated Womanly exotic you don't want to smell fruity and sweet and that you don't want to smell like you're still in college or in high school You want to smell like a grown woman? Okay, you want to turn heads You want to you want your perfume to match your personality and your outfit, you know, so Focus on that, you know a lot of men like the scent of vanilla and Also an alluring scent of orchid So if you can combine orchids and vanilla and some type of perfume more power to you because those are seductive fragrances as well Wearing certain colors can make men More attracted to you and see you as more feminine wearing pinks wearing soft blues wearing pastel Colors light grays You compare it with black but make sure you have something light in there to remind them that you are feminine And that you're a woman because they see men all day in black suits and gray suits and blue suits When they see you they need to see a touch of pink a touch of blue light blue some some bright pretty lipstick you know a Nail a nail color that's appropriate but not too flashy and men don't like all that nasty stuff on your nails like a Lot of men don't like All the extra stuff, especially businessmen. They don't like all that extra stuff on your nails ladies. I know it's cool I've done it, but that was after I was married So when you're trying to catch keep it simple French manicure pink red something simple When you get them then just go all out and do whatever you want to say hey I just want to try this. I think it's cute and you know Whatever they'll have to get used to it But when you're trying to catch you keep it simple because you don't know what they like they might say hey I like those long nails when you put those on for me and then you'll be like, yeah But keep it neutral. It's like before purchase purchasing a house a lot of people keep their walls White or cream so that Whoever buys it can say hey, I want to paint it this color this color this color keep yourself Neutral a neutral canvas until you learn their likes and then you can you know, you can start molding your style but Yeah, and always be confident about yourself don't think that you don't fit in Because they're gonna automatically see that and so where they're friends and they're gonna pick on you So when you go somewhere with a man that has money and lots of important friends and stuff like that act like you belong Yeah, you know, don't try to speak as properly as you can if you don't speak proper if you use a lot of curse words stop cursing It's a it doesn't It's not ladylike so You know stand up straight Look people in their eyes smile act like you belong there if you don't feel like you belong because I always act like I Always act it like I belong there and Higher places you know y'all gotta act Okay And I kind of grew up around a lot of people that have money So I felt comfortable around people with money, you know But if you didn't walk around a lot of people with money, you know You're just gonna have to get used to feeling like you belong there Okay, a lot of people will show their insecurities and this will turn people off quick Or it'll make you turn a turn away and push other people away because you're insecure. They're gonna say something about you, but Keep your confidence know you belong there. No, that's what you deserve and go for it I mean a lot of people are gonna call you a gold digger behind your back. Anyway, they don't know you They don't know your story But at the end of the day is if you get what you came for then it's a win-win. Okay. I'll see you later. Bye