 So I was in Walmart last week right on my break just buying some heat bars and a water bottle for my co-worker No big deal had a pretty Low-key makeup look for me on Walking around I see this dude start following me and I'm like This man now this child no no this gum on the bottom my shoe Comes up and approaches me not once not twice, but three times and gets real close to my ear and goes Hey, beautiful Sir No No, I'm just trying to shop and you're following me around a store for what? After the third and first two times I gave him nasty ass looks I was like After the third time what did I do? I turned around I turned right around I looked him right in his face, and I go I blame you toxic just for why men are the way they are now You've ruined it for us good women because you don't traumatize this man so badly But by the time he gets to a good woman who is not gonna hurt him or put him through confusion or play games with him He can't even fully appreciate the blessing that God single-handedly put in his life He can't even trust his own judgment So he ends up self-sabotaging that entire relationship with this good woman in front of him because of how badly you fuck this dude up And he ends up hurting her Now don't get it twisted. I hold you men accountable if you are still unhealed and you're still Broken by the woman from your past Do not involve yourself with another woman. Don't do it because baby. I can love you past your pain But I cannot fix you. I can't fix something. I didn't break. I'm not about the builder Asher is how I'm not God. I can't feel the peace. That's broken within you. You have to do that within yourself But still women we are supposed to be the prize We're supposed to be the wives stop acting like trash and wonder why these men don't respect us Evil Empire laughing all the way to the Excuse me. There is no being sad about men. Okay. He didn't text you back dump his ass He's ignoring you dump his ass. He doesn't say good morning beautiful to you He doesn't fight to the death in a ring for you He doesn't come bearing with snacks Dumbassass, he doesn't make sure you're drinking your 128 recommended ounces of water a day dump his ass He doesn't shower you with money dumbass ass. He doesn't tell you you're beautiful at least 386 times a day dump ass Wow, babe, you have such a beautiful face. Thank you, baby. You should My face you should All right, so yes, it is believe victims because if Sally tells me Bill did something to her No, I don't want to go arrest Bill right away without an investigation. I want an investigation That's why it's believe victims you believe them enough to start looking into it And you don't throw it away and you don't shame people for coming out. That's what believe victims means Ladies who withhold sex as a form of punishment or control for your man and on today's episode of things Neanderthals say First of all to say something is being withheld from you implies that you have a right to it to begin with You in fact are never entitled to a woman's body To dick is not backwardered It's not in short supply So when you use coercive manipulative threats of finding it elsewhere You sound about as scary as saying Willy Wonka is going to stop making chocolate Did I spend three hours crying over a boy for whom I had to define multiple words while having a regular conversation Yeah, okay, I'll give that one to you. Is this the second time it's happened this year now It's actually the third the third time that I have been rejected by a boy who needed a Dictionary to have a conversation with me the bar on the ground really is it on the ground? No, it's actually in fucking hell. That's how deep it is My boyfriend's hot check They come They come Huh, I'm single Probably won't believe this. I mean, I'm still shocked But there's still men out there who don't open doors for girls when getting into a restaurant like on a date or something And there's also men who don't open your car doors So you get next to an Uber you open the door you want to get in and then he makes you like scoot over So he can literally do zero effort. I mean in my two old school or Let's just have zero matters Your goal is to try to make sure your home is a place of peace order and tranquility Where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit Prepare yourself take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives Touch up your makeup put something decorative in your hair like a ribbon or a flower Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner without you Once upon a time not long ago. I was a hope. I hope my husband always knows that when I said my vows I meant them. I will never be an ex-wife Maybe a widow, but never an ex-wife As all know I'm a divorce attorney and the divorce of the shortest marriage I had was 59 days the longest 46 years correct After 46 years of marriage you can still end up divorced best advice I have for you actually comes from my mom She told me marriages are like plants. You got to water it every day. Don't ever let it die