 Hello everyone, welcome to another video just at this wetland park today and in this video I'm going to be talking about How moving on really affects the narcissist because they will play it off. They will act like it doesn't bother them They will act like they don't care But I couldn't be further from the truth. There's always another side to what they're showing you There's always something else that's beneath the surface So it may look like they've just moved on without you and they've forgotten about you And they may stop texting you, calling you and it may seem like they've just disappeared They've just gone But as I said, there's always another side to what they're showing you What you see on the surface that is actually what's going on behind the scenes So that is something to keep in mind when I know many of you, you go on their social media After the breakup And you start looking at their pictures and videos to see what they're doing See who they're with And you're just getting a facade All you're doing is validating the illusion Because they're only going to show you what they want you to see They're not going to show you what is actually happening But I can tell you that it does affect them When you go no contact, when you stop talking to them When you focus on yourself, when you focus on your own life Yes, that does have a very strong effect on them Because remember they need attention, they need validation I don't know I may get some comments down below, people may say yes but what about the new supply They found someone else, they don't need you anymore But When they see that You're focused on something else They feel like They've lost something Like something has been taken away from them And as we know they are very envious and jealous And They see you as their property You're this object that belongs to them So The last thing they want is to feel like someone or something is taking you away from them You have to remember that they are very insecure So when you cut contacts and you're no longer messaging them, you're no longer calling them They feel that They sense that you are pulling away And it does have a very powerful effect on them Because you have to remember that you were a great supply You were important to them at one point And they stayed with you for so long because You had a lot to give You had a lot to provide Your attention Your validation Maybe you give them money or a place to stay Tuck them places These are all very valuable things To them And They may act stupid They may act as though what you did wasn't enough And they can't see the significance in it They can't see the value But trust me, they know the difference between something good And something that's not that good They're not stupid, they know the difference And When you moved on and you're putting your focus more on other things in your life You're making other things more important to you They will be stalking you on your social media And they will see that They will see the life that you're living without them And they will immediately sense how you're so much happier And more at peace without them Because remember all of those arguments and all of the drama you had to deal with You don't have to deal with that anymore Now you can just focus on yourself and do what you want to do And Yeah, naturally, without all of that drama in your life You are going to feel more at peace You're going to feel like a huge weight has been lifted off your shoulders You don't have to worry about all of this stuff anymore And When you experience these changes emotionally They will sense it, they will know They can immediately tell When someone Is just at peace with themselves When someone is just happy for No apparent reason at all And they hate that because that's something they will never get to experience They need superficial things to be happy They need money, people, things And even then it's short-lived, doesn't last for a long time They can't experience those things to the fullest like we can So even though it may seem as though they have moved on to something else With another person, another situation And They're flexing all this stuff on Facebook They're flexing all this stuff on the gram They look like they're really living it up Just think back to when they were with you All the things you did for them, were they ever happy with that? No So what makes you think they're going to be happy With another person In another situation if they couldn't be happy with you They made you feel like you just didn't do enough So you needed to do more But there's no limit No matter what you do They're never satisfied They have these insatiable desires That can never be fulfilled While we can enjoy the little things in life Even if we have a fraction of what they have We can be a lot happier We can experience that true depth of happiness Something that they will never have But yeah they will make it seem like they're so much happier without you They're living it up now Things are so much better But I can promise you most of them are just Sitting at home alone doing nothing Watching TV You just have to remember when they were with you I mean you spent a lot of time with them You know exactly what they are like You know what you had to deal with You know all of the problems Those things don't just go away It stays with them It carries on in another situation Wherever they go So Don't ever think that they've just gotten away with it They never get away with it Everything they do it comes back to haunt them It follows them So yeah that's it That's how moving on really affects them Just enjoying my walk through here In nature If this video was helpful please give it a thumbs up down below Helps the YouTube algorithm Helps to support our community And share your thoughts down in the comment section below Share the video Hit that subscribe button if you haven't yet Then you will receive Notifications for my future videos And if you would like to book a coaching session with me You can go to my website Snarks5 at the code UK And check out my pictures and videos on Instagram There's new ones every day Snarks5 on YouTube and Instagram Alright I'm going to continue the rest of my walk I hope you enjoy the video And there will be more videos very soon