 Welcome back. This is why in the morning, thank you for joining. If you're just tuning in, this is the second conversation on MCM and we're talking about our mums because, you know, we have just celebrated Mother's Day. So, what is that one thing in ye? Okay, so what is that one thing that you remember your mum for? Talk to us, the hashtag is why in the morning at Y254 channel at Stephanie Yeta. Tell us that one thing in yama mami kwen bia. So, to discuss this conversation, we have a panel here and we have Jamu, a comedian, and we have Charity. So, they'll introduce themselves as we start. Jamu, what do you do? Ladies first. All right, ladies first. Hi guys, I am Charity Wangare, mother of a 13-year-old. Mother? Mother of a 13-year-old. Happy Mother's Day. Thank you. Related. So, from being a mother, what else do you do? I sell cars, I broker cars. So, you are a business lady? Yeah. All right. Yeah. So, sign out to the men. So, mine. My name is Jamu Desin. I'm an artist, comedian, funny man, lover boy. Ish, titles. Sawa, sawa. Comedyani, what type of comedy do you do? I can do both. I can do stand-up, but nabadune na nafanyizi shotski, comedian pranks. Ah, okay. Sawa, sawa. Charity, yesterday was Mother's Day, were you celebrated? Yeah, by my daughter and my friends. Ah, awesome. How does it feel to celebrate your mother during this special? It's awesome. It's good, yeah. And you had the chance to celebrate your mom? She's not with us. She went with the Lord last year, June 23rd. But we still celebrate her. I also have sisters, I have aunts. Yeah. They live on, the memories live on. The memories live on. Okay. So, let's get into our conversation, Leo. So, to me say, what is that one thing Jamu? Yene, mamiyeshe kwa mbeni yu jisa hao. So, one thing... But before you, sorry, she took her t-shirt. Kuna, there's a clip in Yena Onyesha, what, you know, how African moms typically are. So, let's have the video. Killa Ketu. Kana hajaizu kwa wite huzote naen. Iliku okae. Amuka kwa yaa. Mam... Masiwa, giniu takuwa siting room. Na bedroom, kwen na hiku kwa yumba? Nene, masiwa hiku bedroom a giniu naka modi takuwa siting room. KwaXitengo? Sufisha bedroom, kwita kwa ma.... Na maiuku? Ameva kitengu. Manbisi, hiku kwa mawa kama na taka pesa na nami mi sina. Eh. Manbisi kwa wanyumba. Manbisi kwa wanyumba. Neme hender kwaum. Na nase kia na wuma Ketu. a job a job A job a job a job A job I'm a profession Pilled up We work with the bones because it did not Или work ziobo ziene zioshwe mimi mi mamayako siwezi kukusa na tenda niku fagie kila kitu kwa hiu? kuna jaizo vituzo utenain iliku wukai amuka kutia na bedrum kwa na hiku wanyumba tenya nesa hi bedrum wakiniwa na kutia kwa sitting nu kutia kwa sitting nu sefisha bedrum nama na kuita wakiniwa nama iubi nama iba kitangia mwa bisiko nima mwa wakiyama nata kutisha na mimi seina mwa bisiko wanyumba mwa bisiko wanyumba nima henda town na sikia na wakiyama hiu ni maleria na nesa na nama wakiyama mamu nubu na nimi ebu kuya ebu maleria mamu na wakiyama nubu ni maleria nubu na fanya hiu biyaba nili hiu wa tu ni maleria ayu wesi kusa hiu wa tu hiu meza tu maleria mamu na sikia ni maleria well well well that is how the typical African man is flakwame fanya hiu kitu ya ni amesa maria wukiyuma na tumu ya ni wukuna maleria asha diagnose what the problem is that is the typical African man many other things that we want to have so you were telling us Jemu ni ni ni yo mama shei kwa bia niya wuna bakasa hiu wuna kumbuka mamu mamu nimi say fanya ali ni ambiya on thing that ame wuna poverty what is poverty na aizipenda ccp ya tu piti ya yo poverty line ya maybe ali shei piti ya then hiu ni kaji ya kiya like lazima ni omoke lazima ni make up proud lazima ajuwe like we can change this situation na tu ya ke tu another situation then another thing akani ambiya kuna deyana fanya ame tokata awana enda kuliku wana jam suwaka wana magari zime ja tika supaha hiu akani ambiya akani ambiya liu kuliku wana jam nimo wana magari lakini atawana na juwes kumoja tanini kafu liu ki kani bless nika juwa e kumbi ija niya kumoka niu kuel niu kueli mama kisha sema and there's something about mums waki sama piawe uta kwa na gariya ko I don't know if it's every mom or it's just some because it happened to me mama wama gariya ko lazima niita panda the same for you charity yaa like mums wana kwa ga twosawa wana pata like bitufani kama sabile iofla kwa li kwanasema wana pata utusimata wukom gonjo ame mejifanya wana kwa kuna iletai muku primary school uta kikwenda shule wuna wana so wuna jifanya wukom gonjo hiu shule wuna enda wuna ponea gambele wuna enda kuponambele then iikwen karejim wile lady anafa kwa as much as miil kwa wana inaka kinda we are praising men to her my mom was elderly she was 17 at the time so ni wale wa iso enzi wale like the men ni wako respectiwa bitukama iso but now her talking about success wile kitu usema miim sii tokative wile kwa wana jwa gatu alafu anasimanga mii wile usipo change you can never get married wuna witu kama ni kama ni ukweli ni kuja kupika 34 sii oni kuna enda aji wuna kwa kuli enda aji wuna kwa ni alisema ni wuna wini ukali witu kama iso but i still fresh her kutu umbea mami kwa na muka gasa atisa na muka na tu umbea wuna skia metaja I have 3 sisters kuna I have 3 brothers kwa na muka na tu umbea kila M2 na familiya ya kewewe nabuwa naako na watitoa ako still today it is keeping us going prayer zama you get many people saying prayers of my mother that has brought me here wuna skia mse anasima we wuna bisha na na mii mi uji ima umbea mamangu na una love so powerful wama adi usi mama na wa say and we still in stress at the moments and I know ataki wa wuko atasa indi wa poa she is there so ana tu ana we are still blessed jamu what is your comment on this how African mums, the typical African mums they are prayer warriors mii mama mamangu ni pasta so you can dilate lakini kingi ya kwenyumba suji wu pasta wu potea wana kwa mamangu kwa zuki fanya kazi doa na jamu nani ana kakanga suji mamangu wu kwangaji anita imenye umbe fanya kazi anasiki anga poa kipigia kelele kuna I love kuna I love kini chom w нашi wu chitukosaw wna kwa kwa nani wenti mathevia na kujalik wana pwena tukwa external situation wona kumukwa inim daye naka kwa mathevia naka mathevia mawa ya ita kanyumba ita kikitumoza ana zeka ana zeka kizu maa li tukwa kiti atu fanya kazi relied how I got my heart inu alakon So it was for instance my dad used to tell me we already went there, and then and 꿈 sed us with digests. He used to call us sentries. Now we're in the underground area then. Dad has them now? Digests? If you go lool and come back you have to go there? It is found that it used to be a small, crowded land in Uwauto, which is why my dad used to take the truck. he had never left the sad memories. The dramaarked ones were being played like every winter there were concert halls like this. bru kawm generusti~!! Ni mekozoku wa ini nako kiwa mama Uno na kisha Okoni maktu n合a Zime kewa wajufi ещё matuception know what else happened to these kids here, koo say may dream True real this happen yourself. M annually m ma ma ma So Jemu, you know, for African mums, what is it about them being so strict waqitulia? And then when they have grandparents, Una dekeza Una dekeza, grand children Una baka watu chakwa na kwa na mamangu ni mstikta Fadali kwa gana Kwa gana shushu So what is it about that? Tuli ya mawa nga na bro Tuki yanda kwa shushu Tuni yanda kwa mbiya shushu ati mama na sumba Mada na se maga Nini mi? Nini mi? Nini mi? Nini mi? Yata nii kwa nini Iza tiyi kifanya kazi na bada Oni yo e furti nii mwa mbiya Mam Mwa ziti tu toka apa ati hai tokka Toka wenda Siisidu na mwa ziti tu toka apa Oma laika rumana Ufa yo La kini madihahangu laiki Faya Misaha watu And back to you Charity, what is that one thing, some of the characteristics of mums in the common characteristics of African mums? Ku drama tu, drama lazimai kuwe, then wako loving either way as much as wako dramatic, they are so loving Adi ule mama cheezy kuwa street, anapenda wa totoake, una una Ata ule mwenye like does, aku eni muizia manafanya vitu tu, wea, dama vitu tu umbaya When it comes to her children, they mean well to them Oh mother hell Kabisa, kabisa like, hakuna compromise, naeza chapam totoango, ama naeza umfanya anything, me binda una, me bini unfair Uteni una, una Uma get, mimi naza fanya, naeza muambia, ata ini think to behave unimki, muambia, me nimcritizize maybe But the moment kuna kuja ata kama ni mamangu ita ni uma, ata kama ni mamangu ami amtitu, una Ata kama ni sistangu ama, bradangu, it's just mother's surprises There's a time, okay, I don't know kama ni mimi, but you know when maybe a neighbor comes kushtakim toto kama mamangu You know, when you're to your mom Hataku difendi kuwa wea neighbor But, wukuna ni umutajeka wa something I don't know if this has happened to you Jibu Eh, siniwa mma Parents Parents, what you having, like, lazimu a protect ma kids, wa Ata kama lazimu a protect, lazimu ata putitia Mima deyango na zanititia publicly Naki ninda ni anyumbanda wa tadil na Oh, adapitia publicly kwenyumbanda wa tadil na A tadil na me bini inafa Okay Then, there's this, so, like Piwa wana penda kwa impresse, like sasa Awa zazi Ata, vilu me sema Uko inje, ita kuwa Adataka kujiwa ni nini nulifanya, unona Ata kama ata jifanya apani ni nini But ita kuina muma, as much as ata ku difenda kuina muma So, leta utaskiyoti metoka From nowhere, kitu Alicia's 3 years ago Viletu mefraie, unafkiria umemekit, my friend Pa, meyatili, ana Kilkila, kitu mora Pa, ralime, ana But We still have our African mum Let me read some of the comments over here on social media When you're atwana sema So, social media, let me remind you tumulizani What is that one thing inye mama kwa shekwa bianye How joisa, how mmbakaleo Mtu ame sama Hey, hey Wachito angum tebidi That is shish Asa, wachito angum tebidi Wafani kazi Wawenzenu Love you, mami This advice always keeps me on the move Struggling to be the best Wow, some wise advice Fred shakia liyambiwa One is only poor when he chooses to be Mm-hmm We have CJ anasema Chenehua unatafta uta pata Nani li pata nikatulia Is that phrase familiar to you? Nani unatafta po inje Una pata unatulia Una pata unatulia Nani ni michapa kibukuyangwa Bentot by the ones Let me relax, kidongo Yeah, we have also Biva asa ma Ali niyambiwa Angeli kwa Ali nii zaliahosi Anga sama badakchariu Wazim patili siyamtoto Atimi misikai kwa mtu siya Ushemi wajima kitu karibuna hiyo Oh, oh How different are you? Papa anasijai fika iyo extend kumari I think I think on wala hitu wa sumufu kabisa Then the parent My mum was in umtua church Kuna witu piya Ata enda kusema atafunga mndumonona Mi maybe neza sema Maybe Dambia tumtoto unona But so sa the parents Angi kwa mbia kitu kama hiyo Like the Christian background Engi mkubalia As much as Yeah Lakinu maybe kuna witu anasema Agatuko related But kuhila kuhi achatu hivi Ita kwangumu Ita kwa chik I'm not mother saying I'm very strong So we should People should ensure At least Inumichita to safe Nama ma Kusama waz But the parents Both of them They are very strong To us Jemun kwa naksama Nuna kanika unta kwa inga Niku anta kusema Maybe wokidana I'm too cold to excess Spansion Every now and then Lakinu kuna temtu Ushesumu Witu mamasama Webani wangu kuhil Yeni Ene So What are some of the You know Nini Why are African mums So difficult to deal with What Some of the reasons Maybe Why African mums So difficult to deal with Yoni kwa ni nature Abin bringing pia Yoni nature Because Sidwine Mi uli zamade Kama ukoivim kale Ukiwam shoshu ota tulia kuele Like kumama ke na konga Shoshu na konga Tulia sanadi Wezi wezi wezi Nini So Mashaanganda Nini e titu Nini e titu ea Nini e titu ea Last ma bad news I Ju analea Kwanza na easy precious Zalive Like Ever Unona Nini African culture Vileo Tuko Wameko Brote Eikuwa easy As much as mulu kwa nakila kitu Easy Mila na de story Zingekwa maybe zime kanda miza Wama In one way or the other Unona Una jua The moment life me kwa kakapresha Akuna wile uta kuatu me bambika na life Uta kuatu na kabita neska me gifiche Unona So ata kualife Unona jua What you receive is what you give Like una subject Kenye me Iko kwa kondo Unalewa Like Inge kwa kona Maybe love Understanding as a woman You know life Ya monam kenye very hard Precious Moa be So Ako iwo So and expect the same way Iwono na fahu kuena usipo kuwa Wile ya ya li kuwa lazima ata ku Finya unona Liza me ikuwe Mukwenam kuwaruza ano Ya it's life Pura vituza unona We are supposed to change from our typical Mamsua to how we are We are raising Our generation is raising The children Our children We should Lakin ni nungu Mini me jaribus yon nika ineza me I find you I us make Ash African all the way African all the way Twenda tuki endaga Buta jaribu kuwangeza to vitu But me neza sema Apart from loving I think ni Mostly ni necha Like ata ni madem Like ni usumbua Madem usumbua Na weze sema ti unasumbua Bo yati no Nataka akweivi akweivi no Yoni necha Yoni ni necha Apart from loving Ni inbon Miliu Bua chitapu aje inbon This is the African Uke nga liya kwa western They are different So is it a matter of Ni hivu dan ni atu Amani it's a matter of How they were raised It's not like ati ni different It's only that Uwa kwa nai shi Ni ito ni Isisit diotuko that world Awa kwa ni ni Ako world gani Ile developed Yo sasa It's only that Uko resources are Since mutoto Generations are Life me kwa soft Ni to baby girl Uto tumse So by the time Wana grow Wana kwa waka tupua Laki ni piyabado Wana sumbuwa They also have their issues So aze tu nile How we relate with the family Awa kwa na masida zingine Uko kind of Of which maybe ata ni Umukulu kwa zee tu wana But now being Being a woman As much as ana sema ti Tu na sumbuwa ga We just want things to be Zikwe steady Zikwe all day Wana We want things out the lift Tuna chakamu fanya hivi So aze not Still as much as I'm a control freak But Kuna biletu na takaga Witu zikwe Alafutu na nani ni kamaata Amu elewi na on So Simuwe Tu na henda tuki henda aga Mando ni ufusuwa na umeku elewa Nya simuna And why not Kwan ni ni musi elewa Nafum tu elewa maze Piya ni tu Ebu jemoka na ni What are some of the things Maybe Maybe one to You know we can't be perfect Afrikan mums can't be perfect What are some of the One to three things Maybe onee zataka What change As in sisi to change As we raise our kids One thing neze seima Like unadzua As in Parents unapaku treat Like same unaparenta ki treat mitu Yana fam treat na generation Anapadzua Like miata mama angu maze mi Si duya lakini mama angu mi Anani yanga James When him toto badu Nisi kuna na atan Mam ni mam Anapa elewa maze atatu Kasiu si upi guna koto Ame toma Kwa live TV Kiyoi katwa Like na seima Parents unapaku treat Watu na generation Yana generation wene Time wene iko Like saive wene wali kuna treati wakitambo Sisi saive wene unapu treat mitu Like unadzua kitambo naskia Mitu ame wana badu Natandi kuna mzaze So unadzua sayu wezi Sayu life wene Maybe life wama generation Yeni tuku wezi Fanya ke nini hapen kitambo And speaking matters of beating Do you think that the african mam beating is a little bit too much? Saana maiparena Saana kuwanda Yani like Unatapu watu adi uko high school Umatapu wende high school nila kumbukunen na Sidi kama zileisha Umat Na ziona Na ziona Na ziona zione So Unatapu watu nuko high school Nia atambuhi kama Saise uchapem toto high school Anani na ziona wana ziona na ziona na ziona Na ziona But the youth are taking things differently Afukunemtyu kakoment eko maenika Yatimu maimawa mailuko eka Anani kapa Inapuchepeo makosa Kufanya But you think it's jokes Tzili kuna fumonnya niliko a chepa Maybe you wanna mma flako Mama flako I say Mama flako Ya, kumawaflakan, aka fweju Ya, zaku chua apatu Ya, cian ni content creation ...but kuno告訴 one another fweju Ya, kuna hiki na kwehu Ya, nikwe li Like, sampai maja wama zwe Aatu eziongelile ya