 what's up guys I just made a quick video for you just to sort of let you guys know about someone's comment someone left a comment on a video saying they were struggling with lucid dreaming they're getting stressed out because they couldn't do it and this happens to a lot of people lots of people lots of you I know message me saying you know I'm trying everything you're saying I've you know read these articles but I'm just not lucid dreaming what's going on and and people get stressed out about it you know people say like I've tried everything for a month there's no hope the world ending they sort of panic and this guy just left his comment I think his name was like Gabriel yeah Gabriel left this comment on one of my videos and he just said a great piece of advice I heard was to just stop caring whether you lose to dream and I thought well that's actually really good advice like I it's such good advice that I thought I needed to make a video to show this with you to share this with you guys because it's gonna help you and just if you're if you're stressing and if you're worried and if you're thinking and you're in the mindset of I'm trying everything so therefore I should definitely have a lucid dream why am I not having a lucid dream just just try stopping caring whether you have one or not and often you'll find that you more than more often than not that lets you have one because with a lot of things like for example when you when you're trying to go to sleep right if you if you if you try to go to sleep you find that by trying to do it you you stop yourself doing it you have to let yourself it's like Alan what says you have to sort of let yourself do certain things you know you have to let yourself relax you can't try to relax because by trying to do some things you the process of trying actually stops you doing it so it was literally me it's fairly similar you sure you can try and do it and you can do you can perform techniques and you can learn things but at the end of the day it's something that happens almost on its own I mean there are some things that you do to influence it of course but especially if you're if you're struggling you know if you're trying everything you can on your and you're really trying to sort of force it to happen just try for even for a week or two just stop caring whether it happens or not keep doing what you're doing but don't be stressed a lot of people wake up in the morning and they think oh like shit I didn't have a lucid dream why not and they get sort of stressed about it and they start you know leaving comments saying like I tried so-and-so but I woke up and I just had a normal dream what and they're sort of angry about it almost that's the wrong mindset it's something that you need to relax into so I'll keep this video short that's all I wanted to say today and but if you if you're new out here please subscribe I'm gonna be making a lot more videos and also go and check out my other channel I started a vlogging channel on my iPhone it's called dream vlog and you can find it on the it's in the description and also on my channel there's like a thing on the sidebar which is subscribe to these people it's one of those channels and you should also subscribe to my friend Lucid Leila because her channel is awesome I see the next video