 All right guys welcome back to the 21 convention we have our our next speaker is the only Speaker that will be speaking twice at this event this year Even though he believes that computers are going out of style He will be teaching you online game and how to use your computer to pick up women. Here's the man himself. Bravo. Welcome, man Thank you. Thank you All right, so yesterday When I spoke last time It was about self-defense and tactical training and I mentioned that I was in a firearms training tactical training all that Stuff before I got in to pick up what a lot of people don't know is I was actually married when I was 23 years old we had a house two cars all that stuff and actually after a Miss carriage things started going downhill. I really wanted things to work out She didn't she wanted to call it quits. So after less than a year we had to get divorced and I One of the worst parts of getting married and like less than a year later getting divorced Did you have all these gifts and all this family that came out and saw you and you feel so horrible? Because they spent all this money like I was like do I give gifts back? I didn't know what to do It was fucking heartbreaking. Luckily though the housing bubble was at the perfect time So we sold our house. We made like a hundred grand Split it worked out well for us. She didn't buy another house afterwards got hosed. I read it. I knew anyways, um, I Don't get joy out of that though so anyways, I Don't that'd be petty so I really don't I don't I wish you as well. But anyways So I started out on this and a lot of guys it really bugs me when guys say oh I'm a natural and I got into this stuff and I knew what to do because I didn't especially when I was divorced I was crushed my spinal cord had been like compressed down. I felt like Not like a man anymore I'd let myself go to I erased all those files from my brain of how to talk to girls because I didn't want to deal with that anymore and One of the things to I wanted to also improve my life was I didn't want to be to the point where I had to settle For a girl like I remember when I got divorced one of the very first things I thought was man I'm damaged goods now. What girls are gonna want to date a guy like me I'm gonna have to lower my standards like before I didn't want to date chicks that had kids Now I should probably do that because what chicks gonna want to date a divorced guy Maybe I wouldn't date chicks that weren't that cute before now I might have to because I'm tainted that really sucked to think like that and when I started I started realized I needed a change in my life. I wasn't happy with where I was going. I wasn't positive I was reliving the past over and over again in all my past failures. So I started this self-help self-improvement journey on my own Quit doing the tactical training started co-running a yoga studio health and wellness studio with a friend Start working on self-improvement and it wasn't wasn't for about six seven months later. I read about this book the game Reddit read it in three days went out started using this stuff and Couple months later Neil style was doing a seminar. I ended up going to it with my wingman. We met him He offered me I ended up staying for free for that and on the end of the second day He actually asked me to help teach a little bit later. I went to New York with them for a seminar boot camp I helped teach there and I went from junior coach to senior coach to eventually executive coach where I moved out to LA And I lived there for like the last five years running the company the coaching staff Full-time 40 plus hours a week in field training phone coaching boot camp seminars all that stuff So I'm pretty good at this pickup stuff About a year ago. I started my own company. I have my own website Bravo pu a calm and Part of it is I have a free forum a blog All this stuff's free one thing that always pissed me off was guys who aren't on their own forum posting I'm the number one poster on my site. I think my form is pretty solid Lots of free content lots of free information. I'm on it all the time I try to answer as many posts as I can too, but if not there's other guys on my site I use a belt system like Brazilian Jiu Jitsu so you can see there's purple It's brown belts that are on it posting, you know, these guys are legit. I give every single one of those out So anyone that has one is solid My online game 2.0 program The only difference with that is the video that we're about to see now is on my forum and all the new stuff that I come Up with that. I'm always testing and tweaking also gets put in this section of the forum So it's my 2.0 program because it's always getting updated and all my members are always posting new stuff there Also, so it's user driven content. We all help each other out Also critique people's pages you can go there you read all the critiques I've done of other people's pages and you can learn a lot from that if you just take notes from here You're gonna learn a lot, but that's just a program offer and it's a hundred and sixty nine dollars So one of the biggest problems guys use is online game. They don't use it correctly Online game is not a replacement for cold approaching Guys who get into this they think they use it as a crutch and they end up not using it properly Which you should be going out you need to be going out and doing cold approaches because if you don't have the balls And the confidence and the skill to do that Then when you go on a date with a girl online a lot of times you're gonna fuck it up because that shy Awkwardness is gonna come through so I recommend this just supplements your game. You're online You use it a little bit. You can't go to sleep Screw around at work or school hop on send some messages. That's it It was also useful if You want to practice your dates? Maybe sex too? Why you're still working on your cold approach skills because you can be getting dates using this but like I say This is just something that's just part-time not your focus too many guys get into this They quit cold approaching and they just use this I didn't even get into online game for a couple years after I moved out to LA because I just didn't want to focus on it I wanted to work on my my real game The other thing you can do too and I'll explain this a little bit more later is when you travel somewhere And I did this with the London when I went there a little bit ago for a seminar I set my profile up saying I lived in London beforehand I was going there for a work event and I was gonna scout it out because I might be thinking about moving there That's not necessarily dishonest because I might move to London So I needed like a tour guide or someone to help me out So I had girls lined up before I even went there and one of them traveled over four hours to come see me So different sites People use Facebook and they think Facebook is good for gaming. I use it a different way I want my Facebook page to be awesome, and I want people who then look me up online girls Think they're being sneaky and they search me up or Someone that maybe I Facebook close when they go to my page I want my page to be money to where they look at it and that Does the work for me? So you want to have cool pictures up? Cool funny status updates up I put lots of that stuff up and I give everyone here permission just to copy and paste the shit I use and just what instead of sharing it from my page though go to the source and then do it that way So it looks like you found it and one of the funny things I see is online I'll post something and 30 minutes later someone else will post it and there's all these comments from his friends Where do you find this stuff? This is so funny and I obviously it's for me I give you guys permission to do that I don't use Facebook to game girls because to me it's just there's so many other so much other competition The girls aren't in the right headspace in my opinion to get hit on in Facebook guys teach it to me I just think my time can be used more effectively and more efficiently this comes from my martial arts and tactical training background So I don't want to have to spend a lot more time on something if I can spend five minutes on a dating site Or five hours on Facebook to get the same results My space it's dead some people still use it look at the camera to don't use my space Even though Justin Timberlake or something bought it. They're trying to bring it back instead match.com e-harmony those cost money I'm cheap. I don't want to have to spend any money if I don't have to e-harmony you can't even check out girls yet You got to like pay and like get matched up or something with them like I was trying to scan girls I couldn't see if they're hot or not fuck that free dating sites craigslist Usually used by prostitutes. It's um Any girl that would go on craigslist and put up an ad my classy. I don't want to I don't want to go out That type of girl Okay, Cupid. I'm using that now it's getting better, but most of the people who are on okay Cupid There's these tons of these questions and quizzes and all that stuff and that's stuff that girls like I don't like any of that stuff I don't fucking waste hours answering dumb quizzes But unless it's like a zombie quiz or something like some of those are kind of funny, but that's it I'm always like the number one guy. I'm the guy that would live everyone else would die But anyways with okay Cupid stuff It seems like most girls get into that and they like investing all that time and it's not as like rapid fire and fast Like the other dating site I use so it works But really what I recommend is finding a site on the next one I'm going to show you creating a profile that works and then I just copy and paste it on other ones So you can use it that way so which site do I recommend? Plenty of fish now