 And this made me really think about how we choose people in our lives because I think for the most part, most humans have a broken picker. They don't know how to pick a good partner in their life, those at least that have options. In other words, they get enough emails in their inbox, you know, from dating sites and they get, for women, if you're getting asked out, if you're at least have, it's on a scale from one to 10, if it's, if you're capable of a six, seven, eight or nine, in other words, you're getting attention from men that are interested in you, then it's all about picking. And the same goes for men as well. The problem is, and I've been really contemplating a question that came up in my most recent live stream was most everybody starts off dating as kind of they're on their best behavior. Okay?