 Yeah I agree I think it's also because women are much better at masking or I don't know if they're better they just feel like they should mask I don't know because I definitely did mask a lot in my youth if I look back because I didn't know how I was supposed to act I had no clue so I used to just pick up on other people's behaviors and tone of voice and the way that they would interact so that I could fit in and I actually think that is another part of like why autistic people are more prone to mental health conditions because we're like expected to fit into like this mold and like everyone else and I always like think of it and describe it as like being neurodivergent in a world that's like designed for neurotypicals so it's really just I don't know how we're supposed to be comfortable enough to be ourselves in a place that doesn't make us feel able to be