 Don't let people weigh you with the broken scales of their own life. A lot of people want to weigh someone else's life, even though the scales in their own life are so broken. A lot of people want to speak into your life, guide you, counsel you, whose own lives are still living in the brokenness of unforgiveness and offence, or prejudice, or bias, or toxicity, and yet they want to advise your life, but their own brokenness is incapable of giving you any accurate reading about your life. Don't allow people the privilege of weighing you up who are incapable of giving any accurate weighing at all. When brokenness and pain becomes wisdom and an act of service to others, that's fine, but until then it's not fine. Don't get advice from people whose scales are broken.