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Yeah, bless tribe Met a young brother and he reached out to me and he has a Nice setup nice skill set and that's what I try to tell y'all You got the little right You have got to live right when I tell y'all I I started living my life right Cleaning up to where God hear your prayers a lot of time we don't believe that but God hear your prayers and I don't know if I told y'all this but I tragically Lost my videographer Last year December 27th, I believe is the date that he Lost his life in a car accident And I didn't use him for youtube videos but we did a lot of the courses on tony gaskins academy and just his His spirit and his gift Well I was meeting different people And they just didn't have what he had just Just a hunger and not being greedy And then I got a message from a young man and he said hey You know, I'll come and show you how to do the podcast stuff So now don't y'all get too used to this right away because I ain't gonna be on here like this all the time We just testing it out until we could get something set up but He came and Set it up showing me this how it works now a lot of people They know how to do all this stuff themselves. I do not care to do it myself. Leave it up to me I'm on my cell phone or I'm just on my desktop. I don't care to do this myself I rather pay somebody to do it so that they could get blessed To operate in their gifting while I could focus and operate in my gifting And both of us be taken care of by the lord now we got Dinner coming uber eat so I ain't gonna be on here too long So if you have some questions, you can pop up put you some questions on here Dominique welcome Now I still have not and I may not get to do it But somebody was telling me, you know, they wanted me to do a a recap of the interview that I did and I did the interview. I have not watched the interview. So I really don't have a full recap I have not watched the interview and I typically don't watch my interviews back and I've seen that another young brother I believe his name is shoemaker way Could be saying that wrong way, but he did a reaction and he From what I could hear him saying He understood what I was saying and he Agreed with my points that I was making and he had a few minions in his comments that was Saying crazy stuff, but you know how the worldwide web is and they were saying It just really was it was mind-boggling to me Just like one of the guys I think it was a man said Nobody made Tony calling himself an expert or a guru and y'all know that's my key thing is that I never use those terms He was like Tony discrediting these other people, but then calling himself an expert or a guru I've never once called myself an expert or a guru and then People were saying that I talked to the man in an un-christian like way And I'm like how is a christian talk? I did not yell. I did not curse And I told him to take the bass out of his voice because he was raising his voice And what it sounded like to me And so and then he said that He wasn't raising his voice. That's how he talked on his videos and I was just letting him know Well, I'm not one of your videos You talking to a man So don't get an aggressive tone with me and People talking about I was talking to him un-christian like I'm like, I ain't say nothing to him So that was the thing I just Thank you, it's myriad. I appreciate you I appreciate you It's like people who they're gonna people gonna be committed to misunderstanding if they want to but I just I say I can't and my thing is this is not about This crediting anybody is just I believe that we speak from where we are And that even myself I tell people all the time. I don't know what test is gonna come at 20 years of marriage But I could tell you what test I've faced in 16 years And I'm wise enough and humble enough to know that I don't know what 25 years is gonna do That's when my parents went through Their divorce at 25 years or so they had known each other 25 years And I see people at 30 and 35 years go through a divorce A lot of empty nesters go through a divorce after they've been functioning So it's going to be tests and spiritual warfare. But my thing is about framing the conversation Framing the conversation and saying what you need to say Speaking from your perspective, but letting it be known what your perspective is And that's it and me I didn't even have to entertain the conversation But I did because had I not I did because I welcome it I welcome having conversations across the aisle from different viewpoints and different opinions because I know mine I know what I stand on and I know it's going to stand and test the time And so I was not worried or afraid at all And one person's like, oh Tony was scared or something how he was moving That was that was me dealing with the spirit. That was me Moving and staying in the spirit so that I didn't get out of character And really go off but Me and the gentleman's supposed to have a call tomorrow And just talk, you know man to man no cameras or none of that And just have a conversation And I welcome talking to anybody. It's just I know what I stand on and what I believe I'm 30 years old and have been single for 10 years I'm starting to think that I won't get married or have kids Can you give me any advice for when I have those thoughts? Well, you 30 You're still a baby And one thing that I tell people all the time is that If you are with somebody 10 years 10 years could feel like a lifetime So you don't have to what you have to be focused on when you're single is you got to be focused on your three bees brains brand body brains brand body because when you Work on those areas You start we just did the growth club call and we did it on the same setup But on a private link for the growth club and that's the monthly Set up that we have the group coaching and somebody said Tony. I've been working on my three bees and I have been attracting Men men been approaching her and she said they asked for her Her for her number, but then not calling so Once again with that That's another it's another step now. It's another hurdle. So understand that Spirits attract spirits repel So You it'll be impossible to work on yourself and not see some type of results. It'll be impossible So just keep working on yourself in this season and a lot of times you that is about you are in Protective custody is what I call it And sometimes when you don't meet somebody and They're not they're not approaching you. You need to ask yourself Should I be writing my book in this season? Should I be starting my nonprofit organization? Should I be losing weight? Should I be gaining weight? Should I be transitioning jobs moving cities? Like what should I do in my single season? That needs to get done that I can create give it legs and let it stand on its own two legs Because when you get into a relationship Things change drastically because you now have to answer to somebody because you got to be on the same page You got to be on one accord and that's sometimes what we don't realize I was working during that exchange having done all stand and you did it terrifies people to witness an unmoving christian fearless And no skeletons and that's that's that's one of the things I've seen a lady say Oh, it's all his skeletons finna come out and it's like I don't have any skeletons other than what I done brought out I when I came into this I brought my skeletons out because you can't see a change in somebody if you don't know what they come from and They were using My story against me Like the stuff that I've taught the stuff that I told about myself Which is my testimony They were using that to try to discredit me to say Oh, Tony isn't qualified to speak on this because of who he has been But you wouldn't know who I've been unless I told you So I just say, you know what? I'm not worried about that We finna just go for it with the work and the work going to get done and the work going to be seen the Revolution will be televised We will be doing the work of the lord and it will be unapologetic It will be live and direct. It will be real raw and righteous and you're gonna see that What the lord is doing It ain't gonna be able to be ran from and we're gonna have to draw a line in the sand and you're gonna have to pick your battles But in picking them battles, you're gonna have to choose a side And so I know what side I'm on Tony I'm in a situation right now At times I feel like giving up and that I can no longer be strong anymore I don't want a pity party, but I feel like my prayers aren't being answered days in that like somebody just said Having done all stand that right there You got to make sure first that you that you really doing all you can do Do all that you can do And even then stand there for even the more so first make sure you're doing all that you can do Because when you do all that you can do You will not be forsaken It may be a season But you got to remember that god won't put more on you than you can bear And you also have to remember That even joe who was god's most faithful in that time Was tested and what happened to him was worse than what happened to criminals and crooks But he went through And on the other side He received double for his trouble and you have to understand so what I started to do is I started to shift I started to shift to where When the more issues I have like the more problems the more drama the more Tight times that I have I started to Appreciate it and relish in it and just remind myself that A breakthrough is on the way a breakthrough is on the way because I am living by the principles And god is not a man that he should lie. So it's impossible For me to live by the principles of god And not receive the promises of god and that's what you have to realize And so once you get to that point You got to stick with it. Hey, thank you appreciate that If y'all put the hashtag q in front of your question, I'll see it I'm 30 but people say I look 22 I'm wondering why I track white men not so much black men I work in tech play soccer four times a week coach soccer Verse online dating Seems tempting Live in wealthy area Well 30 but look 22 That's a good problem to have and Attracting white men you could either look like what Those white men think a black woman like the picturesque black woman Or it could be your build And it also is becoming more of a trend and a fad One thing about men is men like notches in the belt men like experiences so Sometimes you're going to have a white man season where They want to taste the rainbow I wouldn't get too caught up in it. I wouldn't be sleeping around or giving your body away because it may not all be Real some you may meet somebody of another race that is authentic It's organic And it's for the right reasons, but when you're dealing with men Men are all the same And different at the same time So the same way A black man wants an experience and that's why you see some black men Date all different races But marry a black woman the same way some white men want To see if black or the berry sweeter the juice is a real thing And so Don't get caught up in it Men are visual creatures And you living in a certain area you living in a wealthy area if it's not a lot of people who look like you then You will attract different people from different walks of life. So understand that And You might have to do a like a feedback type session And the trail will move the tears I did not know that Yeah, they tried me Hi, tony. I have a white male stakeholder He's a svp We were in a leadership meeting and his direct report complimented my work He quickly changed the subject and looked annoyed Any advice White male stakeholder Is maybe that's a senior vice president We were in a leadership meeting And his direct report complimented my work. He quickly Changed the subject and looked annoyed any advice So that's corporate sis. I really don't it sound like you saying he had a report that he had to read and on that report The report was praising you And he looked annoyed and changed The the subject Is no advice I would say Be proud of that moment smile in that moment and keep showing up and showing up because What the good books say that God prepare a table Before your enemies So sometimes your name going to be spoken in the room Without your permission without you having to do Anything extra and you got to appreciate that and keep your foot on the gas because When you are gifted and when you call And you good at what you do and you working in that way you working as unto the lord You're going to be recognized and people nothing anybody tries to do will be able to stop you So I wouldn't need word that'll give me a little chuckle there I I give him a little chuckle off of that Why does it seem like men have a problem with actively listening? My husband and I are separated because he does not listen which has been detrimental to the marriage You set y'all got separated because he don't listen um key You might need to write in a little more about that because I'm hoping I don't go home to a separated wife because I struggle listening too, but I would use my own experience of why I struggle listening For me, it's because I am A provider for my household, but I'm also a servant Of god to the rest of the world So sometimes I My mind is wrapped up so much into the complexities of spiritual warfare That my wife me being on the front line and being a shield for her From the ways of the world Her daily concerns are far different than mine and so She may want to talk about just you know, there's normal little things, but I have to remind myself. Okay, Tony, you got to cut off You got to drop everybody else's problems and work and thoughts about bills bills and earning And actively listen like put your phone down. Look your wife in the eyes But the thing about it is is for men We're not as excited about Just those things more so a man is challenged and thinking about How can I do more in life in my purpose in my work? How can I earn more? How can I provide better? How can I grow? Get out of my shell. How can I Conquer and The reason why men don't oftentimes actively listen is because That department of getting a woman will compartmentalize and tell ourselves we've already accomplished that Now we need to put all of our interests and focus into accomplishing those worldly things And it has to be explained and a man has to understand He really has to be talked to in a way that You get his attention and then you talk to him directly and explain The need that you have of him listening and why you need him to listen And what it does for your mind what it does for your heart and what it does for the relationship But that is something that I have found Countless men including myself struggle with and I've heard that in my marriage over and over throughout the years you don't listen And sometimes I will deflect and say well, yeah, I'm thinking about How I'm gonna pay these bills But then I had to realize as a man I came to make excuses for myself Even if bill can't get paid If my wife knew I got to pay bills So if she want to talk that mean She won't bills to be put on hold and she want me to focus on what we're talking about right now so What you have to realize is we love differently We show love differently And that has to be explained that has to be understood and we have to have those conversations So think about that Trying to get through my college degree and your videos Give me hope hey keep going I think I'm gonna go back and get my degree Lord willing I might have to start a go from me I think I'm gonna go back get my degree Thanks, I wanted to ask if a program or assembly about good touch versus bad touch Abstinence treasuring your body etc is a good idea to try to talk to kids in school about And how should I start? Well, I feel like we used to have those talks in school back in the day, but That is something that It's up to the parent And to each parent it's different Like each parent is going to have different opinions about that different thoughts on that But you can do that as a community And You could even do it on a video on youtube And you can send that out to all your contacts to say hey if your child is at this age and they need to have An explanation about this you could also write a script for it Go on fiber And have a voiceover made and then also on fiber have a 2d or 3d cartoon made Like where it's just animated and not you trying to talk about it and you can put that on a youtube video And just let the algorithm do what it does As far as you as a person what I would recommend if you really feel passionate about it and you want to do it Then I would create a flyer and I would go into the city where you want to do it at and find a community center Or like a ymca boys and girls club or a library and see what rooms they have available For free or for rent and book that room like two months out Or a month out at the earliest and then go pass out those flyers and get people to come out and offer like pizza and drinks but that's something that It's kind of one of them things to where you almost got to educate parents To educate their kids Thank you Tony for all you do your recent videos have been much needed keep doing god's work Thank you very much. We're going to be talking about this Jezebel spear in my explanation and understanding everybody may explain it differently so But in my explanation and understanding and how I'm kind of coining it and phrasing it In my way, we're going to be talking about that and So y'all stay tuned because I'm seeing it grow I'm seeing it grow There was a breakthrough in the minds of those men. They know everyone has a price and in 30 years 30 plus years of life. It was the first time they saw someone whose only price Jesus He confronted them I believe that I believe that I can't remember what What were you talking about? Director at my soccer job asked me yesterday about my hair hair and how often I wash it Isn't that inappropriate? Then I was leaving. He said I may have more random questions for you like this But he's african flirting Yeah, he's probably flirting He's probably flirting And men just ask crazy stuff Men ask crazy stuff. I wouldn't Take it too seriously AT I really enjoyed the latest heartland initiated video I'm a single mom of two and find it difficult to balance everything kids activity job business home social church How do you balance? Well, it's an unfair question for me because You know, I'm married so I can't imagine the Being a single mom because when I leave town for a couple of days my wife You know, she gets it done. But she Call her mom. Her mom has to help her or another mom from school helps her It's like I have to have a village and then when I'm home We're able to pull it off and make things happen But even then sometimes we still have to call her mom or somebody and so That's another thing Hey dad It's a she she out there. So she probably about to bring it in And so that right there says you don't have to be very intentional With your daily calendar your daily schedule Be intentional in writing planning your tomorrow today and writing that down and really Being focused and locked in on that my hell you Hey, god bless you My hell you I think it is Orals Madam. Oh back to shan. What I'll tell you Is god don't make mistakes in them 24 hours So god knew that some men would lose some women would lose their husband to war to a hunting accident Divorce wasn't really A part of the plan god knew it would happen and that it was happening But it was more so given a woman to wear with all and the things she need in case she lost a man for other reasons But then even in that it still was intended for the brother to go and marry her back in the bible days Or the next of kin to marry her so That in itself shows me that We're not really intended to To have to do it alone. So anybody that's doing it alone. I commend you For that work and that effort you put in And that is even more reason to be very very intentional Be very intentional with your scheduling and planning your tomorrow today And if you break it down by the half hour You're gonna find that God don't make mistakes But hey, I got to go we ordered some food. We have an ape and I got my guest here Who is working the cameras and he has an ape so I need to make sure he get fed And I'm not sure if I'll be able to Come back on but we we definitely want to try this out. Now. Don't y'all get used to this now till we get something set up Hi, Tony. I feel my optimism slash strong faith gets me In disappointment. I see people Potential before they see it themselves Like they're in a state of pessimism. How do I set boundaries for this trait? Well, you got to use the word You got to use the word the bible tell us not to be so quick to be Assurance for insurance for a man Just meaning that and the bible tell us will know the tree by the fruited bears so you got to use the word and That word will tell you to take your time And you should put your faith In god not in people. It's not about seeing people potential It's about knowing the power of god and if a person is willing to tap into the power of god Then you know god could work the debt demolish the god bless you god bless you So to be blessing me down So to be blessing me Thank you. Hey y'all keep me going when I got off of that lie And they was on there and I was on there and I had them spent You know a lot of money Getting me and my team up there. We drove up there and I'm taking care Our living quarters and food and all of that And they was on there and they was raising money and they was like hey donate this money for the questions and You know, I don't set up business deals on that stuff like hey pay me this pay me that but when I got off the live I had Cash out and I was like wow Somebody thought about me on this here cash out and sent me a blessing. So I just want to say thank you because You know, I did not mention that or bring that up But y'all looked out for me and I really appreciate that And it was for me saying You know keep going Yellow shonda. I got the mic tonight now. I ain't gonna have the mic all the time Till I get my guy full time or till I get my mic and stuff set up, but I don't know how to do this type of stuff. So It's it's the young brother that's doing this for me Mikaela if you ask three questions in a blessed tribe meeting For $1.99 a month that means you need a one-on-one session So you out there teaching that soccer that soccer is expensive So you might need your one-on-one session sister because it's the third or fourth time of seeing you on here now So hopefully your husband watching since you 30 in the evening. Thank you 22 But um You might need your one-on-one session Now I open my sessions only to the end of the year so you can see on my mentor dot life And then you click hire a coach. You'll see me on there Okay, that was I knew you're going to get a yeah, I'm okay. Look at all the questions. Yes Let's go the other session How important do you think it is to have social media nowadays? I don't have instant facebook snap only have linked in and read it. Do we really need it? Will it help with finding a man? It'll help with a man finding you you definitely should have social media Just to know what's going on in the world if anything But then also when you go out to eat on the weekend You could post your outfit of the day post it as a reel you could update your story You could follow different people comment in the post if you have healthy comments to where you just like amen or This is amazing You know people gonna see you they're gonna see you they're gonna like your comment They can see your the little ring around your picture because you posted in your story They're gonna check your story all of those type of things. So you definitely should have social media You definitely have social media But hey, I got to go. God bless y'all. I'm a pop back on here when I get an opportunity Typically, as y'all know, I'm doing this on the phone It's a new high tech next level what everybody else be doing, but I don't have this capability. So Shout out to my god gill. He came in and set this up and Made this work for me. He's showing me how it works. So I got to make an investment into some of the cameras and mics and Things of that nature and then once I figure this out and get it set up with my camera And could make it happen I ain't gonna be switching angles and all that when I'm doing it myself but we at least have us a nice little clear feed on here, but This is gill reached out to me. He said man Seeing you over here on this interview and they had 4k And then went to your page and seen that your video was grainy and you're using the cell phone He said I had to he said I need to reach out to this brother and share my gift with him so He is a good married man of god faithful to his wife doing the right thing and This was a prayer that I had that is proof that god answered your prayers that when you Are in Line you align and you trying everything you can the best you can To be right the do right to stay positive to keep going Your prayers eventually will get answered if it is god's will When dad told me he said the scripture you ask but you ask a miss Which meaning you ask him? But you asking for things that's not in god's will and you want your will to be done or you asking For the wrong reasons or for the wrong things, but what's in the will It is going to be done And i'ma tell you how it works. I'ma tell you how it works It's just you will see the dots get connected In your life and we just talked about this in the growth group of cleaning up your life in the dark getting things together In the dark looking at your vices Eliminating those vices and getting locked in and focused in what you're supposed to be doing and you're going to see a change And well melanie if you send money to me You sending money to gill because i'ma have to pay gill so I'm trying to afford gill right now So we had negotiating table and see what it's going to take for me to afford gill because you got a full-time job So, you know, can't have somebody working in the end can't replace that job. So we working on him Can we get alive with you and your dad? Yeah, we get a lot and we could have did at the night had we thought about it because my dad here here tonight too And so but me and my dad we thinking about i'm not going to make a promise But we thinking about just because i learned my lesson on that but we thinking about having us a little bible study Little bible study channel that you could watch, you know and tap in with the bible study, but My dad he gonna be stepping from behind the curtain soon When he gets ready, but it's a lot out here. And so I have to let him know, you know, you got to be prepared because I don't know how thick his skin is and if he if it's thick as he think it is but It is some people out here that be saying some stuff And i'm telling the other night I could have lost sleep after the shoemaker way The shoemaker I think is the shoemaker way. He did his video response and sin I don't want to use the wrong term because I just reading the other day. You ain't supposed to call people idiot I was reading that in the bible. Maybe the book of matthew Or maybe it was in mark And me and my dad was breaking that down and I was like lord, I've been I'm like have I been in sin calling people idiot And so But when I seen some of them comments that I almost could have lost some sleep But the lord gave me peace to say He reminded me how they talked about his son He reminded me the signs and wonders his son did and people still didn't even believe And he said now, who are you compared to my son? Your your your walk ain't gonna be as perfect your walk ain't the same You ain't got to get on nobody cross and die So if somebody who came for salvation somebody who came to save the world Was crucified and was talked about like a dog and gave gave all the signs and wonders and people couldn't see And call him a devil and call him a devil worshipper and all of that The lord say that's how these women And these men think that you fake That's how they're gonna call you a fake and a fraud And that's how they're gonna say you cheating on your wife and you're gonna get exposed soon He said because those are the same people from the lineage of those who Did not believe In christ those the same people who didn't believe that god is real the same type of people who could see God showing up and doing work and still not believe So what the lord say? He said pray for him He said pray for him That I have mercy on their soul And so I'd say, you know what I ain't gonna worry about it because I know how I live my life behind closed doors I know ain't nobody got nothing to come out with on me talking about tonic gas can sleeping with me Tony gas is doing this with me. I know my truth. So I ain't got nothing to fear And everything is in my past. I know I ready to put that in a book I know I already talked about that I came out with that so And I've been married since 21 And even when I talk about me and my wife learning each other and growing and then first two years Being young I told my whole story. So the devil ain't got nothing on me It's like Eminem on that movie on eight mile when He was freestyling and he said everything the man was gonna say so when the man got the mic He had nothing to rap about because Eminem had and said everything I know I already said everything that could be said. So when when they tell me something about myself They telling me what I told them and the crazy thing and I'm gonna tell you this Before I go the craziest thing what I saw Is people in the comments on the shoot make wait video Um people in the comments claim to not like me And claim to not agree with me But they knew the intricacies of my story They was putting in the comments details from my story that you have to go deep Into my videos or books to know my story So the devil Read scripture That's how when he approached jesus he quoted the word of god to jesus God will prepare a table before your enemies And they're gonna have to watch you eat They're gonna have to watch you win And while they're waiting and they're sitting and they're waiting on you to fail They're waiting on something to come out. They're missing their blessings They're missing their purpose because what they're trying to do is tear somebody else down Because the word of god is convicting their spirit So listen to me when I tell you This going to happen to everybody in the body not just me And it's going to be it's going to happen to you on your job in your family In your relationship, maybe in your circle If you get online it's going to happen online But you got to know who called you know who's you are and know that in due time We win So hey get on the gas and god bless you Thank you, Bianca Bible study would be great. We need that tg Hey, god bless you. You ain't gonna lose no sleep. They had me. I say, you know what? I'm finna make the devil Moma because these messages finna be coming these messages finna be You hear me bite the bite y'all might see me someday four videos in a day Stepping on the devil head We finna get the word out I'm trying to tell you I'm trying to tell you and see I ain't getting to read the comments because I was on the show Say the way those comments were on the heart of the initiated pockets were a mess I'm so glad you called everybody out. I ain't getting to read the comments, but um And I'm glad I didn't because if I did I They might have took about that spirit Hey, god bless y'all and we'll talk soon and If you on the academy tonigas academy.com, you'll see what's on there for you and you got to email About my sessions. I also posted on the community page because I'm closing my sessions I'm lord willing could be able to retire from coaching in 2024 And my coaching will be on youtube and if I do the growth club the group coaching And then one-on-ones that'll be very very rare and selective And so that's why I'm opening up for the rest of this year to help people prepare For 2024 you'll see that on the community page. God bless you. We'll talk soon