 Moment I wake up Stupid reactions idiots. I'm stupid. I'm stupider. That's yeah. Thank you. There you go It comes in packets now What did you see? Oh, I was just squirting the packets in their eyes into their chai Gross and today we are reacting to a little video. This is called why parenting India is so unique. Oh Interesting. Yeah. Okay. Um comedic I assume no, I think it's like a Information yeah, like info video. So once again, we do a bunch of these but if any information in here is incorrect We did not not our fault. We did not make we're reacting Creating this we are reacting to it. Yes So if the information is incorrect, you can yell yell in the comments Oh, yeah, not in us. Yeah, that's the video. Yeah, it was a dumb video I don't know but this got recommended unless we agree with something but then you can yell at us I'm guessing this is why I'm more like why parenting in India is different than other places I which makes sense and I believe I believe we've heard many things about that. Honestly, it's probably I Guess it's depending on who you're like who you're comparing it to and if it's modern or if it's Old school India parenting, right? Right, and it's different now. It's cultural regional. Yeah. Yeah, but it's a little video. Cool. Here we go. Let's see We've 25 million babies born each year. Holy It's easy to see that India knows a finger-two about parenting Or not Well, first off, there's the virtue of kindness and patience One of the biggest things Indian parents trying to teach their kids is kindness Little boys and girls are encouraged to be modest and nice to everything around them From strangers on the street to the smallest bugs they find in the yard Indians believe Account and an Instagram account even comment on videos that's true and that goes out the window Emotions and irritability is considered a big vice here The patient man will rule the world is the motto Indian parents teach their kids to live by controlled information What do you remember watching on TV when you were young a cat and mouse trying to Yes, well Indian parents wouldn't be too happy about that These sorts of borderline violent or silly cartoon or the line violent. No, that should be violent. Really Children usually watch programs about art and education. Tom and Jerry and let me see what our parents do to tablets either People in India firmly believe that the internet can be dangerous for children Now have a lot of screens in front of manners first Indian parents Irresponsible and Kids can't just throw a major tantrum and slam the door like a boss They want to be grounded for months on end You don't round somebody in diapers every child is taught to be respectful to their family members and Parents try to do everything they can to make the bond between siblings unbreakable They're also very particular about table etiquette Maybe toddlers can play with their food, but at 10 you'll definitely get it You know, they don't want you smelling your food manners make it mad eating your non with rice They eat with their hands in any way example How can a child be a wife and independent if their parents are rude and irresponsible? Indian parents are sure that their habits today are their children's future traits That's why they don't lecture the little ones But try to show them how everything's done by their own example Plus in India several families often live under one roof. So older generations never hesitate to show their children style Which is not the case here, correct strong child-parent bond Space is a privilege in India. So not that many children get their own room to themselves Indian moms also believe in attachment parenting. So they try to spend every single minute that they can with their newborns Indian doctors even recommend new moms to sleep with their babies. Of course, it's pretty convenient If your baby is anxious wants to eat or needs. Yeah, I always scared me I know me too handle the problem right then and there this kind of co-sleeping Usually ends when a kid turns six or seven years six and this time together is believed to strike in the bond I'm with you my eyes Leland's already in his own room dose of independence Indian children usually start to work from a young age Fleeves tend to look in the fields and help with the animals while girls do chores and take care of their younger siblings Indian parents work kids to become independent It should be a no one is allowed to lie on the couch with a bag of chips and watch cartoons all day long Why of course parents don't just leave their children to deal with the challenge all by themselves They're always there in case their little one needs help The importance of education Yeah, every parent wants their child to be the best and Indian moms and dads are no different They pay close attention to their kids academic achievements and try to help them as much as they can along the way Indian parents want their children to be successful more than anything And what can open more doors for you than a good education, right? So strict playtime and study time rules are no surprise in an Indian house Believe it or not children often think their parents later for teaching them the value of self-discipline For many Indian people Spirituality is a huge part of life. It's what their parents taught them what their school encouraged and the essence of Who they are? From a very young age kids know their family rituals and to pardon them slowly exploring this side of life Indian parents believe that introducing their kids to spirituality right away helps them discover themselves And figure out the world around them. Well, that's one way to do it financial control When it comes to money Indian parents are anything but laid back. No, you don't need The logic behind this rule is very simple Indian parents want their children to know the value of money from Even if a kid gets some pocket money It's strictly controlled and they know they can't just splurge on that cool Pokemon t-shirt It's a pretty tough tactic, but it seems to be working all right Indian children grow up understanding that they have to work hard to achieve financial stability However, Indian parents also tend to pick their kids career path before they even start talking Of course, as you can imagine, this can cause some tension Especially if the child wants to do something else But in India family is everything so parents and kids find a common ground one way or another The influence of school it always works out school for the first time is a big day for the whole family And Indian schools do a good job of picking all the things that parents have taught their kids No matter what the difference is the families always work it out. That's true tolerance and push kids to uncover their true potential There's no concept of a favorite student here Every child receives tremendous support and approval The main task the school has for you is to better yourself every single day Teachers show kids that their main competition is not obviously always true Not somebody else and your parents are always there to catch you if you fall Right because every parent is supportive teaching valuable life lessons. That's pretty awesome indeed And what's the most important thing your parents taught you? Let's discuss it down in the comments Don't discuss it right now. Reck, what's the most important thing your parents taught you? How to properly zip up your zipper to not to not yeah, we we I did that once in my life And that's all it took that's the most important lesson. Yeah, my dad did it on purpose. He said come here son I said what that he said take off your pants. I said really he said yes, I took him off He said now put him back on but don't zip him up. I did and then he took the zipper and went I said I always said remember that I did I'd say it's I don't know if it's something I taught me, but it's because like I do have that question How often our allowance is given out? Yeah to Indian children because Obviously here in America. They are done sometimes not with my parents not with my kids My kids didn't get an allowance. Yeah, I didn't get an allowance. No, and I won't give me an allowance But I think that's a good thing. Yeah, I don't have a problem with it at all One if they right when I be if I needed something obviously they bought it for me, right not if I wanted something very different That was very different Christmas or birthday. Yeah, but uh when you get old enough to where you're like I want to go out with my friends. They're like get a job, right? I had a job by the age of 14 Want a car? Yep. Yeah, that's a good job. That's asking Alexis. It was you want a car? Great Buy it go work on. Yep. Yep, and they did. Yeah, and I think it it definitely helped and I feel like that's more how India probably is Yeah, I think it's because I know a lot of Indian families are very you know, like they said financially Like they they know they control their money and they know where it's coming from and it obviously depends on what your economic Status is But I feel that's how it probably is mostly in India because I think it teaches kids to You know work for you what you what you want. Yeah. Well, obviously when you get out of the house You're gonna have to work for whatever Yeah, it does and it does because it's such a communal setting for the majority of Indians because you're living in a house of Six seven eight people Most of the time where it's all family members together. Is that the average? I don't know if that's the average But I know that that's really common. I think a household Their parents and their and the brothers and sisters of the parents So like like like an Andrani's house She grew up with her mother and dad and her mother and father's siblings And their kids in the same house in the same house. Wow. So her cousins She refers to as brother and sister because they've been together since they were little. It's no different It's just biologically. They happen to be cousins and they just They grew up that way and there's this this sense of communal understanding Which I think is a beautiful thing not just family connection But it gives you that understanding that the world doesn't just revolve around you However, the opposite is true There can become this sense of obligation to the family and your your individual identity gets can get crushed Yeah, so they all they all have pros and cons. Yeah, yeah And most sincerely for me the most important thing my my parents ever taught me my my dad taught me Was the value of truth the value of honesty Not lying The only time my dad was a fun happy dad to be around and the only time that my dad ever Seriously like said come up here and was sitting behind his desk in his office room And said are you a liar because he caught me in a straight-up lie that I had done to get something I want And just told me liars lie You can never trust a liar And my son is not a liar if you are I'll never trust you with anything and it was I was 15 Never forgot it. It's one of the big reasons I have such a deep value for truth Which I think it's a pretty great value to heaven still on me, you know Obviously you should want people to tell the truth. Yeah Yeah, and that that that has interacted with everything the way I treat people a lot I'm a whole bunch of levels as well as the fear of god whenever he was mad at me. Yeah Because my dad would say things like I'd be screwing around on the back and he wouldn't say maybe stop You're screwing I was screwing in the back on the car. My dad always let me screw in the back. That's good Yeah, like all kids do it's good Be open just let him screw in the back and abe driving the car and if I was screwing in the back Uh, rather than say rather than say hey ricky stop it. He'd say if you don't stop that I'm gonna pull over and rip your heart out through your throat Okay, dad Would you like me to go back there and take your leg and rip it off you and beat you to death with it? I'll stop down With your own severed leg Well, this was fine. It was it seemed like it was more for kids. It was very broad very broad Generalistic simplistic, obviously There's just like you can't say specifically in america how parents parent because it varies based off region It varies based off household. Yeah, this house called parents even then that has sold down there Absolutely, but uh, some of the stuff obviously was true. Um, and I mean most of it was probably true But you can't just label it in general. No, I think they said in there that Indian parents don't reprimand their kids, which I I don't think is true There's a slightest not even remotely every literally every indian ever talked to Talks about how they were slapped or hit with objects growing up. That's a sandal. Yeah sandal belt something Just pretty standard fair and we've seen in the films that depict it that like slapping is almost a hobby a sport that they do Who could do the best slapping? Yeah, there was no slapping commentary with an indian Yeah, no, definitely. You won't lose Too much