 Welcome to Psychic Medium Tony Green. I am Tony Green, the Psychic Medium, and I'm here to give you an hour or so of entertainment. So just a few announcements that I give before every single show. I'm going to give them again today. Please don't get scammed. I never reach out to anybody in comments. Even if you comment first, I don't comment back saying you need a reading. That's up to you. I never tell people when it's time for them to have a reading, get a reading, pay for services. You'll know when that time is. So please do not get scammed by anybody pretending to be me, of all the people somebody could pretend to be. Not me, folks. Not me. But don't get scammed, okay? I finally, oh my goodness, I finally was able to get all, well, most of the clearings and healings up into the shorts. So if you don't go to TikTok or Facebook, now you can go to YouTube, you can go to my channel, which you're on, and the shorts are there and all the healings and clearings are there so you can enjoy them. Next is, I don't know, like I never prepare my intro and I should, but I don't. So the next thing I'm going to say is today I will be taking colors, although I don't know. There's been a problem with blog talk. The problem was probably with me because the show supposedly I put in the wrong time for the show, maybe, and then I had to redo it and repost it. But now it's up and running. So if you want to call in and ask a question, 845-845-2779131 is the call in number. Also, you can ask questions in YouTube chat. I'm happy to answer those questions for you as well. Just like we do every single week, I am going to do names, songs, channel and answer questions. I try to make sure I get as many people something as possible. And sometimes people who watch on the TV show or on, listen on a podcast, they're not able to call in for whatever reason or be a part of the live show and they may hear a name or a song that tells them their loved one is with them. And that's what that's all about. If I'm saying names, if I'm saying songs, this is a confirmation your loved one is with you. They're answering your questions. They're helping you through this life. Okay. So I'm going to start, I just, I keep feeling like I'm forgetting something and that's okay. I'm just going to get started with names. So this could be your name, the name of someone on the other side or the name of someone you loved. If a message comes through with it, I will say the message. Otherwise, I just try really to do just names during this part of it. So here, here we go. The first name I'm, I'm actually, I, I heard one name and I saw another name. Jerome is the name I heard, but George, somebody specifically spelled out their name for me, George, and put it in my peripheral vision for you. So George and Jerome are the first two names. Maricela, I, I, you know what, if I tried to say that name, I wouldn't even be able to say that name. That's freaking crazy. Marisala. It just comes out, but it's crazy. Okay. Blanca, the next name is Maria. The next name is Michelle. The next name is Eva and then the name Evelyn. Eva and then the name Evelyn and then Jose. And then the next name is, I think they're just punking me with all these names today. I do not know who's watching who has all these names I cannot pronounce, but you're welcome. You are welcome. The next name is P-A-C-I-E-T-A-R-O. You're welcome. I don't, that might be a place. It might not be a name. It just might be a place is what I'm getting. And then the next name is, Jerome is saying his name again. And then the next name is, and somebody's tickling my nose, the inside of my nose. And you guys, as you know, or most of you know, unless you're new, when they tickle the inside of my nose, children are here. And as soon as I said that, I saw a bunch of children playing on my floor. So they think it's funny to tickle the inside of my nose, or that's just how they let me know they're here. There are a lot of little kids here today. It almost makes me, that one always gets me, you guys, when there are children with me, because for all the reasons, right, for all the reasons it would get somebody, but there's a lot of children in here today. Okay. The next name that I am getting is Keisha or Makisha. The next name that I am getting is Pleasant. The next name that I am getting is Tiana. The next name that I'm getting is Michael and Miranda. Okay. I'm going to stop the names there because they could just go on. And then I'm going to go into the songs. Now the song can be, again, the song can answer a question you've been asking, something you want to know. The next thing the song can be something they loved, you loved. I'm hearing Jerry Lee Lewis right away. An artist they love, Nirvana, I'm hearing, can I please just finish the sentence? A song or a group they loved, you loved, or a song you listen to together, or again, a song that is answering a question for you. Anything by Elvis. They're really about the songs tonight, you guys. They are so about the songs tonight. So here we go. Okay. So the first song, some of the songs that came through on here, and there is a song on the message that I gave out on TikTok today, too. But the first song I'm hearing is Fade to Black. And then it gets really like... Could you guys give me words? Fade to Black, that's it. But I have to say the first part of it with it because there's another Fade to Black song, and this Fade to Black song is not that song. So, I want to make it Black. Whatever that song is. Okay, whatever that song is. Patrick's here. Hey, Patrick. Patrick's really good with songs. I think I saw Patrick's name. So, Patrick, if you know... Yeah, there you are, Patrick. Happy to have you back. Are you back from California yet? Let me know, Patrick, if you know what that song... If you know what that song is. Okay, the next song, ironically, and there are a lot of children here. And just because they are little now doesn't mean they went recently. They could have gone in the past. Okay, so one of the things I'm hearing is Jack in the Box and Jack in Jail. Jack in the Box and Jack in Jail. Okay, the next song I'm hearing is... If you love me, let me know. If you don't, then let me go. And I'm not going to try to sing that. But because I think everybody just would know that. And I don't have to sing it. The next song is... We got to get out of this place. It's a really deep, raspy voice. If it's something like maybe if it's the last thing we ever do. We got... Who sings that? And then I'm hearing Wayne Newton. Wayne something. Wayne. Okay, that. And then I'm seeing the guy who did the shows and all the women through their underwear. Jesus. All the women through their underwear had him while he was on stage. Welcome to my life. This is my life. Everybody says they want to be able to do what I do until they do what I do. Okay, more songs. Let's do a couple more songs. Okay. That song that goes James Brown. James Brown. And I'm not getting any other words. And then I'm hearing Barry White. And the next song is... Give me a second. It's that Gasolina song, which I've heard before on the show. But it's just that song. Gasolina. That song. And then the next song I'm hearing is... I'm going to do... Maybe this is probably going to be the last song that I do. But the next song that I'm getting... I'm hearing the group Godsmack. Anything Godsmack. That's a pretty interesting name. And then the song... And then I'm seeing Metallica. But the next song is ACDC. And I've got the biggest balls of them all. I can't even look at you guys. I can't. I can't even open my eyes and look at myself on the screen. I can't. It is a song. It is real. This is it. That's it. That's where we are today. Okay. So, okay, we have so many people in the chat. Thank you for being here. Everybody, thank you for spending this time with me. Mina is here. Van Halen song. Patrick, the Yardbirds saying, we got to get out of this place. Thank you, Patrick. Patrick always knows the music. Fade to black. Got to fade to black. Yeah, that's it. Is that Dyer Straits has a song called... I don't think it's that one. I think maybe it's older than that one. I see a pretty painting and I want to make it black or something like that. Patrick, do you know that one? I don't know. Okay. Oh, painted black by the Rolling Stones. Is that it? I think it might be. Okay. Mysterio, how are you today? The Stones. Yeah. Okay. Second one. The Stones painted black. Yep. Heather, what's up? Oh, gosh. You guys, thank you so much. Hey, Laura. I did answer that question for you already in the chat, so you might want to check that out. But I'll give you, I did ask you a question also about that. So, you might want to check the chat and then answer my question and I'll get back to you on more details, or you could just call in the calling number is 845-277-9131. Here we go. I feel it. They're here. It's time. Whew. You guys, there's a point in the show. Like when I begin, I'm a little bit like the energy is a little all, like not chaotic, but it's not quite solid yet. And then at this point normally, it like hits solid good. We can do anything at this point in the show. So, hey, Maria, how are you? So, what I'm, hey, Fawn. So, what I'm getting right now is there's another song I want to ride my bicycle. I want that song is coming through and I know I've had it before. I'm going to take callers. I'm going to answer their questions and then I'm going to answer questions in the chat. I'm going to go back and forth and do this. So, if you, again, you can call in or you can put your question in the chat and here we go. 760, 760, what's your name and where are you calling from? Hey, Georgia, how can I help you today? But tap into a broad. A broad. Thank you. Thank you for that because I get, I did get two answers instantly. Thank you for picking, for defining it. You are going to be traveling in the next two months. Will you be going out? Will you be going abroad? Oh, it'll be really tight. Honestly, I think it might be right after the two-month mark that you go because I'm hearing in the three-month mark you're going to end up going abroad, maybe in the four-month mark. So, don't try to push it too soon. Let everything fall into place. Oh, a few months. Thank you. Thank you then. Okay, thank you. Sometimes between like my phone's on speaker and it's not close to me so it can be close to the speaker for the show. So, I'm sorry, I misunderstood that. Yes, in the three to four month mark, I feel like you will be going abroad. Allow it to happen naturally. Like, if you don't push it, if you don't, if you keep watching and that you're going to find the perfect everything. Okay, everything's going to just be the perfect everything and you're really going to be happy that you waited and that you did it that way. So, please be patient with the planning of this but everything is going to fall into place and it's going to be a spectacular trip is what I'm hearing and I do feel like it is going to come between that three and four month mark and you're just going to love it. Well, here's what I want to say about that. Not the way you might be thinking right now. Okay, I want to ask you a question. Are you planning to go see somebody that you've met online? Okay, can I ask you what country is it? Oh, nice. Very nice. I'm just asking questions right now in a different way than you asked them to get the most direct answers. You're going to be there part of the time that he's there. Are you going to leave with me? I feel like you're going to have the opportunity to possibly leave with him but not stay the whole time. You'll have to, for whatever reason, you'll be returning before this person. Okay, that's what I'm getting. I do feel like here's what I'm going to say and I know that you might think I mean this in one way but they may mean it in a different way. Don't have expectations when you go. Okay, don't have expectations about the trip and don't have expectations while you're there. Kind of let it all unfold naturally. Expect things to change even if you have plans. Just have the expectation that they may change either prior to going or while you're there. Okay, love. Okay, so here's the deal and I appreciate all of your questions but you need a reading. And I do appreciate your questions and I typically take one question per person and if you have follow-up questions, a lot of follow-up questions, that's a private reading. So if you would like to book a private reading, people don't think I'm whatever for muting that and moving on. There's a whole bunch of people on YouTube and in the call log waiting and I typically say at the beginning of every show one solid question and or one connection. So just trying to be fair to everybody else who's involved in the show this evening, www.tonig.info, you can book a private reading and I will be happy to go as long as you need on that particular question or any other question that you have about your trip or life in general. I'm going to go to the chat and find a question and of course and of course and then the hang up. She's such a big fan. So don't feel bad that I muted her because she didn't even hang around. I could have answered the rest of it but whatever, whatever. Mina wants to know, hi Tony, this has been a year of continued adversity. It's February Mina. I'm so sorry. Do you see any area or some good news coming in for me? Thank you. No telephone, no worries Mina. I'm happy to answer this for you over the YouTube question area. Here's what I'm getting. Yes it is going to get better in the end of March. You're going to see things start to transition a teensy-winsy bit. Okay Mina, after that by the time you hit April and May you will see more things transitioning into a lighter, happier side. Okay. What I will tell you is as you go to sleep at night, Mina, it's really important not to think about what you're concerned about or worried about or thinking about or what has happened. Think only about what you want to come in and also another thing to do is if you can play something positive as you're falling asleep that is even better. It really does transition you in your sleep and sleep is a healing time anyway so if you can really transition yourself during your sleep that's however many hours you're asleep. That's the most powerful thing you can do for yourself. End of March, things are going to start to improve a little bit and then they will get better after that. Okay. I do wish you a much better experience in this life. I'm going to tell you this. This is one of the statements that's in a couple of the books that I've already written but it's going to be in my next book that I'm in the process of doing right now and it is what if you're like this world in this world what if you are the main what if this world is a like a TV show or a play and what if you're the main actress or actor. Now add to that you're not only the main character the main actress or actor but you are also the writer and the director so you get to decide whether all the other actors and actresses that interact with you and how they do that by deciding this yes to this no to that yes to this and to not to not fall into that place where you are going along or in somebody else's show being a co-actor to what they want and that's really I know I'm not saying that as eloquently as I could right now but the truth of the matter is that is really how this world works and when we completely comprehend that and I'm going to do a clearing on that right now when we comprehend that we are in charge of what happens in our life we go from default to you know just taking charge and many of us at some point in our life don't feel that power or that energy or have that understanding or knowing of that but I'm going to tell you right now when we're in our power and we just sit with our eyes closed for a second and say show me me and we start getting those visions or we start getting those knowings or those understandings it is a phenomenal just phenomenal what comes in next you will be amazed at it so sometimes we have to like let go of some of the things but we have to really have the understanding that nothing can happen to us without our permission nothing can happen for us without our permission either so we have to start giving permission for things to leave our life and things to come into our life for what we want I give permission for this to come in I do not give permission for this and it really is that simple and if you're the co-creator with the creator if you are the co-creator and you are creating with the creator because we came down here to create not to go along to get along but to create what we want how we want when we want so if that is who we are and what we're doing here then we have to put our ourself in that position of being we have to put out what we want and the the when we feel it when we really feel what we want when we're saying it and we feel it it comes in it comes to fruition it's it might be like a drip first just this teeny weeny little drip but then but then oh my sweet child it will start to run and then the dam will break open and you'll say I finally get how to play with the water I finally get how to make it rain I finally get how to make a monsoon in my personal life and that is what we're here for we are not here to be I have to watch the words I use we are not here to be told or directed we are here to direct our own likes and be in our power okay thank you for that question I'm going to go to the next caller who is 204 204 what's your name and where are you calling from hi tony this is um allen calling from winnipeg canada I talked to you before I'm also mr on the chat as well oh mysterious yeah excellent thank you so much for calling in how can I help you okay um a couple weeks ago you said that I probably might be um experiencing a romantic relationship coming into my life in the next couple of months so that was like late December so I'm wanting to know what uh names or initials I should be looking out for for a woman okay so I typically don't do that because well I don't want you to limit it but what I can tell you is she has her hair is lighter not darker now she may color her hair okay but the vision that I'm seeing is her hair is um it's very pretty as a matter of fact but she she's more of a feminine woman so you're really going to need to step into your masculine you're going to need to be because she is very feminine and um she is also very uh what that's what I can say here's what happens sometimes when I give too many exact points about a potential partner um somebody somebody could come in who could be the right person but because they uh used their middle name instead of their first name or something like that it can it can um be uh it could not happen so what I like to do is keep it a little bit more open but I will tell you she's oh most of the time she's smiling and it's a genuine smile she's professional she works in a professional industry she is feminine and she expects a man to be a man and she does not play games um she could have a lot of people pursuing her but she doesn't care about that she doesn't like that um she's more interested not in um quantity but in the quality of the person if you're not serious she doesn't want to deal with a person who's not serious about a relationship or their life um and she's kind of a go-getter she's very much a go-getter um and that's that's what I have about her okay uh just one thing in context it's not another question so uh uh my background is um uh ethically I'm uh my parents were from Jamaica so I guess it'll probably be most likely an interracial relationship I guess that matters but that's not another question that's giving context of who I am I love I love you guys um it doesn't matter um there are plenty of women of every uh culture or race that have different color hair so please don't think that um if I say she has lighter hair over darker hair and again we all most women get our hair done we we don't you know we don't have our natural birth color on our head so um or we have to do what we have to do to get our natural birth color back but the the point is um that is not I I would say be open but don't don't you know what they're saying is don't worry about that you're gonna know when you know you're gonna when you when you see this person you're gonna know and again um um again like the the color of the hair that could be on any color of skin that's the way to say it thank you so I I really do hope that's helpful love okay thank you very much you are so welcome just please remember to stay in your masculine when you're with her and be be that person with her because she doesn't fool around she really doesn't fool around as far as um as far as uh what she'll deal with in a relationship okay so that's what I have for that I'm gonna scroll down I was waiting for an answer to a question on here uh mean is that everything she understood it makes sense hey K Kylie uh D I don't see the response I'm looking for so I'm gonna go to the next question and I think the next question is from Julie hi Tony my sister lost her 19 years old cat wow 19 years old um Katie in a bad way do you do you have message from Katie if she is okay and does she forgive my sister that is a question I laugh when I get nervous it's a horrible thing I do please don't take that personally um sometimes when I get like some nervous energy in me I just laugh I can't help it I was coming back to from Florida and some woman some very very very large woman while boarding the plane I mean she was she could have done some damage to me but she was trying to jump in front of everybody and I was like yo no I said hey excuse us and she just started yelling at me and I said I said uh I said no we all paid for tickets sweetie and because she was like I paid for tickets I'm like do you think they were giving ours away hello um and she told me she started yelling shut the f up to me and I just started laughing so I just inappropriately laugh at things especially if it's um you know something very emotional like this so I apologize for that and then she had some other really nice things to say to me I think she wants to be a pimpel I don't think because I just kept laughing at her I just kept laughing right in her face I just kept laughing if you really want to anger somebody just laugh at them and they're upset with you Julie I need to apologize right now okay so the cat let me get it I I'm really nervous to get into this energy is the truth because um well the first thing that I'm hearing and it's not from Katie the cat it is from somebody else it was time it was really time and there was nothing else you know if it it was time so don't feel badly don't feel sadly don't feel upset about this it was time the cat is okay I see the cat in like a grandmother's arms a grandmother not a mother but in it was it it's like in a grandmother's arm so it's safe it's okay and it was time and I hope that's helpful and I'm gonna pull out of that energy because um well because because it's time to go to a color um tonight is a very interesting show 1 1 1 what's your name and where are you calling from? I'm Celetina Colorado happy and that makes me feel happy thank you you're so welcome hi how can I help you tonight tonight love oh yes I mean you do you do help you really really do help really um ma'am I just didn't even know about my job there was a situation with my job um two days ago that um do you see me coming back to the same job before the end of the week or how soon um it might take is she gonna come back before the you might come back before the end of the month but I I'm not feeling like it's gonna be the end of the week I feel like it will be the end of the month and you know Tina I'm gonna just say to you you don't have to do this but I'm hearing this so I'm gonna say it it's in your best interest that you might also want to start looking um at other like looking for another job um I just feel like you might need to start looking for another job for yourself just to find some place that uh might feel a little bit better to you actually I just think I just really think I need to give you the message it's start looking for and I'm not predicting or saying they're going to or not going to do anything sometimes they just tell people to look for another job because the person deserves a better work situation and that's that's what I'm hearing for you so start looking because it's always good to know what else is out there and what else is available excuse me and what else is available and how you can how you can move up or move in different companies I think that's always a really good thing for everybody okay Tina yes ma'am you're right thank you I will be doing that starting tomorrow thank you I you're welcome and have an amazing night thank you so I have just a little thing in my throat so just please give me a second okay hopefully that took care of it tonight show is just so fun and interesting so I'm going to go to the next question in the chat uh if there's time this is from Maria if there's time can I have a message from my mom Antonia Antonina I'm so sorry Antonina in spirit absolutely I you know Maria I'm gonna I'm gonna scroll all the way down and I want to ask you Maria I'm gonna wait for your your answer in the chat oh Maria good you're right there I love that Maria was there something with your mom's throat like and or chest area or if anybody else is listening and that resonates please let me know so Antonina the first thing I'm hearing oddly enough is the song by Santana Maria Maria something something something she is with you a lot and she she spends a great deal of time trying to talk talk with you yes there was something with her throat and her chest okay thank you for confirming that she spends a great deal of time trying to talk with you and or communicate communicate with you and the way that you would know it's her communication is through scent and also through thoughts like when she's talking to you you'll hear it like a thought in your head and she's like when you're talking to yourself or thinking and that thing pops into your head that sounds just like her it's her it's her she's like all up on that she's like to you um and talking to you now the one thing I will say that she is saying for you is um there's a I wish I knew the words to the song better take time donna na na na what song is that can somebody please give the words to that song take time for a take time okay I that's the only part of the song I'm hearing so what I'm going to say is what that could should maybe mean is obviously take time with what you're doing or take time with people around you yes take time with a wounded hand so okay thank you thank you Kylie um yep oh and Maria knows the song too so if you're feeling wounded if you have things going on in your life so it's first of all confirmation again that you know that song and it's coming through thank you for all the comfort see this is I love this kind of chat confirmation right away on top of it love it thank you Maria um if you're feeling wounded hurt take time with yourself don't force yourself or push yourself to be okay but she's always with you and when you're smelling things that would have smelled like her or what she cooked or whatever it is even if you're out in public like one of my things is that when oh when I'm out in public and I used to smell cigarette smoke I used to get so like but now when I smell it I the first thing I hear in my head is mom because my mom used to smoke all the time all the time and so when I smell that now I hear instantly mom and I get not upset by it but like mom like so that's that's one thing so scent and I feel like when you're walking through your home and if there was a scent of her perfume or her cooking that all of a sudden it hits you that's her or and ooh ah when she was passing if it if when she was passing there was a certain scent and you keep smelling that that's her too mm-hmm mm-hmm yeah that's her too yeah okay um so Maria I hope that was and she loves she she she said tell her I love you know whenever I go to end they always and I go I say and she loves you and everybody thinks well that's such a whatever you know what yeah it is if you're one of those people that goes oh she says that to everybody or oh that's such a what yeah it is but you know what when they are not here to say it to you and they can get it through and somebody else they're gonna get it out so mm mm yeah mm mm okay I don't know where that came from I do not know where that came from one of my guides don't like your I'm kidding I'm so joking no seriously because people will say oh that's just such a whatever message it's not not to the person receiving it like when your loved one in that last minute when I'm when I'm checking off your message they're sending that and she loves you message and she loves you message that means everything to that person even if it seems like oh well you say that no it it that is everything to the person getting it so please don't please don't uh think that okay so okay um and she loves you and there are four people with her so it's her and four others three others that are always around you three others a total of four so um it's it's her and three other people not four but three once in a while a fourth person comes in and out but there are four people total that are around you quite a bit and they're helping you to move to the next space you're going to be in whether that's emotionally mentally physically whatever that is they're helping you to get there so don't stop don't stop just it's it's it's a hump and you're gonna get over it and you're gonna be good once you do once you get over it you're going to be so good you're going to really be good okay okay okay i'm going to take a caller seven two four what's your name and where are you calling from my name's laura and i'm from pittsburgh kenpovania okay laura how can i help you today um sorry i just i just was wondering um if you can tell me if me and my new relationship is going to um 60 at least 40 i'm just wondering if what you see for us for the future okay so laura um like long-term like mariner yeah okay so i'm going to be really honest with you because i'm not allowed to not be honest um this has the potential now there's a difference how people ask questions is very important and i give the answer well i went back here and um yeah i knew i was going to be what you told the other person was so awesome like you're just really good so well i just wanted to tell you that listening to that and the name lolly that you said and you're all goofy about it i relate i relate to that my sisters they still call me it but i lost one she called i call her she calls me lolly excellent oh that's very cool because wasn't your song good golly miss good oh well i don't know but lolly okay so let me stop the song you said the name okay oh i did see in the beginning i'm gonna i'm gonna i don't remember the names i say or the um i don't remember that right like after i say it it's gone but let me let me answer your question for you because that's what you want to know so the the way i will answer the question according to how you ask it but if you ask a different question you're going to get a different answer so do you too have the potential to be a long-term relationship yeah yeah you do you have the potential to be a long-term relationship there's another way to answer that question or ask that question that would give a different perspective on it um and what i would say to you is to be to go slow and to watch watch motivations yeah yeah watch motivations and make sure you know when sometimes we really want to be in a relationship and we really you know when we meet somebody we just want it to be this but if we stick with what we want because we want a relationship instead of really looking at everything and assessing it and and jumping if we need to we're missing the one that's meant for us um if i were to you know i waited um 12 years before i met him and he'll try to heal everything that i went through okay so i i get what you're saying but and so what i would say is just be very um eyes wide open in this situation okay love yeah see from birds eye view up from above yeah like the observer exactly and one of the things i say to people all the time is if you really you know when you're in a relationship and things start to happen always ask yourself if somebody i loved were in this relationship and this was happening to them would i think it was okay or would i have a different perspective because deep down we know we just might not want to believe it for all the reasons we don't want to listen i've been in in a situation with someone where i really wanted to believe the best i really wanted to believe it could work i really wanted because i'm a very loyal and very like if i'm in something i'm in a jail yeah but that really got me spanked and not in the good way i was spanked so hard and and just kept kept trying to say well maybe it's this well maybe it's that and the fact was maybe you just need to open your eyes and realize this is not the right situation for me you know in my case and so when i see the potential for that and somebody else in the gentlest way possible i try to say to the person you don't have to learn this lesson again love you don't have to listen to these words and do what you want with them you do not have to learn this lesson again love now i'm going to tell you the person there's the potential if and when this does not work out if it does not work out or when it does not work out there is another person but that person is a little bit older than you and there's the potential for that relationship now i'm not saying that you should do this that or the other thing i'm just letting you know this is the information that i'm getting and i'm giving it to you okay love yeah thank you very much you are so welcome i'm so happy i could give it and i hope it's helpful you know i do want to say it's never easy to tell someone something they don't want to hear but it's an agreement i made and so many times on my show people have come in and they've said you know when i want to hear fluff or when i'm not ready to hear the truth i might call this person but when i'm ready to hear the truth i will call you and get the truth and one of the things that if i even try to fluff something they will jump in and speak through me and tell the truth because it may hurt not to get the answer that you want it may hurt right now but it's going to hurt a hell of a lot more to be in a situation you shouldn't be in for however long you shouldn't be in it it will hurt a lot more to go through all of that again than this hearing this now and acting on it and i feel like the sooner that we get the truth the the better it can be for us to have that truth and to move forward in a way that is powerful for us and be with the right person so a lot of times women don't stay with a man because they don't have another choice or options we stay with a man because we're loyal and but once we're done we knew there were other options we were just seeing what would work and what wouldn't and then we move on so please just know that and and whatever i'm just going to move on to the next question now um hey espy how are you welcome to the show kylie um kylie wants to know how will my trip go next week good i hear it's going to be fantastic have fun be safe have fun have fun be safe have fun um i love my mommy too i miss her all right espy we uh that is one thing we don't realize until that happens like with our parents like my father was never ever ever ever ever in my life when i was four he was gone and his nickname for me was the bee um awesome dad yeah um but i will tell you this so when he passed it was like oh okay but when my mom went i never there were so many different things in so many different areas i never realized that would be and and um the the just the um you know sometimes we tend to have relationship issues with our parents and we think we're right and then when we find out their passing or like this is it we really changed that very quickly to i was just afraid or you know how ridiculous of me to stand on that hill and miss the mountain and a lot of realizations came to me when my mom passed about um about everything with her and i in our relationship and that's when you tell people like you say if i could do it over again it would probably go the same because that's the way it was supposed to go but i would hope i would be a person who could show up like this and when you try to tell people who are having complications with their uh relationship 19 seconds no not 90 seconds um with their parent or whatever when you try to say yeah but someday and they just you don't get it until that time comes i'm just gonna tell you okay hey everybody i'm going to try to throw a weekend show in because there are so many people i could not get to and i apologize for that i will be back this weekend um i'm gonna commit to it i am i'm committing seconds shh um i love you also very very much