 Hi, I'm Matthew Kost, head dating coach and founder at commitmentconnection.com And today we're going to talk about how to find a good man. So how do you find a good man? Let's talk about it. So first what you want to do is to find what a good man is because everybody has a different idea of what a good man is. You know, for some people one guy is a good man and for others that guy is not a good man at all. And so this probably has something to do with your values. Like what do you value most in life? Like what's really important to you? And you know, what characteristics are most important in a man, you know, that you would want to be with, right? And so what you want to do is you want to take that information, you want to think about this guy, you know, imagine this guy that's out there that that's this good man. He's got these values and characteristics that you find attractive. Where do you think this guy would spend his time? Like where would he hang out? What would he go and do? You know, a lot of people like to imagine like there's this magical place where all the good guys hang out and that's the only place where good guys hang out and they don't go anywhere else and you know, but it's just not true. Good guys are all over the place depending on what you think a good guy is. You know, if your value is you like to spend that time outdoors, you're more likely to find a good guy out hiking. Right? If you you know, if you're into spirituality, you're probably gonna find a good guy out and doing yoga or you know, that's some kind of spiritual event. So you really need to figure out what a good guy is to you first and then go and figure out where these guys would spend their time. And then last is go to those places and be open to meeting guys when you're there. You know, if you see a guy that you like, make sure to invite him over. You know, there's a study done that showed that the overwhelming majority, I think it was like 84% of guys, won't approach a woman unless they get some kind of invitation and that's not, you know, a lot of women think that they're screening guys by making it more difficult for them, but there's lots of really good guys that don't approach because it's, honestly, it's terrifying to approach women, especially in public when you can be ridiculed and while you think it might be attractive if a guy does or you might think that he's a better guy, really what he is is just a really aggressive guy. So make it as easy as possible for guys to approach you when you go out to meet guys, you know, you know, and be willing to invite them over, be willing to start the conversation and because that can be really powerful and it can be really attractive if you do it right. So that's it for today. If you want more information on how to attract a quality man into a committed lasting relationship, make sure you go to my website at commitmentconnection.com and take the quiz. I'm Matthew Coast and I'll speak with you again soon.