 All right question. How do you how do you? Jonathan, how do men really feel about a woman's number of previous partner? Does it really matter? Oh, that's an interesting one. Do men care about how many sexual partners you've had I? Think if you've had five hundred that might be a red flag to a guy not a red flag But might be a turn off to a guy. I think most men at midlife are going to assume you've had somewhere between one and ten men Sexually in your life, okay? And so if but if that number is much greater than that and quite frankly these days It's quite possible that men and women alike could have a number in the 20s 30s 40s 50s 60s even 100 I would just prefer not answering that question if someone says how many partners you've had Yeah, I would just simply say I've had several serious Relationships where I've been intimate, but I never kept count and That's about as far as I would say I've had several serious Relationships where I've been intimate with a partner, but I don't keep count and I might have even had a one-night stand in there Intentional might want to say an intentional one-night stand sometimes ladies you've had a one-night stand not thinking it was gonna be A one-night stand so I'm just gonna say you might say yeah, I had I did a one-night stand one time But I would not divulge the number. I just think it's a turnoff to get into that kind of depth It's nobody's business. How many sexual partners you've had and Again, I think most people at this point our lives are gonna assume you've had summer between one and ten Again, if that number is much higher, I just wouldn't want to divulge that but you know what each their own You know what if you feel comfortable then if you've been with a hundred people then share it I don't know how guys will feel about that. I think most guys probably would judge it Just like most women would judge a guy if he's had hundreds and hundreds of sexual partners This is the problem with human beings We judge people based on their behavior without ever knowing the why these things happen We pre-judge based on some stupid notion that it really matters What matters most is are you building a healthy happy sexual relationship with your partner along with the emotional Relationship and the deep roots to trust. That's what matters most at least in my world and I hope it does in your world as well Sadie, thank you so much great question Alright