 I love it when I meet a queen who understands that we can both shine at the same time. I quite appreciate it. Yeah, guys, do you know how a garden is made? A garden is made when you have several individual flowers that look different, that smell different, that, you know, different colors. But it still looks amazing. I love that. And Victoria Ghishora is one of those people, okay? She's multi-talented. She's strong. I don't know if you understand what I'm saying. So let's discuss, let's try to figure out what's going on. But since on Monday, which is a game with the topic today, we're going to do the same thing. So we're going to give you a couple of scenarios and let you jump into conclusions, all right? Now, please join me in saying good morning to my panel. Hi! Hi. You guys look so good. Let's try that again. Hi guys. Hi. There we go. You look amazing. Thank you. What is your name? I'm a student at the University of Nairobi studying journalism. That's just basically it. Social media handles? Kichakanel. That's my name is Swahili. In everything. Facebook, Twitter. My name is actually Bush. It's after the former ambassador of the United States to Kenya. The one who was bombed at the bomb blast. I'm proud, you know, United Kisum. You say I knew. I knew. People ask me a lot if I'm related to Lupita. It's the eyes. I can see the relation. I see you. Wakanda forever. Good morning, sir. How are you? I'm good. I'm able to come back to the show again. It's been a little over a year now. Marzia, we've missed you. Would you like to tell them your name? My name is Ken Matiba Okumu. I'm a lawyer by profession. I'm a legal assistant at Ken Bright Holdings. Let me ask you, when you start the law, do they tell you when you introduce yourself, you have to say all your names? You have to identify yourself fully. Definitively. Congratulations. Do you have social media handles? I'm Lord Matiba on Instagram. Lord Matiba? And Mumia's activist on Twitter. Do you have any relation to scandal Mumia's? I can be scandalous anytime. Ha! Wow! It's a time bomb. Hi, Queen. How are you? You look very nice. I'm Lidia Loach. But if you like, you can call me Kino. Kino? What does the Kino stand for? Actually, it's a name over a place. Actually, I guess you know it. Kino, there's no place there. I don't know if it's Kino. See, sir. Thank you, sir. Hey! You're the one who ate my food. You're the one who ate my food. What? Hey! You're the one who ate my food. Oh my gosh! My heart. Social media handles? Lidia Loach. Wow! Okay, Kino. Thank you. I'd like, first of all, to figure out, I don't know if I should ask why we jump into conclusions or maybe give some of the examples that cause kind of situations where girls jump into conclusions. Can I start with you? Well, girls jump into conclusions. Actually, it depends on you. The way men are behaving, sometimes they can hear or maybe, I think you could receive a phone and you know, come and do it. Hey! You know, if you receive a phone and you say I'm at the top of my information instead of talking to you, why do you talk to me? You're not talking to the network. Why? I'm not talking to the network. That's the sound I'm hearing, sir. Can I interject, sir? No, ladies should know when it comes to time when you are someone you deserve peace and quiet. I might not be in a position to answer anywhere and it's up to me to choose wherever I interact with or wherever I receive these calls close to her or away from her. So, girls are not peaceful? I didn't say that. I love that energy. You're taking a girl. So, you've taken her with all her dramas to whatever... So, when you pick in fact you should say you're interrupting we are with my girlfriend I try to say So, something of that sort. Yes. That begs for the question are you reacting for the phone not being picked or the information that is about to be conveyed to the person it might be my mother and I don't want to talk to her because I don't have anything to say to her why do you jump into conclusion you are simply fortune telling thinking about that something is bound to happen maybe it's nothing maybe it's just someone stranger and the miss digit mother maybe it's a safari call maybe it's an inshual it's a room now Now that we have the energy ready let's get started the first slide of course the topic is jumping into conclusions and let's have fun with this so question number one if we would continue please do remember at Y25 phone Facebook at Y25 for channel on Twitter hashtag is one in the morning his phone rings and he steps out of the room to take it jump into a conclusion already you have jumped into several conclusions I am a baby I am a baby I am a baby I am a baby I am a baby who is the baby first of all she should understand that she is my baby I am a baby I am a baby I am a baby I am a baby I am a baby we should have confidence that this is my man he is mine he is just going to spread love everywhere but he will come back I didn't say he is spreading love but he is now jumping into conclusions I am a baby I am a baby I am a baby I am a baby I am a baby I am a baby I am a baby something suspicious about you or about the information you are about to convey to the other person the best thing is just receive the phone call there you can ask him why make me suspect you and yet see it's not all about suspicious why would you suspect me because you are not aware of I think that's the problem she doesn't know what is going on so if she doesn't know Clarity from me Apart from 5 lies, I tell maybe one is the truth. Maybe that in that particular case I might be telling the truth I might be telling you You need not to jump into conclusions I don't know if it's true or not. I see one in every five is the truth Yeah, it's the truth Hey! Once you are a liar, you are a liar. You don't even know the truth So, what are you trying to insure? I see, you don't know All this is because of a phone call That was picked outside of the room Yeah Well, can you pick it inside? Yeah Do you know in this, I was also saying, this book called The Five Languages of Love One of them is quality time And it says in one of the pages That if a phone rings You leave it alone Or you excuse yourself with your girlfriend Saying what exactly you are going to do And that's what brings a relationship together First of all, ladies should stop feeding on a lot of propaganda In sops, in books, you know Alejandro It's spreading a lot of nonsense to you That if you are dating a man And you are not going to be able to see yourself Every movement is making Some of us are very complex We cannot let out more than what you deserve If you deserve zero We shall give you zero or negative one What is the measure? The measure of what you deserve Like what does a girl have to do to deserve twenty And then proceed to forty-fifty Agal should dispose herself When she comes to the room She doesn't have any drama Let's flip this a bit What if her phone rang in the middle of the night And she got out of bed To go to the bathroom She would go to the washroom And I would go to the tap What would you do? Personally, I would understand No, you should understand What do you understand? That maybe she needs some privacy Whenever a taroody from the washroom Alaskan What's happening? Why did you have to go to the washroom To pick that call? Instead of a drama She would go to the bathroom Before she would go to the toilet If you are in a scenario She would go to the bathroom And slap her I would just go home And I would pretend I would understand I would do it But the truth, the truth from the truth, you can't do that. Especially when you are in a relationship, you turn a love, you turn a babe, you spend most of the time together. When I call you, I ring you, I flash you. Of course, you are a man, you are a suspect. You see, that is what I call inflexible expectations. Ladies having, they have set the bow koju. You see, when you are in a relationship, you are in love. You see, when you are in a relationship, you are in love. You are in love because ladies are very fake. Wow. Ladies are very fake, in nature how? Okay, I can take back my words but... I don't know what you are saying. So, will you call yourself a gentleman? Because they are not gentlemen. That's not for me and you to judge. Okay. That's not for me and you to judge. Because we just met today, she might not be aware that I am a gentleman. Wow. Yeah. I like that he is confident in himself. And in fact, it's better to be a gentle dick than a gentleman. Because most of those gentlemen watching this show are just pretentious. They pretend a lot. But how do you want to slap? You see, she is dating a gentleman who slaps her every time she goes to the washroom. Wow. And I am advising her to... See, I am dating a gentleman who is slapping. See, I have to be a gentleman who is slapping. Even if she is a woman, she doesn't slap. Even if she is a woman, she doesn't slap. Even if she is a woman, she is called in a way that she is a way through that suspicion. But if she is around the screen, I will pretend. Okay, let's come back here. Let's come back here. I will say wow. Wow. Why do people on Facebook and Twitter say that? Hi Val, I am Kevo. There is a time when I was asked to eat jahe and mokimo. Imagine that my dream was to jump into a conclusion that I was dating a chick from Central. And I found out that she was eating. And she was two days pregnant. Wow. Wow. Hi Val, I am John Tez. Greet my classmates, Bushnell and Kino. Please tell them to be asking for explanation instead of bouncing into stupid content. Why now? Alright, number two. The game. Guys, listen. You bump into your man in town. But he is looking a lot better than he usually does when he is meeting you. I will jump into a conclusion. He walked out of the estate. He doesn't look like this for you, please. Jump into a conclusion. He doesn't look like this for you, please. Maybe they are even new. Jump into a conclusion. Okay. Okay. So she doesn't look good. Because this person left the house. Maybe after he left, he said, do I look good? And you said you are okay. So you meet him in town and you are... He is looking good. He bumped into your man in town. He is looking good. Let me get you clearly. So your man is looking good. He is looking good. At least he is looking good. But he has not been dressing like this for the last few days. When we go out for dates, he doesn't dress like this. He is in his worst clothes. In fact, you are begging him, please dress nicely. He is looking good. He is wearing the same uniform. He is wearing the same uniform. So this one. Of course, he is a flask babe. Where are you going? And if it is possible, let me go with you. So that I know where you are going. You are not a flask. Where are you going? He is changing his clothes and he is looking good. If I could just jump into a conclusion, his clothes are the most expensive he has. There is a simple question, the most simple answer. Oh! He is looking good. You have to know that he is looking good. For example, he is going to be looking good. When he is looking good, he is looking good. He is looking good. All of a sudden, even when he's recording his songs in studio, he used to go scant in the dress. All of a sudden, when I see him in a suit and tie, oh my God, jeez, my guy. We'll look what happens up in our way. We'll look what happens up in our way. Of course, we'll look what happens in a 10-wobble. Actually, it's been a long time since I've seen you in a 10-wobble. Where, all of a sudden, where are you from? I don't know. Maybe it's sad to see me. You see, Val, there is a first time for everything. Maybe your day will bump into me in Donnelly. Maybe you'll cut our lady's credit. With a lot of thousands. When I buy clothes for myself, then I look good. I'm giving you street credit. I'm giving the lady street credit. Instead of being shy and happy, you're there. We'll look what happens up in our way. I'm not talking about you... I'm not talking about you. You can't do this. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. The first information that I got is that you're talking about me. I'm talking about you. When you're in the police, are you in the report? No. I found out. Maybe we'll look and try to invest it out of me. No, no. Who is who? Who is who? Who is who? He is my babe. I'm part of him and he's part of me. I must tell you, I must tell you. I must tell you, I must tell you. I must tell you, I must tell you so that we share this money. You must tell us. Yes, we do share, but not just us. That might be the case. Let us now look at it at this angle whereby I am an employee then something gets lost or something is misplaced in the office, then I go and I go to the boss's house When I look at him in the eye, then I contact in a didi-miyaki doggo. That can mean so many things. It doesn't mean that I'm guilty. That can mean either I'm disappointed by virtue of my integrity being questioned. That can also mean that I'm disappointed that the boss, that can also mean that I respect the boss. I don't want to engage him at that time because he might be so disappointed now. The lady is almost jumping in to a conclusion like this lady here can, I'm purporting to be. What is kamuja niyambia? Lajman kuambi e kila kitu. Lajman kuambi e kila kitu. But the thing is, I'm telling you a lot, by the way. So, when I look at him in the eye, then I think, how come sir, for example, If you're the boss who is a lady, then I'll be confused and ask, what is that? Look, look, look. Well, you may know that I have a lot of problems with books. I have a lot of problems with games. There are some who are not good at drawing books. There are some who are not good at drawing books. It's not all about books. These are books you always give outside there. You know, to use that as an example. I don't think it's beneficial. But ladies are fond of sending wrong hints. She wants this while she's in a relationship. Instead of just talking, hey, I don't want to get into any of this. It's not that we are fond of selling, sending wrong things. But the truth, you are the one who are making us to send those wrong things. Because we always send what you want to see. That's what I said. Some of us, we are so complex in that we give what is deservedly and... Before you get back to him, some of you may have texted me that you are collaborating with him. You have been featured in the video. But where have you removed Timmy? I'm so happy Timmy. Alright, so number three of the jumping into conclusion came. So he gives you a key to his house. Are we together? So when you are going over to visit, and you are happy, you will change padlock. Jump into conclusion. Wow. And then, you see, I don't know what's going on, but what you see is different from the others. Jump into conclusion. I'm not saying that I'm not going to jump into conclusion. Too short to reach, and yes, as this happens... Guys, I don't think you are ready. You are going to change padlock if you go to the journal. I know I'm not ready to change padlock. I'm not ready to go to the journal. The one who works for it is a siter in his casting. What's going on on art like in Somatubu? I recommend some therapy on this lady here, because there is no way you can act the way she is purporting that Anayaza is active. Because I can give you, you know, a second can change a lot of things, even minutes. I can give you my key today and tomorrow, my house or in the evening. My husband and I are missing a patient or a woman. The law has to be changed, that might be the case. So where are we going? Because we have to go to the 3 things, at least 3 things. What is the meaning of communication? I just text him and he says I'm not coming. It's over, I don't know what to do. You can just tell me that you changed the names, so that when I'm coming, at least I know this guy has changed a lot. This is where we do bring communication. But when you present yourself there, you can actually see that I've changed my look and ask me, why did you change my look? Instead of breaking it. After a second, that minute, you can just tell me that I've changed my look. You know, it's time for you to return. Anything you do, you have to return. A second can change a lot of things. Now, I can change, I can change. So why did you give me the key in the first place? I gave you because there has to be some transparency and allow access to me anytime. And then someone will change your bad luck and say I'm here. It's fine. If you let me, I will be easy. It's all cool. It's fine. But if not, yeah, I'll just stay there, get my girlfriends, we wait for you there. We get our heels ready. You tell us why everything is too hard. It's all cool, you can do that. Now what is what I call mind reading? And mind reading is an obstacle to communication because maybe I'm here, I'm somewhere. And the girl is busy texting me, Beb, where are you? You know, nowadays these Bebs, these Gina Bebs have lost meaning. They call everyone Beb, at the sweet heart. That's the truth, that's the truth. They even call the caretaker sweet heart. You just find your girl and your mum up early and the caretaker will turn a lot of sweet names. I'm not supposed to... What are you going to do? Download the information that they have. I'm going to open it and I'm confident. Ah, yeah, be confidently watching your woman. The moment I see Beb, I'm going to get my cram number. I'm going to get my number. First of all, I have not saved my dad's number, my close family and close friends. I got my crams, so I have not saved them on phone. So you might find this girl and she might be your mother sent you money. Hey! And then God will give you money. God will give you money. See, you can see here, is this her Instagram. She can see that he is a big guy. Why are you talking to my man and you're talking to his mother? I have a relationship with his mother and she is another woman. She will jump into conflict. She is a rich man, right? Yeah. So, this man is from Nairobi spending a lot on these ladies. You see, a woman here has a hell of a parents. Oh, that's why he doesn't have money. Yeah, that's why he's broke now. But a good man will tell his girlfriend, I've crowned my daddies and mommies a number so Who's a good man? A good man is a man who treats his woman right Tells him what she needs to know Communication, you know when there's no communication, they'll all be jumping into conclusions If you tell me, Ali, I won't jump into conclusions, I trust you Communication is one thing, breaking up relationships or making relationships Once you have communication, it's a mess Relationships, of course, I tend to tell Ali So if you don't communicate, you're just singing and jumping into conclusions She just spoke like the secretary general of a mess Because they are lashing out, they are shouting on top of their voice You know, a good lady, in my own opinion I might be wrong, I might be right There's no understanding There's no understanding If a woman wants to sing anything, she can sing Even plastic bats, we just know this is a plastic bat But if you want to sing, you have to But women, how can I compose Women want to sing That's why I'm throwing my V2 I'll let them to in January And then after two years That is the next jumping conclusion After three years, we broke up with this lady But because I don't arrange my staff with Zuri That thing is still left to coach me Then another lady comes in And she's laughing at me It's a true story I hope the owner of this lady is not going to be mad at me for telling it So these two were dating, both of them my friends The guy and girl So the guy, Udem, is the one she's placing Let's say Kasa She's from the Hamakenda, maybe Same like Kasa too, but different apartments or something So her boyfriend comes to visit her in her new home And everything I love him very much I think she has a lot of problems But he found an old packet of condoms over there And she wasn't in the house at the time So Udem was in the house And she was in Mongolia And it was a thing Like, where did this come from? Like, this is metokapi And there's no one Why are you cheating on me? What happened to you? The guy was the one jumping at the conclusion Let me tell you something I can't walk with a condom for three years With the intention of having canon knowledge with someone But You forget It's just like an AP They walk around with guns But do they shoot people? They don't shoot people So I can have a whole lorry of condoms in my backyard But I don't use them They're just there for When need arises I will use them Maybe when they only make work here And I want to use a few of them on you Why would you jump in the conclusion that Utaju is yours It's because you're family So you just sell me You have already seen them There's no need of telling you Because you know they're used Condoms are used because they can't be used This is a sense But I don't use condoms I don't use condoms I don't use condoms because they're fake They're fake boys or something Sasa who is a fake boy You know You're this lady You're this lady This morning TV we got a sensor Okay, continue I didn't use any inappropriate language I'm trying to sensor my words Sasa, I don't use condoms Maybe when I pay clear information about this And you have to make me understand But the information is already clear That is a pack of condoms And I've not used any And men They can knock your door At three One inside your condom As a brother You should be a brother's keeper So you stalk them For yes, your brother That's the case For the whole plot Oh my God You should have enough To project your friends No, no You should have enough of them Pray to God If you found me With the boxes of In my drawers as well So I also keep them For in case When my brothers Friends Oh my God My uncle In case they come In fact I have all of them Extra large, large Small Good them there So what will you say Oh baby And let the people cool A little bit Okay, I understand Okay, let's step away from this They have attacked And let's just move on Okay, number four He likes to talk late into the night Sasa Baby you hang up No, you hang up You hang up But tonight He wants to sleep early Jump into a conclusion Well for me it depends If you are at work The whole day You tired Who named you Daily Daily If it's make it through daily Actually I'll just figure out your house I find out what's happening Oh yeah I just have to figure out Figure out something You're going dundai And this dundai You know it has too many ladies ready To eat you up So let me find out What if this Your brothers have started you Maybe you are I'm a Christian And as Christian I believe We're not really supposed to indulge In alcohol And smoking and all And you know this And we've already agreed That we want to do this I love for maybe this is The devil's opportunity It's taking you Maybe as a Christian I'll run for you And help you as my brother Do not go at the bottom I have to help you as my brother But so that I just see You know I'll be a very good I'm a very good brothers Keep at that point In fact if Jesus was to come At that night Heaven direct Heaven direct Because I'm just looking out for you Yeah And also at that time Why at night You won't do me any And you're not telling strange Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to Naki to She just spoke about Jesus, Jesus had those powers to perform miracles, raise people from the dead. How many years have Jesus lived on earth, 33 years only, more than 600, because what one a church had done here, what one a church had done here, can be said, you do this, maybe you have three choices to pick. You pick this one, someone will say something negative, you pick this one, bad or could be negative. You pick the last one, bad or could be negative. What do you want your girlfriends, what are you, what is the problem? Provided I have the capacity to service all of them and maintain them. Jesus is Lord. I don't belong to anyone. Look at my fingers. Accept the Lord. Accept the Lord. Yeah. All right. Why 254 Facebook and 254 Twitter? Hyde Val. Why some assault into a conclusion? Yeah. Tell me about this before we go to the next one. This lady is complaining that we misunderstand them, but please make us understand you people. Because you cannot expect me to understand you. Because you are the ones who don't want to understand us. That's right. That's why even if we try to make you to understand us, we can't. When we are lazy in weekend, you may not be able to maintain something. When you are lazy in weekend, you may not be able to maintain something. No, we not just lazy. When you are lazy in weekend, you may not manage living in this house. Sometimes I hang out with my friends. You hang out with friends at least. That's why I am here at 12 a.m. And ask for a drink and stay with friends. So you want to be my wallet or my phone? Yes, you must know my wallet. So this is my wallet. What is the wallet? Simu. All right. OK, so the last one, his social media status says he is single. His social media status says he is single. You have been dating six months now. Six months. Jump into a conclusion. Right, I'm a Bible, actually. But talk to me. At the six months, I'm a single social media status. I understand that you're a Sahau. I understand that you're a Sahau. As you know, he's playing a natural role. When did he change? Nothing. After he was single? Yes. After he was single? Actually, he was at the White Party. He's just having a White Party. I understand that. I just say at the White Party. You're just trying. You're making trials and error in this thing. Nothing serious about it. Wow. Six months, all along. Six months, I'm single. I'm not playing games. Now, we have been telling this guy, Hey, I love you. I want this and this. I want three babies. See, you have to do this. I'm going to see them and I will say that. You have to see the babies? You have to see the two babies! Just one baby. Just one baby. There's two. If it's two, there's two. I want to see just one. Baby, how did you get married? Now, who are you dating? How did you get married? How did you marry your baby? You can't see my mother. I don't want to see my mother. I don't want to see your picture on stage. I want to see you and your husband. Maybe you don't know your mother. Are you serious about this and you just want to say it? Six months single. Baby, how did you spend the rest of the day? You don't have to be a tarnished. Power Oh my god Go Learn so that I get feedback from the people not necessarily you and all your wars because maybe sometimes I'm allowed to be my own self joke around I'm a young man I need to make a few mistakes before I kiss you But you can't joke for six months You can't joke for six months How many months am I allowed to joke once? You can joke for a day Then that is just a day But six months doesn't make any sense But if we are noticing this All I can say I'll send a text or I'll call him and just sleep with one eye open How can you do that to me? I've invested for six months in a relationship How can you do that to me? I've invested for six months in a relationship I'll have like R.K.M is saying I'm going to move and love I'm going to love I'm going to love Let me tell you something These things are real You can be Alejandro That's why I said stop feeding on a lot of nonsense Stop feeding on a lot of nonsense These are not nonsense They are not nonsense If you want to be this thing If you are focused to be something Provided you want to be it And you know wherever you are heading to You can be Alejandro You can be like women We love for real We love for real As long as there are relationships that are working I'm sure they follow these two rules of communication And they have posted it out there We are dating People once tried But they didn't We have six months Like post pictures You know I'm posting Yes Okay, let's bring it Let's bring it in The last one as we wind up and you've made dinner he says he already ate like a shashiba jump into a conclusion it depends if she informed me that she's making dinner I'll reserve my some space for some space I want the whole stomach what are you what are you feeding it for you can't expect me to cook at a cooler CJ you are salty and salty I have trouble going to the toilet I cannot go a good meal Sorry, I think you're dating someone from a different area. Your girlfriend is like us. Like us, from cuckoo to your hair. Cook better than coming, but what do you say, CJ? All other things, you cook better. And I'm sure you're even fuller and fuller. And after that, we'll probably give you a different sort of dinner after that. You see, we prepare for you, your bath after that and all those other things. But then you come in home at EO2, at Morigihemimi, as in what? I love to see you swimming in the water. I think we should open a ministry for relationship and treat Matyangi. Matyangi said, there's a lot going on, Paula just made conclusions. They're angry even before anything is explained. At White Fair from Facebook, at White Fair for channel on Twitter. My name is Valentin, or at Colomival. Please do have an amazing mid-week. Can we wave? Say bye. Bye. What? Even your hair is...