 All right, cheers Women Wednesday is celebrated every year on the Wednesday after Thanksgiving now this year It falls on November 30th. That's today the day six to appreciate support Listen to and stand up for women. It also attempts to create awareness about the many Women working for the working for and successfully running businesses in the world that still thinks a woman's place Is at the home now and the day also celebs Day is celebrated in hopes of countering those old notions and instead of making people realize the potential of the women in the household now the day educates both Customers and businesses on making right choices of lifting female entrepreneurs and promoting women owned businesses right so I I Just finished a project around women women women women women the leading woman show and I really loved all the conversations around women on that show It's something around. I mean what this day really represents, right these stereotypes the the norms of societal constructs of women and all of that and this thing is not unique people think It's just unique to Africa. It's not unique. It's global right people just see a woman and automatically you have a certain Perception of what she's supposed to be like what she's what she's allowed to do or not allowed to do and all of that I mean, so I'm really particularly happy about this day, you know Choose a woman support a woman and that part of supporting women businesses. It's very key most of the Issues around women and why they refuse or they stay in abusive Situations or relationships or whatever is because of financial empowerment? So most of them are not financially empowered to be on their own and that's why a woman would rather Suffer in silence and eventually some of them have lost their lives Right, so I mean that part of encouraging a female-owned business is very very key So if you know any woman out there, you have no patronize that today me Having it you can send you my count number boy. Hey patronize a woman around you today. It goes on really long way, right? Okay, so ladies. Let me start with you a little. What's your story? So my story is regarding by Michelle. So by Michelle's family Max have put a first post-humans birthday, which means this is her first birthday since she passed on earlier in the year So and a family is busy I basically asking a lot of questions because I mean this the incident happened while she was enroute a BRT boss from Lecky to Osho the on the 25th of February where she was allegedly raped by the BRT Boss driver and at this time, I mean Sahara news They're reporting that Lagos governor So allu has been shielding a leaded killer of twin two years old by Michelle And today's the 10th month that she has been just passed on and they're asking questions Where is the boss driver? Nobody's saying anything about this. There's been no They haven't invited the family of family she to even come for the court hearing the family mentioned that they had to go To the courts themselves uninvited and they're asking questions What's happening with the guy is he going to be getting justice is anything going to happen? And the question is they got this government is aware of this situation and they're choosing not to do anything about it So what they're asking for is the Nigerian public files and the regular people that actually fight for human rights Please help in you know figuring out how best they can get justice for their child Happy post-humans birthday and they really really give our warm Heartfelt regards to the family because it's really not easy for you to start thinking about oh, we need justice for Bami shape It's really it's really crazy You know who the person is and now not getting closure Yes, you're taking time to actually convict or even to evoke it There's a court hearing and the family is not even present or even aware of this court hearing I feel like if the Lagos they government know what is going on It's great that you give the family closure because everybody deserves to know the truth and everybody deserves to get justice for you know for this type of crime Absolutely, I mean we'll talk more on this. I mean because again somehow is somehow tied to the conversation Why we still have issues of rising cases of sexual assault rape and all of that You know, it wasn't really clear for Bami Bami shape case if there was because at some point They said there was sexual assault at some point. They then said no The evidence didn't show and all of that. If she wasn't even communicating with somebody While she was in a room, nobody would even know about this. In fact, they would have probably even lied and said she was probably Yeah, okay, so Maybe I'll come to you later. Let me because your story is tied to what we're discussing So I'll leave yours for for last. My story is actually very funny. I found this video I don't know if you can quickly play the video and some PDP guy I mean, I don't even know what it is. He's a former chairman of a local government area in I think of no autumns state I can't remember what state that is now and he was allegedly beaten up because he wore an APC shirt I mean, sorry a PDP shirt So I'm just thinking in this in my life in this 2020 that were coming. I mean, like this is supposed to give you like an idea So people should just be careful, but that's why I took the story. They can quickly pull up the video for me Ninjas are very angry right now Okay, how are you looking like this? I was given the beating of my life at this campaneralli We have not known for violence Which campaneralli in our PDP? This is PDP campaneralli, Zona campaneralli Which is marking the flag over Our governor Symmetra campaneralli So we bought this venue What information that the government is going to flag of this campaneralli in Go? Today I'm a member of Chikugrass movement in Bermuda state And then when we bought this information, we felt that no, this is a PDP The fact that he got the beating of his life He continued on that But the thing is if you watch the video longer, he said, I mean just because he put on the t-shirt and all of that First of all, Ninjas, they're like, wait, they've been waiting. You know when somebody has been suffering inside and now they're like, wait, you are your own No, but I think this one is a case of you went to the wrong camp Wrong case, wrong case So the reason I'm saying this is because again, there is a lot of tension in the air Especially for people that are obedient people that are whatever be careful, right? You know clearly there are some zones that belong to a certain kind of party. You can't You can't yeah, you can't run away from that fact So try as much as possible to not incite any form of because sometimes it'd be like you're coming to insult them So I'm just the reason I'm pulling out those stories that more of this will happen So we need to be careful. Remember the boy that took the flag the Peter or be the flag bearer That they almost burnt him to death in Osho D. S. It was the military man that saved his his life, right? Him and his camera guy. So these are like hot beds, right for setting political parties Don't go into their camp wearing an opponent's shirt. Instead, go neutral or don't go at all. Yeah Protect yourself. Alright, so mirror your story. Okay We have a sexual offense and domestic violence court sitting in Keja Lagos had Remanded the medical director of Optimal Cancer Care Foundation Dr. Femi Olalaya for alleged defilements of his 16-year-old wife's niece named with her the news agency of Nigeria reports that Justice Ramon Oshoody on Wednesday November 30th ordered that the defendant be remanded in Ikohi Correctional Center Pending the perfection of his bill Olalaya is charged with a two-count charge of defilements and sexual assault by penetration He however pleaded not guilty to the charge I heard I saw that part of not guilty remember the video that LC shared in the group. Yeah, which is like that was him No, yeah Funny thing is that the funny thing is that we've had Dr. Olalaya on our show When we were talking about cervical cancer, right, and it's really sad To to watch because again, and this is why I say that I don't know. There's a psychology There's a psychology to rape. There's a psychology to sexual molestation and assault And maybe we should start dealing with it because you would wonder for someone that is your good-looking your whatever Well to do your well to do you have all that you have you can have anybody Can I go pay for it do you get my point you can have anything so why would you? Subject yourself to that so you know what we'll do more of that when we come back from the break We want to discuss, you know, how we can curb rape and sexual Crimes in Nigeria stay with us. We'll be right back