 How would you recommend handling a situation where a woman has repeatedly shown an unhealthy interest in your husband, even big hugs and flattery? That would stop. I would go to her privately and say, I'm not judging your motive, but this is how you're coming across. It seems like you're flirting with him, you're touching him in ways that you should not, and you need to cease and desist. And if she doesn't, then I would take other witnesses with me. I would also at that point ask my husband to tell her to stop, but she's making him uncomfortable. I would do the same, and I have actually done that with several women and have spoken to them privately and made some guidelines and restrictions. I also had a woman that was about my age who actually started grabbing my husband's hand and holding it, and I just graciously took it away.