 When someone turns the narcissist against you. It starts off with you noticing that this person or group are against you They may be distant towards you, or they may even stoke and harass you They may try to make your life difficult But they won't directly target the narcissist If they are trying to get them onto their side They will remain neutral with the narcissist If they have a useful purpose for them, they may even want to turn the narcissist against you As a way to get to you As a way of leaving you isolated and without even the minimal amount of support the narcissist might provide to you When you are dealing with narcissists It's a numbers game It's all about how many people they can get onto their side How many people they can get to support their argument The less people you have on your side The better it is for them So they will try to turn the narcissist against you They will try to get the narcissist onto their side Contrary to popular belief It is actually very easy to manipulate a narcissist It is very easy to get them to do what you want them to do People assume that this is difficult Because anyone who has been in a relationship with a narcissist Will know that they can be very stubborn But a narcissist will believe and trust in a stranger Over someone they have known for years They will value a stranger's opinion over their own family member or relationship partner Narcissists are very gullible They are easily persuaded to believe something easily deceived or misled And that is why it is so easy for anyone to take the narcissist away from you It's really effortless Because the narcissist is going to see anyone as more desirable or attractive Than the person that they are already with And they are going to be more trustful of anyone Other than who they're with This is just how narcissists function Initially they want to be admired by you But once they've got you They want to be admired by anyone but you And then the cycle just repeats itself It never ends They go from person to person Never really finding what they were looking for Making up stories Turning people against each other While blaming everyone else for the problems that they are responsible for But there is nothing you can tell the narcissist It's always someone else's fault So if someone comes to them agreeing with their opinions of you It will be very easy for that person to turn the narcissist against you If there are any problems or difficulties in the relationship the narcissist has to see you as a problem It's either you or them So they are going to feel drawn to anyone who supports that idea or belief Because that person is validating their false self They are validating the illusion that the narcissist is trying to portray When someone turns the narcissist against you They are actually doing you a favor They are showing you the narcissist's true character They are showing you that the narcissist does not value loyalty You could spend years of your life with a narcissist and they will still leave you at the drop of a hat Everything you did for them all the times you spent together It meant nothing They didn't value any of that And that is why it was so easy for someone to turn the narcissist against you Because they didn't value or appreciate anything you did for them They saw the grass as being greener on the other side But just remember that the cycle always repeats itself It's only a matter of time Until they realize that this new situation isn't what they wanted And although they may bite their tongue You could be sure that they will never be happy Because they've just cut off their nose despite their face Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonates with you Please like comment share and subscribe Click the bell icon to see the notifications of my future videos if you are like to donate My paypal link is in the video description coaching inquiries you can email me At coaching at narksfever.co.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon