 Hi, I'm Matthew Coast head dating coach and founder at commitment connection calm and in today's video We're going to talk about whether there's a way to go from a friend with benefits relationship to an actual relationship But before we talk about that if you're struggling to attract the right man into a committed Lasting relationship make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take my quiz So today's question comes from a woman in our community and she's asking is There a way to go from friend with benefits or casual relationship to Dating or a real relationship or is it too late been in friend with benefits relationship for two years So let me put it this way It's easier for most men to go from a Relationship to a friend with benefits situation Then it is for them to go from a friend with benefits situation to a relationship In fact, there's a statistic that's been done on this They've done they've actually done some research on this and what they found is that a relationship to go from friend with benefits to an actual relationship happens one out of nine times so Most you know the short answer here for you is that it's probably way too late. You're proud. You've probably Spent two years in a friend with benefits relationship a relationship. That's just gonna go nowhere and so my suggestion is that you break up with him and start dating other people and If he wants to date you like a normal person You know what you should do is you should start all over from the beginning like you haven't been in a friend with benefits relationship with him and Don't sleep with him unless he Is willing to give you a solid intention of being in a real relationship with you something that's gonna, you know Be long term something that you know is gonna lead to whatever type of relationship that you ultimately want with yourself Otherwise, you're just You're really just wasting your time with them So that's it for this video if you want to know more about what's stopping you from attracting Mr. Right into a committed lasting relationship Make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take my quiz I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon