 What would you say is your biggest regret? Well, my biggest regret would probably be my years I spent as a hardcore Christian and hating people who were others, not being completely inclusive of everybody and loving everybody. One of Jesus' fundamental teachings was to love your neighbor and to love your enemies even. Hate is definitely not the way of Jesus unless it's hatred towards sin. Unfortunately, our modern culture has equated love with unconditional approval of every behavior and lifestyle. But this is fundamentally absurd. There's an important difference between my acceptance of someone's. I can demonstrate my acceptance of someone, my love for them as an image bearer of God with dignity and worth and yet disagree with some of their choices and behaviors. Yes, there are definitely people who speak words of hate in the name of Christianity. Standing on their high horse neglecting the wickedness of their own soul, but they don't speak for Jesus, who invites each of us to find freedom from sin and new identity in him.