 People every single day are attempting something new in their lives. They want to try a different food or watch a different TV show or wear a different piece of clothing. And when people that are closer than find out, they get all kinds of apparently loving feedback that you shouldn't do that. And people often don't survive that. So what I'm saying to people about a thousand fain rules is you have to also be willing to have some version of a fain rule. And I might start with a boundary setting with people that aren't celebrating changes you are wanting to make. And it may be something clumsy and clunky that you're doing. You may not have thought it through. You don't know what to say to people about it, but you just feel good wearing that or you felt good speaking your mind or you feel good getting a tattoo. That's all you know. And if you can't push past the resistance from people you love, you're gonna stop there. And to me, the road back to you begins with those things that you're thinking about doing today, that you're getting a lot of cynical edgy feedback about. And most people don't make it beyond there.