 today is a topic of discussion is we saw something that was i know trending on social media and that was after you know um mula mo was asked by a fan do you support your child and you know he said that you know he tries to but you know he sends the money it is reversed he even sent a gift and it was a you know take a brought back and i think that is when carosoni said never accept anything that comes with disrespect what are your thoughts guys about that because it had mixed reactions me i feel first of all their breakup was very messy and i thought and if they are not up to this point then it is very sad because it's been how many years two years two going to three yeah so oh my god i just hope that they solve their issues plus pair at ways you do a personally i don't know say their story uh whatever really would you why carol soni is saying she feels disrespected maybe to mula moa he feels ajawem disrespect so i feel it is up to them to sit down and have a conversation because in along over do i think both of them have moved on according to what we saw plus one of them to talk to amichanga akisha fika like four years that is when they start having a memory they can tell the environment between them so my sincere hope is by the time kele is getting to four years akisha anju akongyanaku understand to be to do go to do go what akwa may solve then kitu ingi nesipen na ngini like e-storia social media when we have two parents who are public figures now most likely they have blocked each other but they will definitely see what these other one has said e like you in anika liyanga i would never want to get there at x1 i say maivi tume block yana na tume maskretion pia mimi na reply like i feel they only say it is toxic and sometimes it is good to accept that relationships do not work and when it ends in toxic toxicity and you have a child then you really just have to man up you just have to grow up and have a conversation so i don't know maybe she feels disrespected but at the same time this is the father of a child but okay i just feel they have issues that they should solve between them you are watching friends via all feelings are represented what's up everybody welcome to yet another episode of a friends via podcast thank you so much for joining us in case you haven't subscribed just yet kindly make sure you do because we are heading to 200k subscribers and on saturday i am joined by the gracious host indenia and rich gullis jackson and they call me super host miss kethingi today is a topic of discussion is we saw something that was i know trending on social media uh baby mama moa mulamoa aliza kwandika jusi quick reminder no matter how broke you are never accept offers that come with disrespect and that was after you know um mulamoa was asked by a fan do you support your child and you know he said that you know he tries to but you know he sends the money it is reversed uh he even sent a gift and it was you know take a brought back and i think that is when carol sony said never accept anything that comes with disrespect what are your thoughts guys about that because it had mixed reactions personally for me kama indenia mimi yata i will not forgive disrespect what yata pesa yabaza rahu mimi disrespect is yani he know manyangali if you cannot within ishimu na jua once we go there disrespect is involved kido goi visi taki i will do it and if they are not up to this point then it is very sad because it's been how many years two years two going to three yeah so oh my god i just hope that they solve their issues plus paya at ways jua personally i don't know say their story uh whatever willy would you why carol sony is saying she feels disrespected maybe to mulamoa he feels ajawe him disrespect so i feel it is up to them to sit down and have a conversation because in a long overdue i think both of them have moved on according to what we saw plus nonam toto kiwa michanga akisha fika like four years that is when they start having a memory they can tell the environment between them so my sincere hope is by the time kele is getting to four years akisha anjua kongiana ku understand to fitu to go to dogo watakwa wama solve then kitu ingi nesipenda ngini like e-storia social media when we have two parents who are public figures now most likely they have blocked each other but they will definitely see what these other one has said ay like you ina nikalianga i would never want to get there at x1 i say maivi tu me blokiana na tu mamaskrishon pia mimi na reply like i feel they only say it is toxic and sometimes it is good to accept that relationships do not work and when it ends in toxic toxicity and you have a child then you really just have to man up you just have to grow up and have a conversation so i don't know maybe she feels disrespected but at the same time this is the father of the child but okay i just feel they have issues that they should solve between them yeah also we don't really know what is the disrespect you know we don't know what is it because it's away from now you know karasuni and mula moa let's talk generally about you know people because i could see on the comment section people saying oh uh ata mimi it is respect ata mimi usi too much o chote and then the other people saying uh when this child grows and they know that you then it's going to be a problem to that child because again the people are saying you know um just because you know if your baby daddy has moved on you need to respect that aspect you know because they are in a new relationship now uh you might feel like they should have chosen you but they didn't same case applies if your baby mama has moved on there are men who say that they cannot contribute to a child who has already has another father in the house you know like i cannot send you money and you're already married to someone else who just the money to take care of my child so there also people who are feeling you know karo don't reverse that money because that money is not been sent for you it's been sent for this child this gift that has been sent is not sent for you it's been sent for this child then also the man should also know that yes this is the mother of your child so even if you're not together anymore the child is the primary factor yeah this is the main factor as to why you guys are talking because if there was no child the new guys would not have any business talking so because of the child there has to be some agreement as in if at all you too want to raise a child both of you need to come down yeah so what do you guys now think especially when it comes to the child the child is involved here because no one wants disrespect but the child is involved can you go down for the child personally yes i will if i'm struggling kabisa i'm struggling sometimes we just swallow that bit appeal you're doing this for the child the child has to know you and the baby daddy you should do it for me so if i'm struggling yes because this kid needs this kid needs a good life i will not let the kid suffer because of my for lack of a better word ego so let's say for example the dad is disrespect disrespecting you but he is contributing to the child yeah and let's say you're not struggling you're okay you can tell the nani if us the two of us can't have a proper conversation we can communicate through the nani we don't we have no business talking yeah uh-huh please i feel when it comes to a child it's a little bit complicated because mimi usema kitu moja marriage is temporary children are forever so for me when it even comes to choosing a partner the father of my child comes more than the marriage itself marriage is a dissolve but children it is something until death do you but so i feel sometimes i could depending on the situation i could go down for my child because i feel what if you're the father of your child is someone capable when you're at tomado nini nini but so i feel it depends on the situation sometimes i can go down but for me bado ni kukwa iyo having a conversation na kusov kitu i'm still down for that i think that's the best decision yeah but also now it happens where both spouses are petty yeah because they don't want to talk their egos are over there ones are probably in a situation where both parents are well off hey your well off and both of you are petty it's going to be a problem remember when let's say kennedy rapudo had you know held a birthday for the child and then the child apparently did not show up we didn't get to hear the side of the mother but i mean clearly the mother was probably not pleased people were saying maybe it's the venue you should have taken the venue somewhere else where the mother is you know comfortable to come as well and celebrate with the child which it was making sense but again also but again this is where the father of the child is living so i don't know it becomes a bit complicated yeah it comes a bit complicated what do you guys think let us down on the comment section what are your thoughts would you you know accept a gift or money from your fathers uh from the father of your child or the mother of your child uh and then disrespecting you where what time do we consider the child because you see the the child is the is the factor here but you know at some point i agree because do you know if you're not happy as a mom the child will not be happy yes that's energy to fki amtoto so i'm like hey sister what do you do eh ime tushinda ebu toa bini avo kwa comment section what what are your thoughts is there a point that you get to put your emotions aside and you decide it's the child we are taking care of whether it comes with the disrespect or not or do you stick to you know no disrespect if you're disrespecting me i'm not accepting your offers let us know down on the comment section thank you so much guys for watching this episode until next time bye so much