 She says, why is it so hard to leave a relationship with someone after you introduce your family to them and don't appreciate him and they don't appreciate for you? It's hard to leave because once we make an investment in someone, we're attached. We're attached. Here in the United States, I speak about US because that's all I know. We have a real serious problem of I need you to love me so I can feel good about myself. And when someone's not giving you the love you want, you're fighting for it, you're thirsty for it, you're gonna become a martyr in it, you're gonna over give, you're gonna be a people pleaser. Only the, and because it's we give our power away to another human being. Folks, I'm here to say that the primary cause for a relationship discord is because you've given your power to another human being.