 If you find it's so difficult to know if a guy loves you, don't probe it yourself. Most of us have been there at some point. The truth is, when a person likes you, they often make it obvious, but too often, we are so in over our heads and used to our own ideas we don't even know they have given us signs they're already into us. He may refuse to come out straight that he likes you because it doesn't want to be rejected or because he's shy. He may be holding back because you both aren't in the right setting for him to convey his emotions to you. Many things may be responsible for holding him back from telling you how he feels about you. But if you really want to know how a guy feels about you, it's easy to tell. All you have to do is imagine what he may be going through in holding back his feelings from you. Then you will understand and will not be quick to judge him. However, when a guy is into you, he will communicate it somehow. You must pay careful attention to figure it out. No matter what, he cannot hide his feelings for far too long. Some signs will indicate to you that he's into you. Here are some of those signs. 1. He's always around you. You may wonder why he is always interested in being where you are or knowing where you are. You may suddenly begin to find him where you are, where he will give you a silly explanation for why he is there. If you find him always showing up around you and never having a clear explanation as to why he has chosen to be around you, he may be into you. He may show up on your birthday with a best gift or he may visit you a loved one in the hospital with the excuse that you had mentioned it to him and he thought he could show some kindness. You both may attend the same school or live in the same neighborhood, so seeing you is unavoidable. However, if it seems he just wants to spend that much time around you and he hardly ever complains about seeing you around too often or even being with you too often, he is into you. When a guy seems to be expending his energy into seeing you so that he always makes sure you see him, just know that he likes and always wants you around. If he always wants to be around you, he likes you. 2. He likes a lot about you. Not everyone will like everything you do or everything about you, but if a guy seems to like almost everything about you, never finding fault with anything you do and never complaining about a thing you do, he is into you. When a guy really likes you, he isn't just interested in how you look. He wants to be around you always because he loves your person and admires how you are. He may admire your sense of style, your brain or even your unconventional skills and he won't be shy about telling you. If he is always talking about not only your good looks but also some of the qualities about you, he is definitely into you. 3. He stands close. Does he stand so close to you? Does he stand so close he loves to brush his arm against your body? And does he ever mind you invading his personal space? If he does all this, it's a sign that he is into you. We all value our personal space, but we would naturally make exceptions for the people we like. We want to be close to the people we like and so we would do anything to make that happen, including sacrificing our personal space for it. If a guy doesn't mind you coming into his space or if he even encourages you to come into his space, it's a sure sign that he likes you. 4. He leans into you when you speak. When a man is into you, he always wants to get close. That includes literally coming close to you to lean in when you are talking to him. We naturally lean towards the people we like and we remove ourselves from those we don't. If a man is interested in you, he comes closer to you when you are speaking with him, even when he can hear you. He'll figure out some excuses to just come close to you. When you like a guy and want to know if he likes you back, observe how close he gets to you or if he distances himself from you each time you both are talking. 5. He smiles at you a lot. Don't fall for the lie that he smiles a lot naturally. Yes, perhaps he does, but if he smiles a lot around you or no matter what you do, however awkward gets him to smile, he is most certainly interested in you. When a guy likes you, he smiles much more than normal. If he's smiling like a kid, it's a clear sign he's happy to be around you. We all can fake smiles for long, but if he keeps that smile for long whenever you are around him, he's into you. 6. He stares at you. Men are attracted by what they see, they stare at what they love. If you catch a man staring at you lovingly longer than usual, he may like you. Studies show that people look at objects to find attractive or exciting, five times longer than things they find unattractive or boring. If he is always fixing his eyes on you in an interesting manner, he is into you. 7. He mirrors you. To a certain degree, we are subconsciously affected by the actions of others. When a person sings, we may want to sing. When they yawn, we may catch ourselves yawning. It's natural to want to repeat the action of another. It's a conscious thing. If a guy likes you, you will subconsciously influence him much more. He may fold his arms when yours are folded. He may adjust himself during a meeting just seconds after you have done the same. He may lean forward as you lean forward. It's a sign he likes you and is interested in you. We unconsciously mirror the body movements of people we like. 8. He grooms himself. We naturally want to impress the person we like. If a guy likes you, he would want to impress you, especially with his appearance. Now it doesn't mean he dresses shabbily or always pretends to look groomed. However, if he quickly adjusts his hair or tie when you show up or if he changes his sitting position, adjusting himself on his seat so he looks manly, he is into you. A man who does anything to make his appearance look good in front of you is into you. Watch out for the signs in the man you think may be interested in you. 9. He makes eye contact. How a man looks at you may also determine if he is into you or not. When it comes to attraction, how your eyes make contact is important. If a man is into you, he tends to look at you alone when he is speaking. He would fix his eyes on you when he is speaking and even when someone else tries to distract his line of sight in the room, he returns his gaze on you. It's a good sign he likes you when he always wants to make eye contact. It is also a sign that he doesn't when he doesn't mind focusing on something else while you talk. 10. He touches you a lot. A man who likes you will look for every excuse to touch you. If you find he is constantly seeking opportunities to touch you, not in an abusive or creepy manner, but a cool, calm touch. He is into you. He may seem to do it accidentally. He may brush his hand over yours as he speaks or tries to peek a pair of strand of your shirt. Or he could touch you lightly as it holds up in the door for you. Just observe it if he touches you the next time you both are together. How often he does it may show he is into you. 11. He treats you differently. If a guy goes out of his way to be nice to you, he may be into you. He is always willing to help you with your assignment. He rushes to pick up a bug that dropped from your hand. He quickly offers you a clean handkerchief when you cough. He hurries to get your taxi when you are both close to the office. He offers to help you lift an item that is clearly not heavy. If you notice he treats you differently then he treats the girls around him. He is into you. 12. He acts differently around you. He acts loud and talkative around others, but calm and gentle when you are around him. He puts on his best behavior when you are around. He does everything possible to impress you. If he does this, he likes you. A guy may behave in a certain manner but act differently when he is around you. You may need to observe closely. If his behavior is different, he is into you. 13. He gets shifty. When a man likes you, he can be nervous around you. He may tweet around when you are both talking. He may do a lot of weird things around you. This might be a sign he really likes you and he is just nervous. He makes this moves to ease his tension which it fills around you. If he is always touching his hair, sliding his hands uncomfortably into his pockets or tapping lightly on his tie as he speaks, he may be attempting to ease of the nervousness because he is really into you. If this video has inspired you to understand signs a guy is into you, subscribe to this channel. We love you.