One question that most people ask when they are on the wrong side of a break up is "why?". Instead of wasting your time figuring out the reason why it was you on the wrong side, you should be concentrating on how it is you are going to get your ex to come running back to you. Here are 3 dirty little tricks they will never see coming and put the advantage back in your court.
Write them a quick letter and tell them you agree with the break up. Yea, I know it sounds crazy, but it works. Instead of getting some letter pouring your heart out to them, they are going to get a letter that says "ok, that's cool, and you know what? I agree with it". This is going to blow them away right off the bat because it is definitely not what they were expecting to see when they opened it up.
So you've already got their head spinning, so let's take it one step further. Instead of calling them, texting them or talking to them, you are going to want to just cut off every single avenue of communication that you have between the two of you. For a couple weeks, don't return any phone calls, text messages or return letters. This is really going to drive them crazy, especially since they are still confused about the letter you sent them.
Now lets take it another step and really get them thinking "what the heck is going on here!". After you have followed step one and two, you need to take your show on the road. By this I mean to get yourself out of the house and be around a lot of people.
This works best if you have friends you have not seen in a while or if you live in a smaller town and have places that everyone seems to hang out at. Now, here's what this is going to accomplish.
The fact that you are out and having a better time than your ex thinks you should be is going to get back to them. When they find this out, they are going to start putting all the pieces together in their head....but they won't be able to.
First they got the letter saying you agreed with the break up, then they can't get in touch with you and you are are not answering calls and now they hear you are out on the town acting like it hasn't bothered you one bit.
Do you think their head is going to be spinning? Sure is, and they are going to want to talk to you now! This is the perfect time to set up a meeting with them.
Here is the most important question you must answer - Do you want to get back with your ex? If you do, then you need to make sure you are on the right track. Just as there are things you can do to make it work, there are serious things you can do along the way to completely blow any chance you may have had.