 stop ignoring red flags. So he's super awesome except for that big thing over there, right? Like he's in a relationship or, you know, he does drugs or he just got out of jail or, I don't know, a million other things. And this this happens in our community all the time. There was just a woman, I think it was like last week, who was talking about this guy that she met who got out of jail. And it's it's one of those things you got to look at that stuff. And sometimes it's not a bad situation. Sometimes it is. And it's always that's one of the reasons why it's powerful to be a part of a community like ours, because you can ask a question. And women who are on the outside can look in and see what's going on with what's going on with you. This is also a good reason to have a coach, because we can look at what's going on in your situation. And you're inside of it, and you're having all these feelings, and you really like this guy, and there's all these things going on. And you're missing these red flags that are right in front of your face. And if you ignore those red flags, then you'll only end up regretting it later on in the future.