 In porn, threesomes just happen. It just starts with everyone doing everything. But if we wanted to try it and to make it special, how can we set the right mood? Is there a nice way of doing this? You know, all sex is about emotions and all intimacy can be and should always be as nice as possible. Porn is never the thing to go by. Now regarding threesomes in particular, yes, it's the most common fantasy. Yes, it's the one that gets done the most. It is also the one that is most likely to go wrong because sex is never just straightforward. There are lots of subconscious emotions in your head which you don't even know exist till you come face-to-face with them. Threesomes is a real pitfall to go through. However, if you are going to go through with it, then yes, the right mood as well as the right knowledge is very important. So first, before you even get down to the right mood, get yourself lots of lube, lots of condoms because remember safe sex is always the best sex. Once you begin the actual sex, you now need to experiment with a few different positions until you can find the right one that works for all of you because remember not everything is going to work for everyone and just in case you cannot find the right position because that's not always easy with three people. Keep a couple of toys handy because that will help to overcome a lot of problems and most importantly, if you feel uncomfortable at any point, just stop. This is about you. It's about you having fun. It's not about you proving anything to anyone. Sex should always be joyous and if it doesn't feel joyous today, it's just not the right day for it. There will be another day.