 Helo, wrth gwrs. Welcome to another Nark Survivor Live video. I'm coming to you live from my new apartment in another city. I just got here now after a long drive. Today I'd like to talk about something I haven't talked about for a while. That is how the narcissist thinks you still want them. First off, I just want to say that I'm sorry if the title of this video irritates or angers anyone who sees it because I can imagine after everything you've been through them, the last thing you may want to hear is that they think that you still want them. Of course the arrogance, the audacity for someone to think that. But of course I am all about speaking the truth. I think it's important and I want to share this with you. I think it can help. So I'm going to go ahead and get right into this topic now. Yes, the narcissist thinks you still want them because they are very arrogant and audacious. They're delusional. So in their warped twisted minds they actually think that you still want them. Because remember, in their minds they're the best thing since sliced bread. Despite everything they did to you, in their minds they minimise their faults and mistakes and they exaggerate what little they did for you. While at the same time they minimise anything good that you did for them and they exaggerate your flaws and that's how they're able to look down on you from this authoritative position as though they're so much better than you and you were lucky to have them, you should have seen it as a privilege to be around them. That's how they're able to look at it from that perspective. That's how they're able to think in their delusional minds that you still want them. And of course you must think that it's crazy. You must think that it's completely insane. How could this individual possibly think that I want anything to do with them after everything they did to me, after all of the abuse, the manipulation, all of the lies, the triangulation, the smear campaign. The devaluation. The discard. After they cheated, they lied, they stole and they painted me as this horrible person. After all of that and I'm meant to still want them. That doesn't make any sense. But that's how they see it. You have to remember that these people are mentally ill. They are sick in their head. They live in an alternate reality that they've created in their minds. A fantasy. And they expect people to validate these illusions to see themselves as they want to be seen. But yeah, once they know that you are on to them, they will back away because they don't want to be exposed. But once they've had some time away from you, they start to think a bit differently. And they really think that despite everything you've said, there's a part of you that misses them and still wants to be with them. And of course, that's why they come back to hover you. They're not going to hover you if they really think you have nothing to do with them. They come back because they think they still got a chance. It's crazy. It really is. How they can think that way. After everything they did, but then they never really acknowledged what they did, they never took accountability. So it's so easy for them to just let it fly by for them to just sweep it under the rug and pretend it never happened. Anything they do wrong, it doesn't feel real to them. But it felt real to you because in reality it was real. It's only in their fantasy inside their minds that it doesn't exist. It's crazy, but this is how they think. If they did something wrong, it didn't really happen. It doesn't really matter. It doesn't really exist. They could just make stuff up about you. False accusations. They can project, they can blame shift and just blame you for everything. And it might seem like a bunch of lies to you, but to them it's the truth. That's just how crazy these people are. And the more that you try to talk to them, you're just entertaining the madness. And then you're going to feel like you're going insane because they will gas like you. They will make you doubt your own memory, perception and sanity until you feel like you're losing your mind. But yeah, I'm sorry if this title of the video offends anyone because I can imagine from my own experience it's like an insult for anyone to say that I would still want the narcissist after everything they've done to me. It's crazy to even think that way, but of course these people are pretty much crazy and that is how they think. And you need to be aware of their arrogance and audacity to be better able to protect yourself from them. Because you never know what they're going to do next. Remember this could be the reason for them stalking you, for the harassment, for them not leaving you alone, for them randomly appearing on your social media. But that could be the reason for that. They may think that you've had enough time away to where you're now willing to forgive, to where you're now starting to miss them. They actually think like this in their heads. They think that after some time has gone by, despite everything they've done, that you're going to miss them. That you're going to miss the false character that they displayed to you when they first targeted you. It's like they don't come to the conclusion that you realise the false character is fake. But if they do realise that, you'll probably never hear from them again because they know once you know the false character is fake, the jig is up. It's game over. There's no going back after that. But of course if you do reveal that to them it will cause a narcissistic injury. And they will get really mad and they will try to destroy you because they know that's it after that. They know they got no chance. And they don't want anyone else to share your greatness. All of the amazing things that you have to offer. If they can't have it, they don't want anyone else to have it. So they will do whatever it takes to try to destroy it. And that's why you need to be very cautious. Once they know that you've really figured them out, that you know that the false character is fake, you really need to get out of there as quick as you can. And don't let them know where you are. Don't let them know anything about you. Cut them off. Cut everyone off who knows them. And just stay far away. Because from that point on that only objective is going to be to destroy you. They're not going to have any purpose for you after that. 40 live viewers in here right now. Please give this video a thumbs up. It helps to support our community. Just checked in to this brand new condo. Everything smells so new in here. It's really clean. Got a brand new pool and gym. Just living it up. Enjoying my life after everything I've been through with narcissists. All the toxicity and abuse. You just got to take some time out to really appreciate life. It's a gift that we have been given from God. As I've said before, life is meant to be enjoyed, not endured. So let's enjoy it. Let's make the most of our lives. Nala is here with me. See you alone, Nala. I'm sure Nala appreciates all of you as well. We appreciate the support. We really just want to get this message out there so that as many people as possible can see it. And it can help them move forward in their lives. And protect them from meeting people like this in the future as well. 53 live viewers in here. Please give this video a thumbs up. Only 26 thumbs up right now. So please hit that button below. It helps to support the community and spread the message. And share this video as well if you can. If you'd like to book on one-on-one with me, you can do that on my website. It's Narcsefiver.co.uk. 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