 You have nothing to lose by asking these two questions before you ever meet someone but Jonathan That's gonna sound like an interview. That's going to scare a guy away Wouldn't scare me Wouldn't scare my circle of friends all of my male friends who have met their partners on dating apps And if so many of them are married or about to get married didn't wouldn't scare any of those guys See it doesn't scare the guy who's serious It only scares the guy who doesn't want significant commitment and if he's waiting for some sign The sign from god It's never gonna happen and yet many of you are are are You're hooked on the fantasy that if I just show him how wonderful I am He'll love me