 Hi everyone, another live video here just out this country house in South Yorkshire with a Slake here. You want the narcissist to respect you? Do this. There's only one way that you're going to get any form of respect from your narcissist. And the only way you're going to do that is by leaving. You see when you're with them, they just see you as a fool. They see someone that they can use. They see someone that they can exploit. But when you finally get up and leave, that's when they don't see you as a fool anymore. They see it as though I'm too smart for this one. I can't play my game with this one. It's not going to work on them. So really, that's the only way that you're going to get them to respect you is by leaving. Because as long as you remain around them, they're never going to have any respect for you. They're just going to see you as a fool. They're just going to see you as someone that they can exploit. When you finally leave and you go no contact with the narcissist, they will be forced to respect your decision. They might try to pull you back in. They might try to hoover you. They might stalk you. They might start a smear campaign against you. But if you continue to just ignore all of that and you become unreachable, they're forced to respect your wishes, to be left alone. To get a narcissist to respect you, you have to take away that choice for them to be involved with you because they're never going to get to that on their own. If they respect anything, it's things that they don't have, things that aren't around them. They just see it as though if you're even around them, you're a fool. They don't respect people who are around them or even people who just want to be around them. They're not going to respect you for doing that. You're never going to get their respect that way. The only thing they will ever respect is when you distance yourself. Because in the back of their mind is they're looking at it like if you can just walk away, you're basically saying that you think you're better than them, that you can do better without them. And while narcissists cannot self-reflect for long periods of time, there is that small window, there is that second door too where they do kind of respect you, where they do think you realize you figured out the game, you know what they're really doing, you know what they're really about. There is a small window where that pops up in their heads. If that was not true, there would be no narcissistic injury. There would be no rage. The reason why they get so mad is because in that small window, they do kind of respect you. And they hate it. They can't take it. They try to fight against it. They try to push it away. And that's how you know what's going on in their minds when they do that. That's when you know that you've defeated the narcissist. But yeah, I'm just out here in South Yorkshire, just relaxing by this lake. Just came to visit this country house here. I've been uploading a lot of pictures and videos from my travels here over the past week. I'm here for one more week, so there will be much more to come. If you haven't already, check out my Instagram. It's Narc Survivor YouTube. There will be more pictures and videos very soon. But yeah, I hope everyone's having a good day. I'll be getting out there. Enjoying yourself is good to learn about this information. But then it's also important to just get out there and have fun. Enjoy your life. Life is meant to be lived. Life is meant to be enjoyed, not endured. Remember that. Tell yourself that every morning when you wake up, any time that you think about the narcissist and what they did to you, how they made you feel and it starts to take over your day. Just tell yourself, life is meant to be enjoyed, not endured, because it's the truth. It's a natural state just to be. Just look at these ducks here. You think they're worrying about narcissists? They're too busy just being. And while I will say that it is important to learn about this information and to protect ourselves, we also need to get back to our natural state too. And just be and enjoy life. Because that's what it's really about. We're here to have fun. We're here to enjoy this world. So let's just do it. Let's enjoy it. Make the most of it while we can. And yeah, I just wanted to finish this with a positive message. Thank you all for joining this live. Got a premiere later at 6.30 BST time. So I hope to see you there.