 Today, for a change, I feel smug. What can you say? You're always smug. Yeah, that's very true. But today, I have a good reason to be. A study is about to be published in October, which supports everything I've been saying for well over a decade on controversial issues in cluster B personality disorders. I'm going to review this astounding breakthrough article and then expound a bit on things and conclusions in it. So let us start by referring you to the bibliography. The article is about to be published in personality and individual differences, volume 180, October 2021. And the article is titled The self-concepts of people with dark triad traits tend to be weaker, less clearly defined, and more state-related. The article is authored by Stephen Dorfler, Mariam Tajmyriyahi, William Ikes, and Peter Jonathan. Forgive them their family names. They know not what they are doing. But when it comes to cluster B personality disorders, they definitely know what they are doing. Let me read to you the highlights of the article and then the abstract. The highlights are dark triad traits predicted a weaker and more unstable sense of self. I've been saying it for a decade. I've been insisting that narcissists, for example, have no ego. They have no self. The second highlight from the article, dark triad traits were related to more state and less trait-related self-concepts. I will explain this a bit later. Just to remind you, dark triad is the combination of psychopathy, narcissism and Machiavellianism, or manipulativeness. There is now a new concept, a new construct called the dark tetrad, which is essentially a vulnerable dark triad which incorporates covert narcissism and borderline. Again, I'll come to it in a few minutes. The next highlight from the article is secondary psychopathy was the strongest predictor of a weaker and unstable self. I've been saying for eons that borderline personality disorder is actually a form of secondary psychopathy and that the reason for this is that borderlines have identity disturbance. They have an unstable sense of self and this article fully supports this. And the final highlight is leadership authority was the only predictor of a stronger sense of self. Leadership authority is a determinant, a dimension in a narcissistic personality inventory test. We'll come to that also a bit later. But before we do, I'd like to give the authors their own voice. I'd like to read to you the abstract. The researchers have examined overt social behavioral manifestations of dark triad traits while mostly ignoring the similarities in the covert self-concept of these individuals. Across two independent samples, we investigated aspects of an unstable self-concept in relation to dark triad traits. In study number one with 298 people, we found that higher levels of the dark triad traits were related to a weaker sense of self, decreased trait term usage and greater state term usage in a spontaneous self-concept task. In the second study with 262 participants, we sought to obtain a more fine-grained understanding of these associations. In regression models secondary psychopathy followed by vulnerable covert narcissism emerged as the only predictors of both a weaker sense of self and lower self-concept clarity. Whereas the leadership authority aspect of grandiose narcissism emerged as a significant predictor of a stronger sense of self and increased self-concept. These findings are discussed within the context of interesting theory, for example, the life strategy approach and the vulnerable dark triad model, also known as dark tetrad. Okay, this is the abstract authored by the academics and like all academics, it's very difficult to decipher and understand. It's very dense and replete with jargon and lingo and you name it. What these people are saying is nothing short of revolutionary and tallies 100% with what I had been saying in numerous papers and studies and throughout the academic world, most recently in a presentation in McGill University in an interview I granted to Cambridge University. So let us try to decipher what they are saying. The authors focused on a sense of self. Now everyone has a sense of self. Even the earliest thinkers in psychology, modern psychology, like Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung and others focused their attention, focused their work on a concept of self. Now they either deconstructed the self. So for example, Freud came with a trilateral model ego, id, ego and super ego. So they either deconstructed the self or on the very contrary, they proposed the self as a unitary kind of entity. Jung did this in his famous conception of constellation. He says that the self is constellated via processes of introversion and healthy narcissism. I've dedicated two videos to these issues and I encourage you to watch them. I'm not the place right now, but everyone is supposedly has a sense of self. Now I've been arguing for close on to 25 years that the only exceptions in the human zoo are narcissists. I claim, I insisted that narcissists and to some extent borderlines do not have a self that this is the core of the pathology that instead of having a self, they actually have an emptiness, an empty schizoid core. Now of course I've not been the first or the only one to claim this. Otto Kernberg Jeffrey Seinfeld, many other psychoanalysts and psychologists have said essentially the same. But it never made it into the mainstream. Perhaps because it's too horrifying to contemplate someone without a self is like a zombie or a robot. It's to some extent when we say you don't have a self we're taking away your humanity towards to dehumanize narcissists and borderlines and this runs contra to the grain and the predilection and the tendencies of psychologists and psychotherapists. They want to help people. They don't want to dehumanize and objectify them. But scientists and other physicists by training, scientists follow the evidence takes them. And the evidence is pretty clear. Narcissists, borderlines and secondary psychopaths which are essentially borderlines. They don't have a self. And in borderline it's known as identity disturbance and I've dedicated several videos to the issues of identity disturbance, pseudo identities sub personalities and self states and I again encourage you to watch these videos. Anyhow, why are we so interested in the question of self? Because it is through the self that we relate to the world in other words the self one of the functions of the ego one of the functions of the self is reality testing. We function in the world self-efficaciously or otherwise via the construct of the self the self we intermediate the world via the self. The self is of course a metaphor it's an allegory. There's no physical entity or material device that is a self. It's just an organizing principle. It's a kind of a working model an overriding working model. And so we assume that the brain organizes itself along some lines with which when put together when coalesced they become the self. So the self helps us to cope in reality but also the self is the way we interact with other people. Self, the modern conception of self the modern conception of personality is that it is inter-relational it reflects interpersonal interactions. We are the confluence of everyone around us especially meaningful influential significant role models, introjects, parents and so on. So we become we become through interacting with other people and this is the core of object relations theory in the 1960s. So the modern approach is not to consider the self or the ego whatever name you want to call it discrete atomized unit divorced from the rest of the world and diverged and deviant and separate from others but we consider the self and the ego like a Venn diagram overlapping circles where they overlap that's the self. And so self is a crucial concept in understanding interpreting and predicting the outcomes of interpersonal relationships and perhaps especially intimate relationships but not only in the workplace as well. What does the study say? It says that dark triad personalities personalities with psychopathy with narcissism and with extreme manipulativeness known as Machiavellianism. Dark triad personalities tend to have a weak, diffuse unclear, disturbed sense of self it's a very polite way of saying that they have no self. The second thing the study says is that specific dark triad traits dark triad traits or sub-trades highly specific ones in for example the type of narcissism, the type of psychopathy they are the ones which obstruct the formation of a coherent, cohesive, functional sense of self. So the concept of self is heavily influenced by the question of what kind of narcissists are you or what kind of psychopath you are. The third conclusion from this amazing study which is bound to become seminal, the third conclusion is that learning to recognize these traits is very important because we can then classify or categorize people, predict their behaviors and avoid destructive defined, consumatious impulsive, reckless and callous behaviors we can minimize the damage that these people cause to themselves, to society and to others including in intimate relationships So the sense of self is therefore a key understanding one's personality understanding relationships and understanding one's functioning in the world. In other words the self is what we would call a positive adaptation but to act positively throughout the lifespan the self needs to be stable it needs to be persistent, continuous it needs to be a core of identity which is essentially immutable, like a lighthouse like a beacon whenever we lose the way we zero in we calibrate on the self the self is like a navigation device, like an astrolabe it's something like the northern star in our galaxy of introjects, internalized objects and external objects so when we have, when someone has a weak unstable, unclear diffuse or disturbed sense of self that's a huge problem and it's also an excellent definition of certain personality disorders or other psychiatric conditions it leads to insecure attachment styles it leads to extreme difficulties in functioning in personal and in work relationships it leads of course to stunted growth and development and so research in the past demonstrated that identity disturbance a weak or unstable sense of self is closely associated or correlated with anxious attachment style and with dysfunctional relationships and in turn dysfunctional relationships hinder, obstruct, destroy, erode the little identity the person has, so if you have a personality disorder if you have narcissistic or borderline personality disorder you start off with an unstable weak sense of self and then you go on to having really destructive horrible, painful, hurtful relationships and these relationships further destroy and erode what little self and identity you started off with so it's a vicious circle and so the personality in healthy people is not reactive to outside traumas and problems in relationships for example we discovered in studies the divorce which is a major trauma a little effect on personality in healthy people but it does have it does have a massive effect on trait consistency on trait constancy in narcissists especially in borderlines so the external environment further undermines sabotages any roads and corrodes the little self that the borderline and narcissists manage somehow to conjure up manage somehow to cobble together and so difficulties in maintaining healthy relationships getting stuck in dysfunctions this leads to an increased level of maladaptation and the maladaptation leads to unhealthy relationships and getting stuck in dysfunction etc etc it's a perpetual and so crazy making in personality disorders is exactly the reaction to this vicious cycle to this negative feedback loop so this study, this recent research that I'm referring to in personality and individual differences is called DOER FLER October 2021 this recent study it tried to somehow correlate or somehow ascertain what's the connection between dark triad traits and a sense of self is the self somehow dependent on dark triad traits do dark triad traits derive from a stable sense of self or from the instability in the self the authors didn't know the answer, they didn't come into the study biased, actually they came biased in a way for the wrong conclusions and they were pretty shocked and surprised by what they had discovered and so the anticipated outcomes mostly did not come true whenever you embark on a study in psychology you kind of have an intuition what the results will be and the great studies are the ones that defy your intuition so the authors for example assumed that narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy are correlated with each other as well as with a weaker sense of self and this was upheld by the study where Machiavellianism and psychopathy were more likely to use state-based descriptions rather than trade-based descriptions and this suggested a great instability in the sense of self with the tendency towards short-term thinking and impulsive risky decisions uninformed by self-awareness let me explain the difference between trade-based descriptions when we ask someone why did you do that? usually they will describe their own traits they will refer to their internal mental state they will say I did it because I'm stubborn I did it because I'm impulsive I did it because I was angry I did it because I love her all these are trade-based self-based descriptions but when you ask a narcissist or a psychopath or even a borderline, why did you do that? they are likely to describe the environment they are not going to talk about themselves rarely going to talk about themselves they usually describe the environment so if you ask a psychopath why did you snatch this old lady's purse is not going to say because I detest old ladies or because I'm impulsive or because I needed money well, she left it unattended it's going to describe the environment if you ask a woman, why did you sleep with this man? why did you sleep with this man who had mistreated you? she would say well he created a pleasant environment for me so these people narcissists, psychopaths and borderlines they describe the environment they derive their motivations and they derive the description of their internal world their internal landscape from the outside they outsource the description of their internal world it's like they are not aware they are not aware of their own internal landscape they are not aware of their own minds they are not aware of who they are and what they do they scan the environment for clues for hints for information, for data to help them to realize who they are and what they are doing so healthy people use self states or mind states or state based descriptions and unhealthy people especially psychopaths, narcissists and borderlines they use healthy people use trait based descriptions mental state based descriptions and unhealthy people use state based descriptions healthy people use descriptions of themselves and explain their behavior by referring to their state who they are the motivations, their dreams their hopes, their thoughts, their emotions unhealthy people explain who they are and why they do what they're doing what they did, what they did because in reference to the environment they refer to the outside to explain themselves and so these results confirmed this initial assumption was that psychopaths people with dark triad traits are going to use state based descriptions and this was confirmed and upheld in the study and the results in the study held regardless of gender and regardless of age so it applies equally to women and men and throughout the lifespan it seems to be therefore constant it seems that psychopathy, narcissism and to some extent borderline preconditioned people to refer to the environment for their own self definition they derive their sense of identity they derive the core from the outside they outsource these functions the second study captured nuances using what we call sub traits of narcissism and psychopathy and so they try to differentiate the dark triad traits from one another in terms of self and in terms of the clarity of the self concept they try to see whether narcissism or psychopathy or Machiavellianism are somehow more strongly connected to any specific way of perceiving the self to any stability of the self or lack of stability and so they discovered that high level dark triad traits associated with a weaker sense of self an unclear self concept both men and women had identical results men are much more likely to be psychopathic than women although this is changing very fast because women are imitating psychopathic men but still the connection between dark triad traits and a weak unstable sense of self and an unclear diffuse disturbed self concept this connection held across genders across ages and seems to be connected to the psychopathy to the narcissism not to whether you are a man or a woman for example or not to whether you are an ok boomer or a millennial this is the first time to the best of my knowledge the first time we are beginning to see the hints of an invariable clinical entity a clinical entity that does not depend on a narrative does not depend on intuition including the therapist or diagnostician's intuition a clinical entity that is all on its own it's a bit like tuberculosis or COVID-19 it's a disease that can strike anyone at any age regardless of gender and it's the first time we are getting an inkling that narcissism and psychopathy may indeed be clinical entities gender free age unrelated diseases not even disorders with age the sense of self in Machiavellianism strengthened so it seems that someone who has narcissism and psychopathy and also Machiavellianism a dark triad person has a better prognosis because he can develop greater self-awareness and later on greater self-acceptance this is not true for people who have only narcissism or only psychopathy or comorbidity of narcissism and psychopathy but they are not Machiavellian Machiavellianism therefore is a stable a stable trait it's something that holds its uniform and it's unitary and it's more you can think of it as the glue the glue that holds together the narcissistic self-states the psychopathic self-states gradually so it brings them all together and creates self-awareness and a cohesive sense of self healing in effect ironically Machiavellianism is the only hope and chance for healing in narcissism and psychopathy regrettably most narcissists and psychopaths are not members of the dark triad they are these are separate diagnosis only a small minority have dark triad traits and even smaller minority have dark tetrad traits and so the scholars went a bit deeper and they started to study sub-trades sub-trades of narcissism sub-trades lower level traits of psychopathy and lower level traits of Machiavellianism when they did this it was there that they were shocked because everything they discovered when they went a bit deeper contradicted the upper level picture, the meta picture you see if you just look at narcissism as a complex as a unitary kind of clinical picture you look at psychopathy separately you look at Machiavellianism separately you say well, narcissists and psychopaths don't have a sense of self they have an unstable, diffuse disturbed sense of self which is not constant and not persistent across the lifespan regardless of gender that's a general conclusion but if you go a bit deeper the picture becomes a lot more nuanced and fine grained when you look at grandiose narcissism vulnerable narcissism primary psychopathy secondary psychopathy and Machiavellianism story almost reverses it's a bit shocking it's like when you transition from macro systems to quantum mechanics in the world of quantum mechanics everything we know about the quantum world contradicts everything we experience in daily life in the quantum world objects can be in two places simultaneously in the quantum world there is action at a distance in the quantum world objects vanish behind the solid partition and appear on the other side things happen in the quantum world that could never happen in daily life in our reality as we perceive it through our senses the same in this study when you look at narcissism, psychopathy and Machiavellianism you reach one set of conclusions but when you go a bit deeper and analyze the subunits the subtrades you get an entirely opposite picture secondary psychopathy and vulnerable narcissism are most strongly correlated with a weaker or unclear sense of self again this is something I've been saying for at the very least a decade I've been advocating the view that borderline personality disorder is actually a form of secondary psychopathy and that covert narcissism is actually the only real form of narcissism because it's the only compensatory form secondary psychopathy is borderline covert narcissism is narcissism and these two what's common what do they have in common they have in common identity disturbance they have in common a weak unclear sense of self and this is why borderlines transition easily to secondary psychopathy and covert narcissism also transition easily to secondary psychopathy and that's why I proposed the additional diagnosis of covert borderline it's the borderline who transitions to primary psychopathy as distinct from these two okay so we have these two subtypes covert narcissism psychopathy also known as borderline and these ones have no sense of self to talk of whatever sense of self they have it's shape shifts it's unstable it's unpredictable it's impulsive it's labile it's dysregulated it's discontinuous it's non-persistent it's not a self in any way, shape or form they don't have a self to cut a long story short and today we are beginning to think that the only form of narcissism is compensatory narcissism and its primary manifestation covert narcissism we are beginning to think that what we used to call grandiose phallic overt narcissism is actually a form of primary psychopathy and this study tends to support this because it groups together secondary psychopathy which is borderline with covert narcissism and it groups together grandiose narcissism with primary psychopathy which is the real psychopathy and so grandiose narcissism grandiose narcissism has a mildly strongest sense of self but not fully not fully what the authors did they analyzed the narcissistic personality inventory, NPI test and they found that one of the dimensions of the test known as leadership authority one of the components known as leadership authority component when that component was dominant in the grandiose narcissists the narcissists had a stronger sense of self not not strong self not a strong sense of self but stronger sense of self still disturbed still not cohesive still incongruent still problematic but stronger than in covert narcissism stronger than the secondary psychopathy the grandiose narcissists with an emphasize NPI component of leadership authority had a stronger sense of self than covert narcissists in secondary psychopathy the other NPI traits the other components of for example grandiose exhibitionism and entitlement exploitativeness they correlated with a weaker sense of self and I'm proposing that the reason is that they actually measure covert narcissism grandiose exhibitionism is a trait of grandiose narcissists of course but entitlement exploitativeness of very pronouncing covert narcissism when you look more closely vulnerable or covert narcissism is what does it include, what does it may look it's insecurity emotional reactivity self-doubt passive aggressions passive aggression all these are correlated with problems a problematic sense of self grandiose narcissism is based on an innate authentic sense of superiority vulnerable covert narcissism is compensatory because it covers up for problems in a sense of self because of developmental problems developmental adversity you could say that the covert narcissist is a case of stunted growth or stunted development which is a phrase we never use in academia by the way it's taboo you're not supposed to use it it's politically incorrect grandiose narcissists did not experience developmental adversity the grandiose narcissist experienced a breach of boundaries for example instrumentalizing spoiling parents parents who parentify the narcissists parents who breach the narcissists boundaries in other ways so when boundaries are breached the likely outcome is a grandiose narcissist when boundary is a breach in childhood likely outcome grandiose narcissist when development and growth are stunted when there is adversity for example classic abuse physical abuse, sexual abuse etc we are likely to end up with a covert narcissist the covert narcissist is closely associated with borderline which is a form of secondary psychopathy so this cluster covert narcissists borderline secondary psychopathy they are actually the constituents of the dark tetrad not triad, tetrad the new concept and there there is no self the grandiose narcissists and the primary psychopath they have a sense of self much higher on a much higher level much more organized than the covert narcissists and the borderline secondary psychopathy but it's still a fragmented fractured self with multiple self states grandiose narcissists who scored higher on leadership authority traits and components in the NPI they had a clear more robust sense of self and the vulnerable narcissists which is essentially the covert narcissists which is essentially the traumatized narcissists the narcissists who is post traumatic and therefore in my view the only form of real compensatory narcissism I believe the only real narcissists is the covert vulnerable compensatory narcissists because I believe that narcissism is post traumatic well this type of post traumatic narcissists yes this type had a very very diffuse sense of self did not develop a self in effect had no ego and had to outsource ego functions even more than the grandiose narcissists so you could say that the grandiose narcissists is adaptive is a form grandiose narcissism is a form of adaptive narcissism why it's adaptive because it leads to a stronger sense of self while covert narcissism is maladaptive narcissism is problematic narcissism because it compensates for a lack of self and so we can see a narcissists with a combination of leadership authority grandiose exhibitionism exploited entitlement exploited exploitativeness the more pronounced these other traits are the less of a self he has for the first time to the best of my knowledge we can come up with a scale a scale of coherence and cohesion of self in cluster B personality disorders and invaluable tool and the same way there is a relationship between grandiose narcissism and covert narcissism in terms of stability of self grandiose narcissists have a more stable self covert narcissists have a less stable self the same way there is a relationship between primary psychopathy and secondary psychopathy primary psychopathy did not correlate with self concept problems secondary psychopathy correlated with self concept problems let me repeat this because this means the primary psychopathy and secondary psychopathy have nothing in common they are misnomer they are mislabeled secondary psychopathy is not psychopathy it's a wrong phrase it's a wrong name secondary psychopathy is emotional dysregulation also known as borderline personality disorder primary psychopaths have a perfectly intact self the self of primary psychopaths is continuous functional demarcated boundary persistent regulated etc etc primary psychopaths in cluster B primary psychopaths have the highest functioning self although not totally functioning but highest functioning secondary psychopaths have no self at all instead of a self concept a constant and consistent self concept instead they have what we know as identity disturbance they have no self and exactly like the narcissists they create a hive mind they outsource their identity and self they collect information from the environment the narcissist collects narcissistic supply from other people puts it together and generates on the fly just in time self the narcissist generates millions of selves millions of selves throughout his lifetime by collecting data and input and feedback from people known as narcissistic supply and using it leveraging it to generate a kaleidoscopic self that I call the hive mind the primary psychopath does not need to do that and the second the psychopath does that but with the intimate partner so the secondary psychopath uses the intimate partner to outsource his identity ego and self concept and functions the intimate partner of the borderline also known as secondary psychopath the intimate partner of the borderline serves to define the identity and the self of the borderline and this is why the borderline is terrified of losing the intimate partner because without the intimate partner the borderline will be self less and not in the good sense of the word on the other hand the borderline is terrified of engulfment and enmeshment because the intimate partner takes over the borderline's identity assimilates the borderline digest the borderline the borderline feels that she is disappearing vanishing inside the intimate partner why? because she does it's true so grandiose narcissists especially grandiose narcissists with higher levels authority, leadership on the narcissistic personality inventory components these grandiose narcissists have a kind of more constellated self a higher sense of self so this is the hierarchy now this is the number one primary psychopath the primary psychopath has a good sense of self almost healthy almost like healthy people not totally but almost second down the ladder the grandiose narcissists with authority leadership component also relatively functioning relatively well put together relatively unitary less diffuse, more boundary self regulated and functional next grandiose narcissists with leadership authority grandiose exhibitionism entitlement exploitativeness in the narcissistic personality inventory test the self is less cohesive, less coherent less congruent, less functional less regulated less boundary next stage the covert narcissists and the secondary psychopath they don't have a self they don't have a self the covert narcissists and the borderline which is essentially a secondary psychopath they import they outsource identity formation from other people the covert narcissists imports it from sources of narcissistic supply and the borderline imports it from her intimate partner now the grandiose narcissists also uses narcissistic supply of course narcissistic supply is a commodity that is used both in grandiose narcissism and in covert vulnerable narcissism but the roles of narcissistic supply are different in covert narcissism narcissistic supply is used in order to form to amalgamate to assemble a sense of self and identity very similar to the borderline the borderline does it with her intimate partner the covert narcissists does it with his or her narcissists or with other people grandiose narcissists they need narcissistic supply but they need narcissistic supply to regulate certain dimensions and ego functions for example a sense of self-worth they have a labile sense of self-worth and they use narcissistic supply to regulate it but the self in grandiose narcissists is much more intact than in covert narcissists and much more similar to primary psychopath okay just to clarify some of the concepts I've been using I said before that primary and secondary psychopaths are not the same disorder it's very misleading because it gives the impression that secondary psychopaths are kind of another variant of psychopathy that is not true primary psychopaths are the only true psychopaths the same way that covert narcissists are the only real narcissists primary psychopath psychopathy is innate it comes from the inside and it is characterized by cruelty callousness lack of empathy manipulativeness superficial emotion acting not acting out but acting in certain way high level of empathy and skills goal orientation extreme goal orientation lack of scruples lack of replicate boundaries of others defiance impulsivitis contrumatiousness that's the primary psychopath the true classic psychopath which is often described Secondary psychopathy is characterized by impulsivity, hostility, is driven actually by pain, by anxiety. Secondary psychopathy involves empathy, involves emotions and potential for remorse, driven by fear. It's a highly emotional state. Secondary psychopathy is an extreme form of emotion and dysregulation. It's related like covert narcissism. Secondary psychopathy is related to adverse developmental experiences, including abuse, neglect, sexual abuse. It's also intimately linked to other psychiatric disorders characterized by risk-taking and poor impulse control. But in secondary psychopathy there's empathy and there are dysregulated overwhelming emotions. None of these exist with a primary psychopathy. So secondary psychopathy is simply another name for borderline. As simple as that. I don't know why we had to come up with these two separate constructs. When the borderline faces anxiety, stress, she decompensates and she switches to another self-state which is her secondary psychopathy self-state. She becomes a secondary psychopath. Anyone who is lived with a borderline has spent any time with a borderline, had witnessed this switching from borderline to secondary psychopath. Same with the covert narcissists. Exposed to anxiety and stress, the covert narcissists switches and becomes a grandiose narcissist. That is his protective, rescuer, saviour self-state. It's a drama triangle. Actually covert narcissists and borderlines triangulate, internally triangulate with a psychopathic self-state and a grandiose overt narcissistic self-state. But they are the only true forms. There are three true forms in cluster B. The true psychopath, factor one primary psychopath. The true narcissists, the covert narcissists, the true borderline, which is the secondary psychopath. The others, the primary psychopaths, the grandiose narcissists, they are actually one and the same. They are the deviants of cluster B because they have a pretty strong sense of self and self-concept. And they are much more, I would say, self-efficacious adaptations. We may wish to get rid of them altogether as separate diagnostic categories. So recently there had been studies about the so-called dark empath. It's a subtype of the dark triad which combines maladaptive but pro-social traits, communal traits. A while back, 20 years ago, I coined the phrase pro-social and communal narcissists. So the dark empath, I mean, I detested the term empath, it says no clinical significance. But the dark empath is essentially this, a kind of subtype of the dark triad which has maladaptive but pro-social traits. And when we expand it into the dark tetrad, which I think is going to be the winning combination shortly, we include in it covert narcissism or vulnerable narcissism and borderline. This is it. This is the cluster B universe. A primary psychopath also known as the grandiose narcissists, a real narcissist, a true narcissist, which is the covert narcissist or vulnerable narcissist, a true borderline, which is a secondary psychopath. These are the three types and the only three types. And when you look at all of them, it's easy to see that they switch. It's easy to see that they are in flux. The covert can become grandiose. The grandiose can become covert. The borderline can become psychopathic. The psychopath can become... They are in flux all the time, which is why I propose my model, my standard model of personality disorders, where all personality disorders are actually one. And people transition, I mean patients or people with personality disorders, transition between these states through the bridge of collapse. One state collapses and another emerges. When there's a failure, when there's stress, when there is anxiety or threat, another self-state emerges. And this self-state mistakenly is described as a separate personality disorder. Ultimately, there's only one personality disorder with multiple self-states. And yes, everyone has all of them. Okay, I would like to read to you, as a kind of appendix or annex, I would like to read to you the questions, the self-reporting questions in two relatively new tests for dark triad. The first one is known as the dirty dozen. And these are the questions. Like all other tests, they rely on self-reporting, which is very self-defeating, because you can't expect a narcissist or a psychopath to self-report honestly. It's a bit on the stupid side, and I'm being very charitable with my words. Still, it's a good description of the dark triad. The dirty dozen. The dirty dozen was invented by several scholars, and here are the questions. I tend to manipulate others to get my way. I have used deceit or lied to get my way. I have used flattery to get my way. I tend to exploit others towards my own end. I tend to lack remorse. I tend to not be concerned with morality or the morality of my actions. I tend to be callous and insensitive. I tend to be cynical. I tend to want others to admire me. I tend to want others to pay attention to me. I tend to seek prestige or status. I tend to expect special favors from others. And so. So these are the dirty dozen. Another relatively new test. And by the way, you can find the narcissistic personality inventory online, which is why I'm not describing it here. But these two things you can't. The self-concept clarity scale. It was invented by Campbell, Trapnel, Heine, Katz, and others in an article. In 1996, titled self-concept clarity measurement personality correlates and cultural boundaries, it was published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, volume 70. So here are the questions in the self-concept clarity scale. My beliefs about myself often conflict with one another. On one day I might have one opinion of myself and on another day I might have a different opinion. I spend a lot of time wondering about what kind of person I really am. Sometimes I feel that I'm not really the person that I appear to be. To remind you, these are the questions in the self-concept scale. Next questions. When I think about the kind of person I have been in the past, I'm not sure what I was really like. I seldom experience conflict between the different aspects of my personality. Sometimes I think I know other people better than I know myself. My beliefs about myself seem to change very frequently. If I were asked to describe my personality, my description might end up being different from one day to another day. Even if I wanted to, I don't think I could tell someone what I'm really like. In general I have a clear sense of who I am and what I am. It is often hard for me to make up my mind about things, because I don't really know what I want. Now there's another scale, it's known as Sense of Self Scale. It was created by Judith Fleury, F-L-U-R-Y, William Iax, and it was published in the Journal of Self and Identity Volume 6 in 2007. In an article titled having a weak versus strong sense of self, The Sense of Self Scale, S-O-S-S. And here are the statements in The Sense of Self Scale. I wish I were more consistent in my feelings. It's hard for me to figure out my own personality, interests and opinions. I often think how fragile my existence is. I have a pretty good sense of what my long-term goals are in life. I sometimes wonder if people can actually see me. Other people's thoughts and feelings seem to carry greater weight than my own. I have a clear and definite sense of who I am and what I'm all about. It bothers me that my personality doesn't seem to be well defined. I'm not sure that I can understand or put much trust in my thoughts or feelings. Who am I? is a question that I ask myself a lot. I need other people to help me understand what I think or how I feel. I tend to be very sure of myself and stick to my own preferences even when the group I'm with expresses different preferences. Okay. So finally, confirmation about the connection between cluster B personality disorders and a weak or absent self.