 The dating marketplace is riddled with emotionally dysfunctional people. That's right, I said it, emotionally dysfunctional people. The reality is, is most men are significant percentage of men who are in midlife are rather dysfunctional. There I said it, dysfunctional. They're sociopaths. They might have borderline condition. They might have passive aggression. They have clinical issues and roughly 75% of singles who are over 45 years are divorced. He has to want to take care of her. Doesn't mean he has to, has to take care of her. He just has to want to take care of her. Can we be real for a moment? Is the man who's wasting your time because it feels like you've gotten used.