 once ikrama who's the son of abu jahl wanted to meet with the prophet sallallahu alayhi sallam after the battle of ahad and and when he came he the prophet sallallahu alayhi sallam you know he commanded all of the i'm sorry battle of badr when he came um the prophet sallallahu alayhi sallam commanded the sahaba to not call ikrama right ibn abi jahl don't call him the son of the father of ignorance because that was his father's name and he did not want to break further ikrama's heart he just lost his dad in battle so he instructed his sahaba don't call him that just call him by his name that's empathy right he told us when there's two of you and a third person don't speak in secret don't talk in a different language it's rude it makes the other person feel left out you are hurting another person unnecessarily so don't do that this is empathy