 Hello everyone, welcome to another Knott's Fiverlite video. I'm just at my condo here I have the swimming area I hope it's a go for a swim here very soon Just thought I'd do a quick video here before I go to sleep Tennis courts basketball courts looks like a cool place if you enjoy water playing in the pool sports So I'm hoping to have a lot of fun here With the next few days Now let's get into this topic The narcissist cheating You have made an agreement with the narcissist A relationship is a contract it is a set of standards and expectations That both people involved must adhere to or else you have broken the contract and Yeah I'm just gonna say it right now. I mean Narcissists cannot be loyal do not expect them to even Be committed to you in that way because it's just not gonna happen If you're dealing with a narcissist It's not If they will cheat on you, it's when Because if they haven't done it yet, it's just a matter of time But the odds are that they have already cheated on you Probably more than once You just don't know about it Because remember they are master manipulators They're very good at lying And they have no conscience. They don't need to feel bad about lying to you And if you confront them on it, they will gas like you they'll make you feel like you're losing your mind Thanks for the donation Alexander. I appreciate it Yeah, they'll just spin you around in circles and make you think you're going crazy Even though you may be right Your suspicions may be justified But they will make you think that you're wrong But yeah, it's pretty much a guarantee But if you're dealing with a narcissist They're gonna cheat on you at some point if they haven't already and Yeah, you may feel like You're being loyal to them and by sticking with them through hardship and misfortune And after everything they're putting you through You may think that there's a reward for you at the end of all of that After you've remained loyal and committed to them for so many years You may think that one day they're gonna repay you And they're gonna be there for you when you need them, but it doesn't work that way with narcissists They're gonna lie to you. They're gonna gas like you They're gonna manipulate you They're gonna put you through hell they're gonna cheat on you And even after you've remained loyal to them and you put up with all of that One day they're just gonna ghost you They're gonna disappear and you'll never hear from them again So please don't think that Something good is gonna come out of this at the end because it's not Don't listen to what they're telling you Listen to what I'm telling you right now because trust me. I've been through it again and again I've lost count of the amount of times that I've stayed loyal to someone And then they've gone around and cheated on me and I put up with it I kept going back to them I Tried to be a better man. I tried to do everything. They wanted me to do And in the end They just went and left me like my loyalty meant nothing to them and I don't want you to have to go through that I Don't want that to have to happen to you And that's why I have to make this video. I have to let you know before it's too late I'd like to think that There is something that comes out of all of this all of the abuse that I went through All of the times that I was cheated on All of those sleepless nights Ruminating Wondering what they're doing behind my back If there's anything good that comes out of all of that I'd hope that it's so that You don't have to go through it If I can prevent thousands of people from having to go through that then Maybe it was worthwhile So don't listen to what they're telling you They will tell you whatever they think you want to cure. They will just come back and love bomb you again They'll tell you you've got it wrong Or even if you catch them out, they'll tell you it won't happen again They've changed the different now Don't buy into it They're not going to change You can't live your life that way and then just suddenly change into something else These people just habitually lie They lure you into a fake Relationship and then you realize it's like it's just a relationship in your mind Because in reality it doesn't matter to them Although they may have made you believe that it does and I understand Some people One person may not be enough for them. I get that Some people prefer variety They may prefer to have multiple partners And I'm not knocking that people can have their own preferences We do have free will but if that's what you want to do At least have a decency to let the other person know Before you go and do that, but of course that's not something that these narcissists are gonna do They're gonna make you believe that they're all about Being loyal And having an exclusive relationship with you And then one day you realize they're full of shit and it shocks you It traumatizes you Because you never knew that They never told you but yeah This is just what narcissists do if you are worth one they will lie to you. They will promise you the world They will tell you that they want you and only you but they're full of shit It's all a lie and The best thing you can do now is just to practice radical acceptance Accept the reality of what it is Because the longer that you deny it the more that it's gonna hurt in the end Thank you all for joining me On another Nark Survivor live video, please give this video a thumbs up if it was helpful for you Share the video Click that subscribe button to receive the notifications for my future videos and If you'd like to book on one-on-one with me, you could do that for my website. It's narks survivor.co.uk and Check out my Instagram as well It's Nark Survivor YouTube on Instagram. 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