 I'd go and see Gertrude have a cup of tea with her and she said to me listen to me I know these people are treating you terribly. I've heard things too, but I want to tell you Paul listen to me You must be yourself. I said but being myself is getting me so much trouble She said I don't care. You need to be yourself, but I'd listen to this 95 year old telling me Whatever you do be yourself Being myself has cost me hugely in life. I'm gonna say it to you quickly But don't think my moving over it as point three quickly means I don't know what a big ask this is for some of you to commit to being yourself