 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder of commitment connection calm and today We're gonna be talking about what turns a guy on so if if you're interested in And having a great relationship with a guy. It's important that you know how to turn them on so the first thing that the first kind of way to turn a guy on is something that is a little bit bigger picture and You know a lot of times People forget it and don't think about it, but it can be a huge turn on for a guy I mean huge massive turn on and it's being connected with your feminine energy This is way more attractive to men than most women realize like a woman who is like in her feminine Is just like for a guy most guys that meet these women are like. Oh my god This is what you'll usually hear is is I don't know what it is about her I'm just I'm just so I just want to rip her clothes off and make love to her You know, that's typically what a lot of guys will say who Are seeing a woman who's or dating a woman who's connected to her feminine energy the section the second The second way to turn a guy on is through sexualizing conversations So there's kind of two different ways to do this The first one is to tell a guy that he's attractive right and a good way to do this is just to be like Oh, that's hot. You know find something that you like him doing and go. That's really hot Or saying that's really attractive saying either one of those things We'll actually turn them on believe it or not And the second way to sexualize conversations is to misinterpret what he's saying as being sexual so taking something that he says and Make it mean something sexual Even if it you know and he knows and everybody knows that it isn't right. It's kind of like What guys what what people do when they go? Oh, that's what she said It's like reinterpreting something and making it sexual and making it about sexuality You know and the more that you can do that around a guy You know that that can be a huge turn on because it gets him thinking it gets him, you know focused on sex and that is a great way to turn a guy on the third way to turn a guy on is Another one of those big picture things, but it's letting him be a man around you and this is kind of in the same line with feminine energy and it's Really just allowing him to lead allowing him to help you allowing him to be Masculine allowing him to be the masculine force in your relationship like guys love it I mean it is such a turn on when a girl Or a woman is allowing a guy to be a man I mean, it's it's a lost art in our society right now is women Are not letting men be men and they're shaming men a lot of times society is and so if you can let him be the man and Appreciate him for being the man and and just allow him to lead and be masculine around you That can be a huge turn on for a guy So the fourth one is lightly whispering sexual things in his ear so this is hot this is really really hot and Guys love it and it's just you know, and you can whisper anything into his ear But whispering sexual things into his ear is so attractive just whispering something You know telling that you're turned on right now or whatever And then pulling away pulling back and just acting like everything's cool Incredibly attractive do that. It's it's hot The last thing is teasing him with your touch right and so this is like, you know touching him especially in places like Like the inside of his arm right like touching him on on and the inside of his bicep You know, that's hot or touching his leg You know touching his thigh and then just pulling away, you know touching his arm and pulling away You know touching his neck and pulling away touching his chest and pulling away Toss, yeah, that can be incredibly attractive So that's it for this video if you want more information on how to attract a quality man into a committed Lasting relationship make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take my quiz I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon