 You see that with people sometimes with illness and cancer that their mind will Because of the pressure the mind will flip and say okay, let's see I'm going to totally turn around do this differently like Colin tipping. He said to Be grateful for the cancer The contrast adults you yes to be willing I have to see this differently because it's going to eat me alive if I don't I'm not going to give myself Over to it anymore, and then you do that a few times to good effect, and then you're like oh my god Oh my god, this can actually work. I don't have to suffer and Then you keep practicing in the tipping point really does come and you're you're running downhill then Even a terminal illness is just an assumption, but sometimes it just hit you hit it so hard That you start to question the whole assumption the whole game That's why people will have kind of spontaneous remissions and their entire life will change When they're faced with the concept of terminal illness Because something deep down inside just goes enough is enough With this game, and if it takes a Diagnosis like that to be part of the healing Before you hit the wall and go no no don't just wait one moment here. I am not going to think like that anymore and then that's what the Healing is the awakening and for me my my mother's terminal cancer diagnosis was that for me because I felt the ticking clock and So I said My mother is not going to die with me Judging her. She's that's not going to be happening. I was like no way I'm going to remove every single judgment that I have against my mother before She's not here in the flesh for me to work with. I'm I am not going to let that happen on my watch I'm going to do whatever it takes and so that was I held my feet to the fire She was leaving I was watching her fade right in front of me So I was like I got to get her down and then I had a miraculous healing I worked that thing as hard as I could work it and then I had an experience Where literally I felt like my heart was opened up and it was completely my whole heart Was just cleaned right out and when it was over. I really did not have any judgments against her anymore It was a total miracle. It was an absolute miracle Because I mean I was just free, but believe me it took a took me I was very diligent and it was not easy, but I was determined and then I had that Experience to apply to every area of my life So then I knew that Anything was possible because if that was possible anything was possible anything So that totally changed my mind So that's that that to me is that willingness if you're willing to change your mind changing your mind is a miracle It is a miracle and it is that willingness So that's why I always go back to that prove God prove God prove that it works Instead of giving in and saying it's so hard. I can't do it You don't know It's so hard Yeah, we had a movie last week where I started talking about Hypotheticals this Kamari and at the end I did a real dip talk on hypotheticals and once you start to see that the healings all about Seeing the impossibility of attack which is seeing the impossibility of a cause and effect being a part Which is seeing the the impossibility of hypotheticals and hypothetical thinking that's when you're on the verge of healing and Some of you maybe remember that movie with Nicholas Cage and Jennifer Beale called next and you remember this scene when they're in the cafe and He's waited for her to come You know, he's he saw a vision of her coming and he knew something extraordinary Miraculous would happen when he met her it's some kind of assignment He couldn't even say what it was and as soon as she comes in he's waiting there every day When the clock reaches a certain point and she comes in and it's all in slow motion She's actually visualized as materialized as comes in and then he Has to come up with the come online that she will say yes to and Hypothetically he plays them all out all these different things one after another He's sitting on the stool It always starts from him getting up from a chair and coming down to her for the come online one of the best hypothetical scenes because He comes down. He tries all these things even taking getting hit by the Rex boyfriend that comes in all these different ways. He plays it out He's doing it all in his mind. He plays it all out until it comes a point when she's looking down at him And he just starts to make the move and she's like Like don't have me to sit the most coolest way of showing I've been like he can't even get off the chair she's like Like she's she's seen all of them. It's like no means no means no means no And really that's when you look at it in practical like these exposing all these things that come up in relationships You and Karen are working with these are all just Hypothetical this is like in the matrix. This is the anomaly. Remember when Neo finally gets to meet the architect and there's all those TVs screens and they Screaming and shouting it's the anomaly of the ego Played out on all these possible choices that are in time and space and the architect tells them the problem is choice You see as long as we believe there's an anomaly of time and space and we believe there's all these hypotheticals That we can play out this attack thought without really getting to the root of how did we even Buy this attack thought in the first place for attack thought on God We just seem to play it out in time and space in endless endless versions of the anomaly, but actually You know you're zooming in more and more to that point where you actually See that you don't really need to play this out in endless Numbers of situations and cases. There's a way to bring it to an end which is changing your thinking We don't have to think like that anymore. You know, it's a whole new thought system And it starts with with adjoining like you with your brother It takes that willingness to just go wait a minute, you know, we've been here. We've We've fallen for this trap so many times, but we're just not going to do it this time I care enough about myself. I care enough about you. I care about my peace of mind So much that I'm just not going to go down through one another one of those Hypothetical arguments that really like it's almost like there's something way back in the mind. It's going haven't we done this before sometimes and we have some kind of a contract or Agreement that we were going to act this out again and again and again and Let's tear the contract up. You know, let's let's just bury the hatchet Let's really go for the joining and the connection There's no greater feeling that when you start to zoom into that where you don't we don't really need to play this out Again and again and again and that movie actually next is a great movie because in the end it's all about Collaboration and joining for a higher purpose You know, that's what lifts us up and out of this interpersonal back-and-forth and bantering Just lifts us up. I see the smile I Don't have to think like that anymore Even in Groundhog day remember when Bill Murray reaches that point after so many times going through the same day It's like yada yada yada, you know, just he's just Filled up and fed up with it, you know, it's the same old day, you know And I don't know if you remember that movie, but he's telling his same old grievance story and Rita The producer says to him, I don't know Phil. Maybe there's another way to look at it. I just doing right there That's the miracle. It's you can't say it any clearer There's the character Rita character and from that point on in the movie he starts to open to a new way of looking at it and Join together with Rita and then instead of trying to use Her or get something from her. He tries to be helpful He starts to you know do the Heimlich maneuver and say run and say this kid is falling out of the tree and and Fix the flat tire and you know He just gets caught up into his purpose and his function of trying to serve and be truly helpful And before you know it, he makes it to the happy dream, you know where it's he's out of the loop It's a beautiful snowy day all white covering the whole area the whole town Punxatani and That's his happy dream scene and then the song comes on at the end of the movie. It's a credit roll What a day this is Yes, it's almost like being in love, you know even this final song in the movie is like Glory happy happy happy happy almost like being in love, you know, it's it's for it's the forgiven world It's a happy dream It's it's when he finally got out of trying to get something or believing that he could control the world or control His own situation then he he gives up and that's a metaphor for all of us to to have that breakthrough. I Wonder if it could be a Experimental mind training program that somebody has to watch Groundhog Day a hundred times in a row Seriously You had your own Groundhog Day you stepped in that puddle We're on to it now We're on to the anomaly