 Let's say, I just found out that I'm neurodivergent, that I'm autistic, and I've been masking my whole life. And I don't, and I realize all of a sudden, I don't know who I am. How do you figure out who you are? Realize that people's opinions are just opinions of you and they're not the truth. No one else knows who you are, but you. With me, it led to me discovering that I was a lesbian. I discovered I was a Swifty after I was diagnosed. Yes! Like, yeah. Before, I wasn't much of a Swifty because I was afraid to be a Swifty because I was afraid of being judged for it. But then I kind of came out as a Swifty. You came out as a lesbian, you got diagnosed with autism and then you came out as a Swifty in that order. The big three. The big three.