 Hello you guys And back with a little might so Since a lot of you guys have been asking me how I get my man to do this how I get my man to do that Sorry if I blew into the mic I'm gonna wait for a few more people to show up, but I'm gonna tell y'all how I do it and how it should be done So I'm back. I know it took longer than 30 minutes if y'all are on my other channel I had to wash two kids hairs, comb two kids hairs, get two kids in the bath, so So I'm back at the multitask today So I had a couple consultations earlier and a lot of them was talking to someone and you know mental tricks and mental games win every time Okay, so what I'm trying to tell you is a lot of women You know, you have what it takes you have the looks you have the mentality You you not you don't get emotionally attached. You have everything you need to get what you want except the mental game Okay, because a lot of you guys are working backwards mentally as far as how you approach the situation with me or If you want something from y'all approaching it backwards And I'm just here to tell you For example You want someone to do something for you You always start off with something really big Asking them for a huge favor like pump them up Make them think that they get ready to do some hard work. You know, this is in a lot of other videos, too So, oh my god, can you do me a huge favor? Oh my god, I don't really don't want to ask you to do this It's so you know, but you know, I just I'm just gonna go ask I'm gonna go ahead and ask They're gonna think you're getting ready to ask them to you know, give you their kidney or something like that so What you do is saying What do you mind picking me up, you know Such and such on the way to our date or on the way home Just you know, this is the one of the tactics to see how much they think about you like Name something that can go either expensive or cheap, you know, and a lot of people are using headphones a lot of people are using Stuff like that, but I Can y'all hear me are y'all using headphones. Can y'all hear me just so I know Okay, so maybe tell me to bring you some candy some Some you know what I'm saying a gift Some perfume Some city comes back with you know, he's gonna think you're gonna ask him some huge thing when come help me change my tires I'm so now he's all I can do that. No problem You know now he's okay because he thought he's gonna have to do some really hard work or spend a bunch of money So now he's like, oh, I'm not gonna do that. So you hype it up and like over exaggerate and Then when you say, oh, can you just pick me up some perfume? Oh, okay I you know, I shattered my bottle yesterday or you know, I lost it on Left it somewhere. I don't know just lie But you build them up really big and then ask for something small but something that you want, okay? Okay, and when you're okay when you're with a man and You want him to see you in the future like if you want him to visualize you guys together in the future You have to plant that in his mind You have to plant that vision in his mind not the idea the vision. Okay Thanks for saying you to hear it. Okay, so you have to plant the vision in his mind and it's not an Idea it's a vision. You need to describe the vision that you see So for example, if you're dating a guy and or you're seeing a guy and think this is the one And you want to spend the rest of your life with them or you just want to pay out with them a little bit more You know go in and say, oh, you know what I Love that color on you. I just I'm just imagining us Sitting by the beach and you have those type those color of swim trunks on the sun is shining We're drinking margaritas Um You know, I'm we're getting massages and you know Walking on the beach going to a night luau It the air smells like coconut because everybody has on, you know, suntan oil And we're sitting there eating a poo-poo platter or whatever love, you know, put this in his mind So now he sees you and him on vacation and now that you Brought him into your fantasy. He's gonna start adding to it. Oh, well, you're gonna have on, you know A red or a pink bikini and or you know, whatever you whatever, you know Your hair is going to be this way and you're going to be Rubbing massage oil on me. It's like, yeah. Yeah, you see it too. Don't you? Oh my god, that would be so fun to go away You know what? I bet plain tickets are cheap this time of year And then guess what you're playing a vacation Out of the blue, okay So you've got to just plant stuff into their mind not ideas, but visions. Okay ideas They can get left behind visions Become reality. Okay. If you all know about the law of attraction When once you visualize something it's already on the way, you know So what you're doing is kind of tricking them into visualizing with you So you're going to manifest that to come faster The idea is planted in his mind and his subconscious mind. He's already starting to manifest it You're manifesting it. So it's going to come even faster. So The next time you see him he'll be like, oh, I checked online tickets for uh, such and such You're right. They're not expensive this time of year. So I'm like, oh my god Really didn't act extra excited. Like, oh my god, really? And he's going to see how excited you are and he's going to be like, yeah You want to go? Well Do you really want to go? Yeah. Okay, so now You're going okay um So is the like someone says I really don't need the mic. It sounds the same either way I think if people put their headphones on they can hear Because I know when I'm listening back to my videos It's not that loud unless I put on my headphones or turn it all the way up Okay, so I don't need the mic. I can put this little barbie mic down I can't drop the mic today Okay, I'm gonna take the mic off and I'll tell you Okay, is this better? All right Okay I'm gonna give that to Sasha there. She really liked it Um so And make sure if you dated more than one child that you keep A record of who you told what to who or keep the fantasy the same, okay? Have you a log but um The thing is you're planting subconscious visions in their mind and they automatically start vibrating and Attracting that, you know so Now if you want some money This is this is what a lot of women mess up on as well a lot of women mess up A lot of ladies Either don't give enough or they'll give too much and then they ask for the money at the wrong time in the wrong way Okay, so Can you hear? The static a lot of static. Okay, hold on a second Maybe I shouldn't interrupt it. Is that better? Okay, I think it's when I started with the mic. I shouldn't have took it out. So I guess I have to keep it now But next time I'll start without it Okay So I was saying a lot of you ladies don't ask for money the right way or at the right time or You know, you've done too much and now they don't think they need to give you money So if you're dating a guy and you know, they're rich It's not it's not a bad thing to ask for money. Okay A lot of guys might get mad about, you know asking for money You know the trolls, but when a man has money, it's okay to ask for it. Okay Because it's not a big deal, especially If they have it, okay So Don't be afraid if you know, they got it then don't be afraid to ask And when I mean ask I don't mean say can I have some money? I mean To ask it around about way, you know what I mean For example Like, okay I got some tricks So if you want like if you guys are meeting at a place that's near a shopping place or a shopping mall or something like that Um, and you know, he has the money Okay make sure if you want something make sure um You know what you want and you plan this out For example You can use lots of tricks, you know, but you can wear like a nice pair of shoes and Not not so nice, but okay and complain that they're hurting your feet really bad, you know You know, I think um, I got the wrong size or you know something something and I'm like, oh, are you okay? Let's go get you some new shoes, you know um Or you like, uh You look you wear some shoes and they're like the heel is kind of wobbly like make sure you loosen the heel Before you call it go in and you say, oh my god. My heel's about to break. It's like all wobbly. I'm like, oh my god Do you need some new shoes? Hey Or let's say They invite you to fly out to meet them and you go fly out Don't bring a bunch of clothes bring like two outfits Or one outfit and say, oh the plane lost my luggage or I forgot to You know pack I didn't know we were going out. I didn't know where we were going here and then he's gonna buy you some clothes because If you want to take you to a certain place and you don't have what's appropriate to where he has to go buy it for you So don't pack a bunch of crap. Just pack like a little like one bag with like pajamas Underwear and one outfit. Don't even pack perfume or anything and Maybe your makeup is like, oh my god. I forgot my perfume. I forgot, you know Clothes to wear out if we were going on a date, you know, you know, he'll take you shopping So always forget stuff And just look like you're really sad until he offers to take you shopping Okay So What about when you're married? Oh, yeah, that's a good one. How do I get stuff out of my husband? Uh-huh Um, I'll mention it. I'll mention it. I'll say like, oh my god, you know I need some new such-and-such, you know, I need some new such-and-such. I don't know. I need some new such-and-such and I'll say it every time I see him and He'll either say, hey, I'll get you some new such-and-such and he'll give me the his card Or he'll bring it home. You know what I'm saying? So you just have to remind them every time you see them But not you're not asking it. You're just saying you need, you need, you need but you're not asking I'm just like, oh my god, I need some new such-and-such. I need I keep forgetting to get it You know, I haven't had time. I have to spend money on this. I keep forgetting to get it. I need some new such-and-such and He'll be like, oh, go get it. Go get it. You know, I keep saying you need it. You forgot it Just here's my card. Go get it, you know and and if you want like To make him them feel sorry for you. So they want to give it to you. Just like You know, I haven't bought I haven't done anything for myself in so long You know, I just feel like I'm neglecting myself and I don't feel attractive anymore. I really need You know some new such-and-such So he feels like if he does that for you Then you know, you'll be thankful and he'll get some and you know He'll he'll be like, well, you need to do more for yourself here. Here's my card You know um So you keep reminding them because men don't catch on quick Or you can just ask them straight up. Look, can I have some money or can I use your card? Make bargain So another trick for how to get a guy to do something for you is To look them in their eye when you ask Okay, and look them in the eye when you ask them Can we go shopping, you know, look them in the eye and don't take your eyes from their eye and keep smiling and nod And this is a psychological trick to get him to nod as well, you know what I'm saying So you look him in the eye keep eye contact and nod he's gonna mirror that and then you're gonna be like Yay, what are we going or I'm gonna go here and you know act like a child. Okay Men like childlike, you know expressions like when you're extra happy Or when they feel extra appreciated Um And that they're pleasing you and that they're making you happy and that you see them as this great person That can bring joy and happiness which makes them feel good. So you over exaggerate every thank you You over exaggerate every smile you over exaggerate every um You know compliment and they love that they eat it up. Okay So make sure you're asking with eye contact smile and you're nodding. Okay And remember like wear soft colors because the more feminine They see you the more that they're gonna want to do for you Okay, if you're if you have a deep masculine voice and wear dark colors and pants and stuff like that It's gonna be harder to get what you want out of a man, you know what I'm saying So you need to come a really feminine really sweet really light voiced Making eye contact smiling over exaggerating. Okay, that's how you get what you want Otherwise they're gonna be like and you can get that yourself You sound more masculine or oh, you know, I don't know You know If you're afraid to ask if you look insecure like I don't know how I'm gonna ask for this. Let me just figure it out. Um My my tire, you know You heard something you heard it rehearse. You heard it work for somebody else and now you're trying to word Word it and you're starting to stutter you're looking around you're nervous. They know you feel it's gamble. Okay So have your story ready before you get there Yeah, make sure when you ask They're gonna be your night shining armor if they say yes, okay, so you have to be extra for me I know a lot of you guys A lot of you girls are asking, you know, is this outfit cute? Is this outfit cute? It depends on what type of guy you're going after or what kind of guy you're dating. Okay The classier you dress the higher caliber man you can get. Okay So I'm just letting y'all know Because I'm getting a bunch of inboxes and You know, yeah, you're cute. You're pretty but what type of man are you trying to track? You know the same old same old are you trying to level up? um so Let's talk about mental games how to get somebody to Commit to you. Okay commit And you you've gotten past a couple of dates you want somebody to actually start dating you seriously and Y'all you want to be their girlfriend. How do you how do you take it to that level mentally? So mentally You've got to plant the vision in their minds again, but this time you use coupling techniques like A lot of things people do as couples that a lot of single people wish they could do So you start planting those couple things in their mind like oh my god. I can't wait for you know um And and play into their fantasy even if you don't do this crap just play into it. Oh my god. I can't wait till Super Bowl I want to make you like all these great snacks and Super Bowl dishes and Finger foos that I saw online. I have all these, you know things I want to do um get you uh fruit trays and you know, I'm getting a I want to get a jersey and I just can't wait to kind of like, you know watch Super Bowl with you and I have these really great chicken wings that I make Like just play into the fantasy. Okay, even though, you know, you can't cook and you can order that stuff from Wherever it came from. Okay, but you got to get it in their mind And it's like, oh, yeah, babe. That sounds great. You like football. I love cooking. I love the halftime show I love supporting my my uh, whoever whoever team that you know Just pick a team the girl Oh my god, I love it. Yes but I love, you know, making the guy very happy while he's watching it because I know guys get into this guy's I love the other part which is like Fixing the food making, you know sound sound like you're just going to be their dream, right? So then he's going to imagine this. Oh, wow. Okay. Now the next trick Oh, you know what? I can't wait for you know, Christmas and we can lay by the fire And watch movies and Christmas horror movies or whatever kind of like and wear ugly sweaters And that will be so funny, you know, and he'll be like, yeah, you know, because they might not have never You know got to do these typical cheesy things that couples do It's like, oh my god, that would be so fun. And then you go into the seduction side of it Like, yeah, we're laying by the fire and we could start doing You know bring it always bring it to sex because they'll visualize the cheesy part Then they'll see it leading to sex So if you keep throwing the couple and pairing it with the sex and the seduction They're going to keep putting the two together when they visualize They won't be able to stop the last part or the first part They're going to have to think about it over and over again all together So then they're going to start to see you as their girlfriend. Okay, because You know the part that led up to the seduction Y'all are going to be sitting on the couch watching scary movies together holding hands in front of the fire That's couple stuff, right? It is just doesn't start straight off at the dirty part. So you're going to get The nice part and then lead them into the fantasy because if they Try to remember it later on while you're going because you know, you know what they're going to do They have to remember the whole thing because it's a setup Okay, so make sure you're putting those thoughts in their head visualizing Okay Now hold on y'all And don't don't think that you know, don't be afraid to do it That's what holds so many people back from succeeding. They're afraid, you know It's like, oh god, I can't do that. Well, somebody else is getting ready to do it and they're going to have your man I shoot I did um, so make sure You follow through And once he gets hooked on you always being there and fulfilling his Fantasies as well as doing the chiefly couple stuff as long as the fantasy gets fulfilled afterward He's gonna be like, I can't let this go This is too good to be true, you know So that's what you gotta do And then he'll he'll see you As oh my god, she's gonna make such a great wife. She's so fun. She's you know, blah, blah, blah, blah And Sooner or later, he's gonna start calling you your his girlfriend Hey, and he's gonna start saying, hey, do you want to do this and do you want to do that? um Then You're a couple Okay, you gotta you have to implant yourself into their mind mentally Um, not just show up and smile and hope hope for the best. No, you gotta put yourself in there So Yeah, so do you have questions? I'll wait on some questions because I know if I just keep talking I'm gonna miss some questions I'm I'm a housewife and my husband always expects something in return if I buy something with his money He thinks paying the bills is enough. How do I deal with that? Stop doing what you already do And then start it back up Um, and then say well, you see I don't do that. You want something in return? So I guess I'll start back doing this this and that Just going straight. That's it Stop doing what you already do and then when you start doing it back, you'll appreciate it Do Should you cook for your boyfriend? Not really you're you can microwave from them reheat something But don't get in there and just cook Unless you're inviting a bunch of people over and you're gonna cook for everyone One time so he can know that you can cook or something like that Um, but don't just cook for him because that's that's not something that A girlfriend is supposed to do is supposed to that's wife stuff Okay, no, he can take you out to eat y'all can order in you can microwave some popcorn Or a ling cuisine, but that's about it. Okay Don't be in there cooking for him like his mama Or his wife unless you are his wife Okay The thing about the super bowl you sure you can order that stuff and just throw it in the oven. It's already cooked You can go to sam's cost call and get that tray and just Bam, you good. Just set it up. Make it look pretty Yeah, my husband will be able to cook it now. He don't care What if he what if what do you do if he asks you to cook? Well And a lot of books a lot of women describe, you know, this thing that men expect women to cook burn burn whatever you cook Set the house so smoke alarm off. He ain't gonna ask you to cook And then say, oh my god, I know how to cook really good. I just your pans are good and you know Your stove is different than mine But I can really cook you know You can bring him leftovers from something you cooked at your house to let him taste it But you don't cook for him at his house and that leftover thing should be a once Once thing so, you know, you can cook, okay Because unless he wants to cook with you Yeah, that's okay. If he wants to cook for you. Yeah, that's okay If he wants to cook with you and he's doing all the work great, but you don't be in there cooking like his mama Okay, so Make sure Actually, you know A lot of people think that this is so so bad But like I said people that have it don't mind spending it people that have stuff don't mind giving You know people that don't have a lot of stuff You know, they're watching every penny and everything go out the window They they're nervous one rent time comes around but when you got it, you got it. It's not a big deal. It's just expected. So Um It is what it is How do you feel about living together as boys and girlfriends? I feel like It's fine as long as you're not sitting in there cooking and being his mama. I'm doing his laundry. Mm-hmm Do your own laundry? Let him do his stuff. If you want something to eat, let him go make him something You don't do any of that white stuff. You're just basically His girlfriend not his wife and not his mama If you start acting like a wife, he don't need to marry you Okay Mm-hmm. How should I react when something that something makes you mad You got to fake it. You know, keep your goal in mind. What is your goal? to be right to tell him off or To get what you need from him What's your goal? Okay If you make him upset and you score him in him for something stupid that doesn't matter And you ruin your chance of getting what you actually Want Then you don't react you let it slide Or you go and write you write in a journal and you go tell your friend And puss them out in the back of your mind, but Keep your goal in mind. Okay You don't react Keep your goal in the mind because a lot of people Have this issue they will start reacting and they forget why they're even there, you know They're just they react to everything instead of approach things strategically and logically They just react react and then they wonder why they don't have anybody because you react too quick and you forgot your goal, you know so It's just like somebody who's selling something, you know, if you're selling a car and People are offending you left and right asking the stupid question and you want to cuss them out But you know that they got some money to buy this car You're gonna you're gonna sit there and take it and laugh and pretend like that's that joke wasn't racist or that joke was Not sexist or whatever and you're just going. Yeah, because you want their money. Okay You're not your goal is to get that commission Okay Not to correct them Not to be offended by them not to curse them out and so that they go to the next sales person or you get fired Your goal is to get that money from them. That's it. That's your goal So keep your goal in mind If you don't keep your goal in mind you will slip You'll slip up Yeah, practice someone says they're practicing on Their mom was yelling at them people. Yeah, just let them say let them be right. It doesn't matter In the long run, it don't even matter, you know You know what you really after And it doesn't bother you because you have a goal um If you live together should you have separate bedroom if you're not Okay, y'all this is a miracle This is not If you live together, you can do whatever you want. Basically. You're not under anybody's rules so Separate bedrooms. Why would you live together if you don't sleep in a separate bedroom? You stay at your own apartment My goal is to your goal is to be a money hungry whore. Damn you Who broke your soul? um Nobody broke my soul But that doesn't mean I don't want to have a nice life So do you think that we should be chasing broke men? You think that's gonna make us happy? How many women who chase broke men are happy? I don't know how many So I'm not a feminist at all. I'm saying men should pay for everything So that if that's feminist to you, I don't I don't think that would be feminist to most people. I feel like Men should pay For everything If they have a woman otherwise You know They don't need one That's how I feel How do I get him to let me move in come up with a sad story? um, okay, if you have a roommate If you have a roommate or something Tell him that your roommate's boyfriend keeps coming on to you and he tried to sneak in your room And you just really don't feel safe over there. You want to move in? He's gonna be like sure baby Moving he's gonna be mad. He's gonna think that you know just make it up So always make it up like someone is bothering you sexually and that's why you need to move my neighbor's creepy And he's always looking at me. I don't feel comfortable there anymore Make everything up. Okay, just Let him be the hero by letting you move in if he feels like a big hero by letting you move in He'll let you move in faster If he thinks you're just trying to get with him to move in and move stuff faster than he's ready for It might he might take his time, but if he feels like he's saving you from something He's gonna let you move on in so Oh my god, this next door dude is creepy and the sky is like always like Passing by my window and walking by like three four five times an hour and He's always knocking on my door and asking me to borrow stuff, you know, and I'm really just I'm kind of scared I know he likes me a lot and he's always asking me if I have a boyfriend and how come he doesn't ever see him So I just don't feel comfortable in there anymore. So, um, you know I have to break my lease or you know, my lease is almost up and I just really want to get out of there And I don't want him following me to where I live And I think if I live with you and and he sees that or something like that Or he sees a man helping me move out He'll just leave me alone. He won't bother me. Girl, make up the story and make it sound like you're scared and terrified And he's gonna think oh, don't worry, baby. I'm gonna help you. Don't worry. Okay. So Just make it up Okay juggling for gentlemen right now. I am Looking for a way to better manage my energy. How do you kindly and gracefully say not to Know to an outing without them thinking you've lost interest Um How do you decline an outing? Well, I would say, you know, I really want to go I really want to go but I had something planned already and I just totally forgot and when I had met you I was so excited that I just planned our date without even looking at my calendar And I have something on my calendar that I have to do You know, it was planned before I even met you and I just hate to break the date with you because I can't wait to see you Oh my god, you know, maybe we can do it the next day Because and they were like, oh, what are you doing? It's like Well, I volunteered to do this this and that makes your shirts like volunteer stuff And my friend would be so disappointed because the only reason she signed up is because I signed up You know what I mean? And so now I'm kind of stuck with it because now she doesn't want to go because I talked her into it So I gotta go do this and um I wish I would have just looked at my calendar. Oh my god. I hate doing this I'm gonna make it up to you tomorrow, baby. Okay. Just go into the story tell him too many details He's gonna get tired listening. Oh, okay. No word. Don't worry about it. Okay. He'll understand You gotta have a good imagination though like When you're playing these games when you when you're playing these mental games So first now he's gonna be thinking. Oh, well, he's not gonna be thinking you're dumping him for another dude He's gonna be seeing you doing some volunteer work with some friend And the only reason you're going is because you talked her into and he was trying to be a good citizen And you know, you got so excited with him You made the date without even realizing that you overbooked And so he's gonna be fine with it because he thinks you're with a girl And you're doing volunteer work and you're a good person and you don't Flake on your word, especially when you have a prior engagement so that shows character as well So that you're also planting in your head that Mother is okay. You're also planting in your head in his head that you know, you follow through Even though you're flaking you're planting the follow through even though you're flaking So he's not gonna get the flake part. He's gonna get the following through part because you're planting that in his head Okay I keep my word to other people And the only reason that you're expecting him to understand is because you're gonna make it up to him, okay, but not how he thinks Okay, okay, hold on to that Layla, I'm I'm alive again, baby. I should really talk it out How to control how to confront my generous boyfriend about his needy family members They rely on him financially often You can't do that. That's not your place, baby. He's your boyfriend. That's your little boy. Okay so You can't tell your boyfriend how to spend his money and how to treat his family first of all, but what you can do Is plant something in your in his head to make him want to spend more on you Then then okay, you gotta plant. Oh my god, you know what if you didn't have to you know If you didn't have to like be positive about if you didn't have to help your family so much You know what we could do we could we could totally go to You know This place and do this this isn't that paint the picture in his head like I tell you Uh, we could have so much fun and da da da. Sometimes I think about that kind of stuff I wish we could do it, you know And then now you've planted the thing in his head now he wants to do it as well and When the next time the family is like oh, we need some money. He's like, well, I'm saving right now I'm saving right now because he's saving for the idea. You know what I'm saying So If he's going to save for the idea because you planted it in his head You didn't come at it in a negative way. He did something that you really want Um, and he's a people pleaser anyway because he wants to please everyone in his family And you kind of pull back from the attention that you're giving him Because he's not pleasing you like he's pleasing his family Then he's gonna know he has to please you too. So he's gonna have to do what you want If you come at him in a negative way, he's gonna see everybody against him like, oh my god Why is this person against me now these people want money from me these people want money from me She don't want me to spend my money how I want to spend it and then he's gonna just Be done with all of it, you know, so plant What you wish you guys could do together if y'all had that extra money And be positive about it. Don't talk about his family. Okay, because he's gonna defend them first So I really wouldn't get into that All right Don't listen to any of the guys in the comments because they're not targets Okay, they're looking for people to scam them because they don't have nothing to lose Literally they have they have a little bit that they can't afford to lose So they're out looking for the scammer. That's why they're on this video So when they ask the girl out to apple bees and she pulls one of these tricks, you know, uh-uh I want you to start guys too. Y'all you gonna get me? We're using this coupon. So that's what I'm saying The guys don't don't listen to the guys in this live See because They're not the type of guys that are your targets or probably the kind you're dealing with They're watch they're watching this so that they know when The women that they can scam and the women they can't scam Okay, and the woman that's trying to scam them. That's why they're watching it They're not watching this to help you ladies They're watching this to get tips on how to get around the tricks that women use But I got more tricks that I don't even share on this channel and that that I share in the private group So, uh y'all ain't gonna get those um, so and The guys sing only young hot girls can get this type of trick, but that's not true child That's not true at all. You know how many old ugly Disgusting men out there who will pay somebody a thousand dollars just to sit there and eat and talk to them any ugly beautiful or not No matter the age y'all y'all just don't know Ask these women ask these women who are out there. They know It's hilarious because guys have no clue. They think they're all that they think they think they're all that until you know They see this woman out with this guy and you know, he's got money and you know Dang, you know, so don't let them guys stop you. We already know it especially the girls in the group. They are already known You can look out. I can go out. I can get I don't even have to leave my house to get paid You know what I'm saying? I can get paid online. I could lie and say something and some Desperate dude will send me money, but I never even met so it's very easy. Okay Don't let those guys lie Okay Y'all these guys are trolling hard tonight You know why because they can't get you if you're not armed with this information And you don't want these guys anyway because they ain't got nobody Done they don't they they have landed me with money. Okay. I have a group Of women who are getting paid daily. You know what I'm saying getting gifts getting trips So I don't know what you're talking about So, you know, they're not trying to date no young 20-something year on their dating the older men But have it together, you know that have houses cars businesses careers You know and a three can turn into a team with some makeup and a wig baby. So I don't know what you're talking about And and some money. Okay So I've seen I've watched these a lot of these young ladies go from dating broke dudes To getting flown across the country getting flown to foreign countries nice places to buy on yachts Shopping trips. I mean cash handed to them monthly allowances of like three four thousand dollars. Come on, y'all The the kind of guys that are in the comments Can never do this for a woman or will never be able to do this this type of stuff for a woman Okay, so if you listen to them all you're doing is listening to Uh men who want you to have low standards so that they have a chance, you know what I'm saying? Uh, don't give them that chance Never give them that chance because they're gonna have to go and actually get a career Get a job get some priorities and then they'll be able to date Somebody decent, you know that they don't have to lie in trick Oh Shoot if I was single I would be traveling if I didn't have kids and single Oh my god, I would still be out there traveling and doing all the fun stuff, you know because you know what? Men will pay for especially men with money. Okay. Not these broke dudes They're the ones That you know Are upset because they can't do it, you know And they only think they think very Small they don't understand that There is a large amount of websites Of rich men specifically looking for women to date to travel with To spoil to give Alliances to to pay their bills. Y'all even notice Go go go look up All these websites and go look at the women on them They're they look just like the women that you see every day on the street They're some of them are pretty some of them are gorgeous some of them are average But guess what everybody everybody's getting play So, I don't know Okay, talk about keeping these men interested After the first few dates and having an interesting personality. Oh, yeah, okay So men rich men rich men love challenge and adventure And They like a woman who knows what she wants They like a woman who knows what she wants. I'm gonna say that again They like a woman who knows what she wants And not afraid to tell them, you know So Always make it a point touch them Whisper in their ear Leave always leave with A little bit of a seduction tip So they want more and and always make them feel really good about themselves So that when you leave I always say that so when you leave them, they feel like there's they're missing something They're not as happy as they were when you were with them And so they'll always want to be around you because you make them feel good You can't just sit there boring and look at one I'm like, oh my god, you know, you're so funny. I love that color on you Um, you smell so good Oh, you know, I can't wait to go And you know, I can't wait for this winter to come. I bet you look so good in sweaters. We're gonna go We're gonna have so much fun um, you know You remind me so much of, you know, such and such movie star girl. He's named it And you know, you have a really nice smile You can just look him in the eye and smile rub on his shoulder and be like I have to tell you something And then whisper in his ear I'm trying to be good and not try and not and not think dirty thoughts about you know, whisper something dirty in their ear and I'm like And then it's like, um, so sorry, you know, the art, you know, the night's over. I'll see you next time You know, I can't wait to see you again But always in the date by saying you can't wait to see them again and give them a big old hug and push your boobs into them and then sniffing one last time and whispering there Oh my god, you smell so good And then leave him with the boner and be out. Okay. He's gonna think it about you until he sees you again Oh my god, you can go out tomorrow. You can go out the nickel day You have to end the night with seduction and pull it back. Okay uh, because most men just want you for sex anyway, but if you Make them feel good about themselves like the the tallest man in the room He's going to Feel so good around you that he cannot wait to get you back in his presence. Okay, that's what you gotta do. You gotta act You gotta brag on him in front of other waiter and other people make him feel like he's the shit, you know I'm saying like When the waiter comes to take your order Baby, you're so smart. Will you order for me? Play dumb play dumb. I don't you know I've never been at this restaurant before and I think you you probably know what I like And then we get him So he'll like Then he'll order the food for you. I think you're really gonna like this I'm like, I hope I do and then when you get the food now he now he's all concerned about how you feel now He's being emotionally Pulled because now he wants your opinion. What do you think about the food? Did you like what I ordered you? Oh my god, it's so good. Thank you. I would have never chose this. It's so good I'm glad I let you order. You're you just know me so well, you know And he's not feel good about himself all confident and then when the waiter comes back around He's like, oh my god, he chose the perfect dinner for me. It was so good. Oh my god, you know um, I wonder what else what else he Will get right with me And wink again like a dirty thought and then he'll like So, you know Then like if y'all drink a wine or whatever like Throw a toast on me like I just want to give a toast to meeting such a fun handsome Gentleman. Oh my god, there's not enough of you in this world. And I think I am so lucky Click And look him in his eye when you say it. Oh, she appreciates me. She recognizes me. She's funny She makes me laugh. She lets me pick our food and she compliments me She says dirty things in my ear at the least expected moment. Oh my god, this lady is so excited, you know So that's how you get them you mix it up. You don't sit there boring and look at stupid You know a lot of a lot of women have this problem. They're too shy They don't know how to be sexual When it's time when they have the goal in mind like you'll be sexual for some You know some broke dude to get their attention, but you can't be sexual to get You know your whole life paid for Okay, think about this Can't say some stuff in somebody's ear You know to get a Paris vacation. You can't say some stuff in somebody's ear to get some Louis Vuitton You can't say some stuff in somebody's ear. You know to get a down payment on the car. What you doing? So you're catching them by surprise you're giving them compliments and as soon as you leave they feel sad I want her back. I want her to come over. She makes me so happy Okay, now he's associating you with happiness and pleasure and his frequency Drops after you leave and then when he sees you again, it goes back up. So you're almost like a drug So you become the drug that he cannot live without and that He wants to see all the time and whatever you ask for After you got him like that, he'll be willing to do it He'll be like, so where do you want to go next time? Oh, I don't know. You know, um, I heard that they have this really new Shopping center and I just wanted to check it out Maybe they have some restaurants there that we could look into because I don't know It's just just open or I have never been there before but I heard nice things about it So now you're in an environment where there's shopping and restaurants So He's like, okay. Well, I don't know where I want to eat it. So let's just meet in the front by this store So meet by the store and be like, okay. Well, I don't know what I want to eat yet It's probably a long wait list. So let's go get on the list Wait, that's somewhere and then we can walk around, you know, because I give you those little buzzers sometimes And then or you can walk around first in the shops and if he sees that you like something He's gonna offer to buy it. He's gonna like, oh, you want that? Oh, do you want that? Oh, do you want that? Really overreact like you're excited and impressed that he asked Really? Would you buy that for me? Oh my god, really? Don't play with me. Oh, yeah, you can get it. Okay You know, then he's thinking he's gonna get some soon for you gonna buy it His little mic So that's what you do You gotta play like a dumb child Feed him some lines Get over excited whisper dirty stuff in his ear And you gotta it's very simple You can't be too serious though. Okay, a lot of women have this problem of being too serious Like stop being so serious The man is dating you because he wants to feel younger not older. You know what I'm saying? Especially if you're younger and he's older so You know, stop being so serious stop being so business-minded like you're talking to a collie Stop trying to impress him with your intelligence because you don't care about that. He just wants you to make him feel Good, you know Once you get to know him let that intelligence come out a little bit because in the beginning Phases he doesn't care about that. Okay When you guys are in a real relationship You can let it come out But in the dating phase you don't let it come out because you need to hook him first Okay, and then maybe you can tell him. Oh, you know a little something something but never let him think That you're smarter than him Even if you are Why? Because he won't think that you need him And he won't think that he can impress you anymore and then he'll feel you know less masculine So you never let them know that you're smarter than them. You always play Like they're smarter than you okay, and if you know something Just let just sit them sit there and let them repeat it and you're like, oh really? Wow, you know, even though you already know just Okay, like they're teaching you something because when people can teach you something they feel Powerful, so you're making him feel powerful desired He's having fun with you You know, so all these things Play to man's ego. Okay, and that's what you want That's what you want. So don't Try to impress him with your degrees and all that stuff. I already told you already Don't try to be too serious And you know bore him to death. Don't sit there and say nothing. Just look at him. Don't do that Actively Make sure that he Cannot go a week or a few days without seeing you, you know Be the person that makes his life exciting Okay Be the most exciting thing in his damn life. That's what I'm trying to tell you. Okay If you're the most boring thing you look good, yeah, but you're boring He can't have fun with you. He can't you he can't loosen up around you, you know um Be The most exciting thing in his life. Okay That's it And you will have whatever you want after that. I promise you Uh, if you have a problem with being shy, you need to practice or you need to have a few shots before you go on a date So you can loosen up because a lot of women have this issue Or they're too talkative and they don't know when to shut it up. Okay Talk to your girlfriend. You let the man talk. Okay. Now. This is not Some like, oh be shut up and you're a woman. You have no place. This is called acting and mentalism We know what guys like we have a goal. We need to get to that goal We gotta let them think whatever they need to think to get for you to get to this goal. Okay You're gonna play the role play the fantasy This is not who you really are but this is how you get what you want from them, okay and Don't confuse the two don't don't think that you're changing think that you're acting Okay, because I can go and act all day and come over here and recite some scientific You know stuff over here like nothing, you know, so Make sure you're not confusing this With how you're going to be versus how you're going to act There's a difference and a lot of women don't Put these two things together. Well, I can't do that and I'm not gonna be like that and that uh, okay Well, let the next person act and get what they need Okay The thing about the whole mental thing is that the man's ego is what's going to give you everything you want But your ego the ones that can't act or feel like they're sacrificing something is going to keep you from getting everything you want So, you know, just put on your actress Actress hat and get to act Because that's what it takes Mm-hmm men men like to talk especially when they've been drinking just let them talk about themselves That's all they want to talk about Let them talk about all of their Accomplishments, let them try to impress you Do I let them do all of that while you're sitting there thinking of your next move, okay? That's what I would do Wow You're strong. You did all that. Wow. You must be very strong Then like touches muscle You know Um, just play the dumb this just play the role and I swear you will get whatever you want. It's that easy, okay Uh, they like it. They love it because chances are You know, they don't get that very often. They get they just get to stare at somebody who thinks they look good and boring and you know Probably going two dates and that's it You're fun. You're unpredictable. You're exciting. You give me a compliment. You make a feel good You're gonna call you every day every what you're doing. What you're doing, you know Uh, you want to go shopping, you know You call them. It's like, hey, baby. How you doing? I'm just at the gym. Oh my god my shoes I'm so messed up. I think I need some new tennis shoes. Oh, I'll buy them for you Really? Sure, you know, oh, okay. Um Then call them. What you doing? Oh, I'm in my car. I'm driving. Oh, oh really? Yeah, it's making some weird noise. You hear it Then like makes a noise Rattles something girl. Oh, that sounds bad. Yeah, I might need to get a look at now You're setting yourself up to get a large sum of money because he knows your car is messed up And you can go get a fake estimate offline and say oh my car needs to be fixed and needs a new something And it's gonna cost this much and he's gonna give you the money because he wants you to be able to make it to the date Because he's addicted to you. Okay So you this is how you keep getting him lured in like let him call you and you have the problem Because if you call him with the problem, it's going to seem suspicious So you got to get him hooked You got then what he calls make up a problem not all the time, but like every couple of times And don't ask him for like straight up if you know If he's like done a lot already just like oh, yeah, my car is rattling. I don't know I hope it makes it to next weekend. So I can come see you or so we can meet up or we can go out Then he's gonna he's he's gonna be like, oh, she's so sweet. She didn't even care She didn't even ask me to you know help her with her car. I fixed her a car So maybe I'll offer when I see her. Oh, baby, you want to go pick out a new car You know, really, you know, then to start it all over That's how you do it. That's how I got my car It's like my car keeps making all these noises and all these lights is on and I don't know what to do It just plays a dumb role, you know Uh, well, I think I need a new car. I'm gonna go look at cars. You want to come with me? Sure. So I so I don't make a mistake in the in the um, the guy don't uh, like overcharge me You know, you can't afford this car So you get in there and it's oh, well, we can't approve you unless you have a co co-signer I'm so glad you can guess what now you got a co-signer and the car is in your name Okay He might even put something on it Okay Make sure you're bringing him there because you don't want to get ripped off Make him think that you're already going to buy the car yourself But I need you to come with me. So I don't get ripped off because I you're so smart So he thinks he's there for moral support, you know And so you don't get ripped off. You don't think he's there for to buy a co-signer on your car But there ain't nothing like a sad pair of eyes at a car dealership where you get disapproved And uh, when you get rejected and you know, he got the money and he's gonna sit there and he ain't gonna tell you No, he's gonna do it because then he really thinks he's gonna get some Okay Okay I'm gonna take some questions. Then I'm gonna go in like 10 minutes How do I set up a monthly allowance? You got to come up with a sob story all these the monthly allowances come up with a sob story Okay First of all, you need to let him you didn't to make him feel like that you've always been taken care of So that he knows that that's what you're used to so either your parents your ex or You know, something that was coming through for you. It's going to Stop giving you whatever they've been giving you so now you're in a bad situation He has to step up, you know So you're gonna be like, well, you know, my mom has been paying for my apartment for the last year And now she's having, you know health problems and she can't pay for it anymore So I'm gonna have to either go move back say out of state and You know Live back at home or you know, I'm not gonna be able to keep my apartment Unless I have to make this much money And he's gonna be like, oh really? That's so sad. Yeah. And so I'm thinking about moving So he's not gonna want you to move because you're the most exciting thing in his life, right? So he's going to be like Well, how much do you need To see if he can afford it first. You're not gonna say yes first. You don't say how much do you need? Okay, so you you you got to hype him up again. Okay Well, it's kind of expensive and I don't know if you can afford it. It's really expensive You're gonna think you're gonna say a big number. It's really expensive like Really, it's like $3,000. He's gonna think you're saying 12,000 5,000, you know 6,000 you come with a little three. Oh, that's not bad That's everything. That's all you're up. You know, I can do that. Okay. You got it. You got to set him up And then you're a low number. He's gonna feel overconfident that he can do it Because he thought you were getting ready to say $6,000, right? You say 3,000 it will pay for everything, you know all the bills apartment or you say 4,000 will pay for everything And you know, he'll be willing to do that because he's thinking you're as 10,000 So That's how you act ask always have something that they can't confirm like A sick break a sick relative a sick parent that can't pay for your stuff anymore And you're gonna have to leave and move away, you know And they're not gonna want that to happen if they really like you But if it's a new person and you're trying to get that up front and real fast You're gonna have to tell them like, you know, um I really I really uh Need to get my Something something done or I need to pay off my college loans My student loans and I'm falling behind and I really don't have time to date I'm gonna have to go get a night job at a cocktail bar or something to make this money quick You know, I'm gonna have to work at name like a place that's really like on the nice side of town Where lots of rich guys go, you know, so now he thinks he has competition So You know, he's not gonna want to let you do that and then you won't be able to date anymore because you're gonna be busy working So he's just gonna give it to you So You know, there's lots of tricks and stuff like You just have to sit home And come up with them and use them Okay Y'all don't listen to these guys. They're broke. Okay. Like they can't give you any advice The only advice they can give you is the kind of guys not to date, which is them We're not even y'all aren't even a target. So goodbye. Like nobody wants the gold dig on y'all broke cells Like what are we gonna go did your call center check your warehouse check? Bye Don't make Donald manager check. Bye. If you even a manager Which we're gonna give us some free prizes to drive through Get out of here We don't want you. Okay Probably still live with your mom Get out. Okay. This does not apply to you. This ain't even about you You don't even you're not even the right tax bracket to be on this video Thinking we're talking about you. We're talking about people who make way like 10 times as much as you Goodbye Adios Anyways, I don't know I get around the sex in the beginning like I said In the beginning you're gonna have to be like Almost like a dominatrix That way you're in charge set it up like that Like oh my god. All right, like you got to start it off and you start the sex Talk you control it. Okay That's why I say be set up if you have to start it because that way He knows he's gonna get it. So he doesn't have to rush into it So you're like when you first see him or you're like in the first couple of days you're like, I can't wait to I can't wait to tell you about all the stuff that I'm gonna do to you. You know You know, you won't even have to come on sexually Just wait I promise It will be worth you not you have never experienced what I'm getting ready to put on you over You got to come with it first even though you don't plan on doing it He won't have to rush into it And you know, you whisper in his ear smell Tell him, you know, you smell good. Give him a kiss on a cheek. Maybe stick your tongue in his ear And just pull back. It's like, nope, not yet. I want you to suffer I want you to wait for me pull that dominatrix stuff out and they will love that She's freaking, you know, you just that's how you do it. You don't have to sleep with him You just just fold me over there. Okay So And make sure when you don't want this stuff, but you look like you need it. Like, you know, don't look like don't look like Um, wait till you see how I'm gonna put on you That looks like you know, you're not telling the truth. You nervous. You don't know how to do this. Okay Practice in the mirror first. So you know what you look like. Okay Sitting across from the table Look at him Moving side to side like this Raise your eyebrow And lean over let him see some cleavage a little bit Look your lips and be like Whisper in his ear, but I want to make you suffer by waiting first And then like take your finger and like Touch his nipple or something on the outside of his shirt And then lean back and look watch him just look like a freak But he's gonna be so turned on by that and excited And he's gonna keep trying to pressure you for sex, but you've already set the rule I said I want you to suffer first and you're gonna wait for me And then, you know, okay So you gotta pull the dominatrix move Okay, because if he thinks that you're freaking you will wait because you know you can unleash something on him He might even be scared He's gonna start going to work out so he can get a stamina back up Like you're gonna go try work out Get some new underwear ain't gonna be Isn't that just for me and hair dye He's gonna be he's gonna be on it So Going to work smiling You know telling everybody who I think I found the one And then you'll send them messages every so often on by text Are you suffering? How bad do you want me to tell me? Now you're in control. Okay, that's how you do that Can you do this when you have a hug and hell? Yeah, you can I asked james if I could time up the other day and I was just joking because I didn't want time up He keep asking about it still. I'm like, I was just kid Are you gonna pop me up? He's still waiting Hell, yeah, we're gonna have He's gonna he bring it home wine What's the one put the kids to bed? So, yeah, it works I'm trying to tell you men respond to a freaky sex Even if it's not something that they can Get right now the idea of it Will keep them going for a long time And like I said, once you become in control They can't pressure you because now You're you're like, okay, if you add i'ma make you suffer more I told you when I when I do this Send them pictures and stuff of like stuff that you want to do to them But not of you but like of other people doing it like some kinky stuff online. Like I want to do this to you You know, then he'll let He might be scared. He might try to pull that I don't know about that Then he'll start thinking about it So you you you let you push him back with that. You know, it's like I thought about those pictures that you sent and I'm ready Okay, so can a woman ask for money the first date is this too soon This all depends. Okay If you are very confident and you know that you are Something that he wants for sure Like you can see him salivating. You know that he is desperate for you and that he basically going to give you whatever you want Yes, you can ask him But if if he doesn't look like he's super impressed by you or that he's super happy with you Or if you don't feel that he's like Google Googling over you that don't ask you know, you just Smile like I said, you got to play up his ego if you don't make him feel good about himself He ain't giving you nothing You know See, this is a lot of problem with you girls. You go on the date and give him the money No, you don't even make him feel good You even make him think that he was super man You didn't make him think that he was getting some freaky sex in the future Of course, he's not going to give you anything. But if you do all of that and then ask oh hell, yeah, he's going to give it to you Oh my god, you know, I need to um, I totally forgot I got to pay You know For parking or valet or I totally forgot that I got to be I was supposed to pick up some blah blah blah go to the bank and I totally missed the bank today and Uh, just make up something like I need something I need to go shopping and blah blah blah and I need to get something something If you make him feel like the best thing in the world, he's gonna give you whatever you just asked for You know, don't ask for money straight up ask for a gift or money to go get something that you need Something that you need so he knows that he can help you You got he wants to rescue you. Okay So Telling you need something Oh my god, I had to uber here today because my car is in the shop and I need to get it out tomorrow and it's like $500 You know, oh my god, you ubered here. He's gonna feel so bad Oh my god, you ubered here. Yeah I ubered here and because I don't want to miss our date You know, but my car is in the shop. I got to get it out in like in a few days And it's like I'm trying to save up to get get it out Which is like it's hard to save up when you have to keep taking uber everywhere Well, how much is it? There you go That come up with a story so they can save you You can't just ask for money straight up unless they offer it to you first online And then they say we'll discuss it on the date then you can bring it up They never said nothing about discussing it You you let them feel like that they're being a hero to you because you have an issue But only they can help you solve, you know Um Anyway How do I get around some of the freaky things in bed that I don't want to do like Like I said that you have to be in charge of the sex That's the only way So take charge Okay, I'm scrolling back to answer some of the questions Will these tricks work if I'm married? I'm usually mean and frustrated with him in masculating him But I want to try something else to get what I want Will he know I'm acting not if you Make a change that looks real like for a week or two treat them good Stop yelling at me, you know confuse them like oh my god, she's changing You know have the talks like you know what I realized I am just so angry I don't want to be angry at you. I love you You know, you got it. You got to give you got to give him the apology That I love you. I don't want to be angry with you. I just want to be happy You know blah blah blah blah blah And you really got to stop emasculating them because he ain't gonna give you nothing If he thinks you can get it on your own because you just like him so Yeah Men men respond better to feminine women Who aren't emasculating them? So you got to come with the apology you got to make a change You can't yell at them for every little thing he does like a child This is why I say, you know When you do this, you messed up. You messed it up. Talk about the wall with the wall Live your life off the wall like Michael Jackson says do what you want to do. There ain't no rules. It's up to you Live your life off the wall figure Mm-hmm. I know I know What if you had sex with him too early can you go back? Oh, no, I tell y'all y'all have to push it back as far as you can You sleep with somebody too early. They don't want you anymore. You're not a challenge. You're but they far They go get somebody else new If they've already dismissed you it's too late, you know And you can stop you can stop calling them and act like you've moved on like you don't care even Then they might say hey Where did she go? You know, then they might start chasing you again, but play hard to get the next time and don't give it up Tell us how to play nice When guy is stupid Tell him he's smart girl. That's what they stupid people love to hear how smart they are Tell us how we playing Okay What telling a guy about you being spoiled in the past by other men make him more prone to spoiling you Telling him about it versus expecting things like don't tell him about it until he asks Okay, so then he thinks you're setting him up So expect nice things automatically just like oh, are you gonna ballet or oh are we going to this nice restaurant or oh you know, um Blah blah blah blah are we getting are we getting a bottle of wine? You know act like you already expect those things. All right, and then he'll say wow You know, you must be used to good things or you must be you must have dated You know somebody who really treated you well in the past because you you know Like oh Well, you know, I I've I've dated some some decent guys. Yeah And you know, they always made sure that I was happy That's basically it you don't Say that I was spoiled in the past because when you say I was spoiled that that makes them feel like You were undeserving of what was given to you and that you expect them to do it But just because someone else did it, but if you are just already act like you're used to the finer things And you don't blink at ordering a whole bottle of wine when the waiter comes over You don't blink at ordering what you want expensive off the menu. You don't blink At you know such and such he's going to already know that that's what you expect And you know so but still be thankful like oh my god, thank you so much. This wine is so good. I love it You know, um, just be very grateful to him And just like after the whole date is done. I had a wonderful evening then tell him he spoiled you You spoiled me so much. I absolutely love it. Oh my god Thank you, you know and whispered in his ear Now he's gonna say, okay. This is what she likes. I have to keep doing that You don't you don't say my ex world and you just Thank you for spoiling it. Okay Even if he didn't super spoil he gonna see like well, she thinks this is spoiling her. Wow Wait till I do what I'm gonna do next, you know So that's how you do that If she looks the same as 15 years ago, there is a wall and it is undefeated undefeated Are they talking about See these guys who talk about the wall and stuff like that whatever Y'all have a financial wall. Y'all haven't hit the financial wall. So Bye Y'all can't even climb the wall because y'all didn't hit the financial wall Y'all can't afford to climb the wall. Y'all got to go to work See guys always say that stuff, you know, let me come put on makeup and wigs and look 15 years younger And they still at work Getting me a little chicks Gardening with a life. We don't want that chick Poor thing Um, could you share any insight? No, no, no, no at this channel. Why are some comments I'm telephased. I don't know what you say when he want to come to your place after he drop you off Um You don't let him drop you off to your place unless y'all are seriously dating like and you don't care that he knows where you live Then you say, oh no, I have to wake up early in the morning. My sister's over there Say somebody's in there. Okay. My sister's in there and you know You can't come in most Okay, how How do you get him to change something about himself that are gross and unattractive? It's like what? It depends on what it is. Can he even change it? Someone says I didn't hit the wall a while ago. Well, good because I married with two kids You know what you you didn't hit the financial wall a long time ago. You can't even get nowhere You stuck At least I can still get money What happens if you get next did after three days? It means you're boring Get a personality. That's what it means You didn't make him feel good about himself. You're boring You didn't excite him. You weren't the most exciting thing in his life. He's just like, um, there's got to be something better Okay and my boyfriend and I Birthday are coming soon, but I recently lost my work My feeling bad that I won't be able to give him something. What's your thoughts? Give him some sex Um, I don't know if y'all have sex, but uh for me, I would make him something That you know, I would make him something That you can Give him that he would really appreciate like for example You could make him Some food a cake Um, you don't have to you're the woman you don't have to give him like something great And he knows you don't have no job. So just make him a cake And say I bake this with love and then give him some That's easy A cake is a A cake is a more cake after that Mm-hmm What what's an excuse for why he can't come meet my family in my house and spend the night Uh, I don't I don't let guys meet my family unless I'm in a committed relationship where he is fully taking care of me And you can go ask you again if unless you ask fully take care of you and you get them to take care of you before you introduce them That's how you do that Have standards. That's what that's all you got to do. No is good enough. No and I don't do this until I'm dating someone and they fully take care of me. That's your standard You can't leave them until then. Okay, you do this then I'll do that That's what it is But and they'll respect you They'll respect you for saying that because they know that not everybody's going to go meet your mom and Or your family or whoever and you don't bring many people up there unless they're serious, you know A lot of guys lie and say they want to meet your family So that you can think that they're more serious than they are so then get what they want out of you. That's a trick Okay, because they don't care. They'll meet your family and pretend Just like you are pretending. Okay, so just make sure You come with a cash, you know, you want to meet my family? Okay, you got to pay my bill My car note. You got to take care of me. I don't want to work no more. Then we can move to that next level Or do you just want to meet my family so that I think that you're truly interested in me because If you're truly interested in me, you're going to invest in me first So that I have something to brag on you about to my family. You understand? So I'm not going to introduce you unless I can brag on you and I can't brag on you unless you pay my bills And you take me out of the nine to five. That's what I'm going to say like so No, you don't get to meet my family. You know, now he's challenged. Now he's like, dang Oh such high standards, you know And he might just do it to make you feel like Dang, he can do this, you know Some guys just like to see the reaction on your face when they actually do What you told them that they need to do or else they can't have what they want They just like to see the look on your face when they just There you go. There's all your bill money for the month They like to see that look And they look like yeah, I know man Then they they watch you melt into putty Oh my god, thank you so much. You're gonna meet my family So, yep God these broke man are out tonight Anyways, uh, excuse me broke trolls in the comments I'm married. I have two kids. Okay I live a great life. I don't even have to work I don't work at all. I this is my work Okay So, you know, I know you're hating Because even You know, with your little mcdonald's chick Don't nobody want that. Okay Bye-bye I'm that lazy. I'm smart You know smart people know how to get stuff without working for it So why don't you maybe you should increase your IQ so you don't have to go to mcdonald's every day Nothing sexy about a mcdonald's worker either He said nothing sexy about a mommy ain't nothing sexy about a broke man Bye Bye-bye These broke man mad because nobody paying attention to them. You know, there's so many women who are begging for a good man Oh, I just need a good man. I don't care. I'll cook clean Pay half the bills make sure he got his shirts. I Why don't you own those channels? I know they lie. I know they lie talking about kings and I'm gonna be the best woman ever For my king, why aren't you over there? Like why are you over here? We don't want you. You're too broke We aren't looking for you go over there Okay, we don't even want to get pregnant by you because we know your child support only going to be $12 a month. Bye You can't even afford to have a baby and be on child support, you know It costs more to do the paperwork than you actually get $12. Oh, bye. I don't know Broke dude hits the financial wall Don't don't nobody want you. Okay, we don't want your little $40,000 a year. We don't want that. That's not enough Okay, we need lots of things Lots of things paid for and you can't pay for yourself and us And what we want with that little chick, right? Even if I don't even think you make that much I just gave you the benefit of the doubt That's nothing, you know So goodbye We're not looking for you You don't want you Mm-hmm. How to make a husband go out less with boys and spend more money on me Okay, this is a good one Look Good every day look good every day. Okay Upgrade your look times 10. Okay. Go get yourself a makeover Blah blah blah blah. Okay. Look like You finna go out and get you a new man. Okay And when he comes home and get ready to change to go out the boys Or whatever You know, send him a picture of you like how you look. Oh my god, look I'm getting ready to go out my girls And I always say this in my old video get you a whole girlfriend a girlfriend who we know is a hoe And say you're going out with her He's gonna be like, wait a minute You're not going out with her. Are you? She's a hoe. I'm like, oh no, she's cool Yeah, you start doing the same thing and When he says why why you keep going out? It's like I'm just trying to have fun You know, you go out with your boys. I'm going out with my girl And you're looking extra good. Well, why are you wearing that? Oh, it looks good. That's why I'm wearing it You know flip the script on him you go out You get a babysitter if you got kids I don't care make sure if you look bad and he's going out then fix yourself Okay, because like I said, you can't let yourself go. You can't let yourself go If you're trying to keep a man at the house Okay So either fix what you look like if you don't Look like something that he wants to be home with, you know Make sure you stay looking good all day every day. Okay That way when you say you going out or he's worried You know, so then he's going to stop going out as much To keep you from going out as much That's how you have to do it You can't tell him no stop going out. I don't like it You have to give him a dose of his own medicine Because if you try to control him, he's going to get even more upset So what you got to do is like, oh, okay, you go out. I'm gonna go have fun You know or you ask are you going out with your friends tonight? Oh, okay. Don't get mad anymore. Let him be free. Don't get mad if you get mad He's going to do it more just to irk you Okay. Well, I'm going out my friends too. Okay Where are you going so I don't run into you now. He's going to get suspicious thing Why is she scared word about running me into me, you know Why does you know, I just don't want to disturb you, you know, I don't think I'm trying to Check up on you. You know, now he's going to get suspicious like, damn what? What, you know I'm just going out. Don't worry about I'm just going out with my friend And I'll see you later, you know, then let him beat you home. You get home after him Okay, so Make sure you get home after him so he knows that you Are going out too and that if he wants you to stay home, he's gonna have to start staying home Mm-hmm So Go out. That's that thing go out Enjoy your life too What to what you do when he keeps touching on the back And on the hand and it won't feel awkward You have to okay if you're gonna date these guys and it feels awkward and he keeps touching on the back, you know You walk through a club and somebody's gonna grab your booty Except they're gonna be broke and not giving you nothing So if you're gonna be out with this type of man and he's just trying to touch you on your back and hold your hand, you know Be okay with it because If you're uncomfortable with him touching your back and your hand, but you're gonna ask him for some money Um, you got to get your priorities in the right order. You know what I'm saying? You should be touching his arm so he don't have to touch you You should be the one in charge of the touching and the sexuality. You know what I'm saying? You should be like Putting your arm around him. You grab his hand when you want to You put your hand on his shoulder so he can't touch. You know, you are the one in charge Okay You give him the affection that you're comfortable with and he's less likely to try to take it You know what I'm saying? So always stay stay in charge Don't nobody want those broke guys. Okay. Yes beta male providers. What are you alpha mcdonald's worker? What are we gonna do with the alpha man who's broke? Get out of here Alpha broke man are dangerous. Okay, they don't have any They get rejected a lot actually so go we don't want you go be alpha at your job mcdonald Now I can I respect you So, you know All you can tell all these mgtow guys in here. They got that vocabulary that Those broke other dudes taught them. We don't want your alpha male broken. It's over here. Goodbye You know real alpha male have Real alpha males have money. Okay, you don't you're not a real alpha male You think you're an alpha male, but you at mcdonald's You at the warehouse you at the call center you making less Than most women make you not no alpha male. You are broke Sad excuse for a man who can't get none. Okay, and it's mad at all these women because they overlook you for real men So get goodbye. You don't need you I don't even know why you're on this channel. You know you should be looking for more mgtow videos to Learn some new vocabulary to insult women who don't even care you know Who overlook you daily? You're just mediocre You're mediocre life Who will skip over you to go to the real man over here with a nice car and a good career And things that he can offer her and you know fully provide for her and things like that, you know That's the kind of man. We're looking for y'all just wasting our time y'all just an um, like a roach You're just like a pest Just a roach in the comments Where's the raid? Spray them You're not an alpha male if you're on a woman's channel At 10 o'clock at night trolling. You're not an alpha male. Okay. Just so you know, you're not an alpha male You're a broke male So Go have fun Don't they won't come back over here, you know, I feel like it's so sad because You know, I know so many women that Get called all kind of names because When a guy approaches them and they don't want to have nothing to do with them And they they reject them. They're like, oh, you just a gold digger. Oh, you're just a bitch. Oh, no, you're just a broke. Goodbye Okay, you're just a broke. You just broke. You're just too broke and I'm just gonna be honest with you It's not me. It's you. You broke my you know Just say it Don't be ashamed anymore You know, if somebody's bothering you and they're calling you bad names because you don't want they broke stuff Just say, you know what? I don't like you because you're broke. Okay. I make more money than you in a day than you make it a week. Goodbye Bye Just tell them straight up Yes, bye. Can't do anything for me. You can't even afford my weave. Goodbye So You just gotta tell them straight up when they start when they start trying to be rude to you Just tell them why you really don't want Straight up like I'm sorry. You're just too broke for me Mm-hmm So they keep they go to these videos these uh, mg to w videos And they listen to some broke man who has a lot of time on their hands talk about women And then they come repeat the same vocabulary over here and it don't work It just don't work because we call them out because we know You know just because you got some fancy word for or some set of words for Uh women who have high standards that should say a lot about you If you had to take the time to go find some words To describe women who have high standards that you can't reach And sit here and try to control. Okay. We don't care if you are upset. We don't care. That's not our concern Okay, we don't care about you Don't care if you're mad. I would be mad too if I was broke. You don't care We will never care You need to care so you can get You know to the next level Instead of watching these videos y'all need to be watching videos on how to level up and get to the next level get paid thinking grow rich Napoleon hill Uh a bunch of stuff. Come on now. Y'all wasting time over here. We don't we don't care about you. You broke Okay, you can't do nothing for us. Nothing matters that damn thing. So go bye. Goodbye. Goodbye We don't need you for nothing. Okay, unless you could contribute and benefit us Of my air conditioner as well What do you do if your husband keeps picking fights with you? Provoking me how to stay calm If you look good, your husband ain't gonna pick no fights with you. All right start Fixing yourself up Okay, that's what I'm saying You look good. He will not pick a fight with you because if you looking good He's gonna think you're gonna first be mad and leave Or go cheat on him. So you gotta keep yourself looking good. You can't complain But you gotta keep yourself looking good. Like I'm just saying uh-uh A man's not gonna fight with a beautiful woman who can just leave and go and get something better in two seconds. Okay You don't You got before he picks a fight You know, I'm gonna I'll be right back. Go put on some makeup Do your hair put on push up bra and come back in and say, okay. What was you saying? It's gonna be like, huh? I forgot, you know, you know be sexy. He will not fight with you He's gonna be too confused Yeah, don't If you looking raggedy every day your husband come home, of course He's gonna argue with you because he doesn't see what he likes, you know Look good Wear makeup every day. Do your hair. Put your boots up. Where's some cute clothes put on some heels Walk around the house like you a fancy housewife or whatever He's not gonna argue with you Anyways, yeah Any guy on this channel in the comments are broke. We already know so you don't even have to comment Every time you comment all we do is read your name and say, okay broke dude So it doesn't matter what you think what you think does not matter because you're not paying anything You're not benefiting us in any way. You're not giving us any good advice You're not paying any of our bills. So whatever just came out your mouth. It doesn't matter, you know We don't care what you think If we did if we did care what you thought we'd be making videos talking to you Excuse me, man How come you don't do this anymore? You know those channels are on the other side of youtube on the pick me side Okay, they waiting on y'all but y'all are over here because what you really want are women like us But you can't afford them you know the women that want you that will Deal with you. You don't want them so The real joke is on y'all because we know why y'all are over here That's the real joke You know y'all are over here because This is the only interaction you eat with women in real life this close appropriate How to not get a broke man and a man that's going to provide um Well, when you go out only go to places that Men with money can afford to go okay and go to places like I always say with valet parking That has high priced items on the menu Um Because broke man aren't going to be able to get in there. They're not going to be able to park They're not going to afford anything on the menu. So Stay out of places that broke man can enter and you're going to run into somebody Anyway, wherever you go But at least they'll have money, you know what I'm saying? So stay out of broke environments broke places Places where broke men can approach you go to the nice side of town where everybody drives a nice car Or everybody has a nice house over there when you go out, you know Stay away from you know Certain sides of town and when you do meet someone you already know if they over there They pay $20 to park and they're paying $20 for a drink. They got money. Okay So you don't have to second-guess them, you know You already know you're in a place that broke man can't get past the parking lot, okay And just Be happy, you know Don't respond to broke men when you're out like in places that everybody's at like don't waste your time with them Just like pretend you don't see them like you're insulted that they even came up to you be like Um, I have a boyfriend, you know lie and just walk away because You don't want to give them any time So that they know That you're truly not interested How do you reject a broke man lie and say you have a boyfriend Lie and say you're married have a boyfriend something If you don't have a ring, you know, just say you have a boyfriend. Oh, I'm sorry. I have a boyfriend Well, you know, then he's gonna ask, well, are you happy? Oh, yes, he's he's so good to me. He's a doctor Just lie then he's gonna run away because He can't compete with that Tell me you have a boyfriend and he's a doctor or a lawyer or something he can't compete with and he's gonna just leave Mm-hmm When you go out alone, what precautions do you take to be safe? um A gun A taser um mace Something you know, I always tell people where you're going and who you're going with Or put in your like text message to someone. I don't know How do you make your man a slave? well You have to play yourself up. You know, you have to be You have to put them in their place and you have to put yourself on a higher level than that You know, you have but not In a way that threatens their masculinity, you know, so You have to make them put you on a pedestal Okay and that's that's that's like You know It's not easy If you don't start out that way, you got to start out that way. You got to start out like If you start dating someone you have to make them put you on the pedestal in the beginning Okay, you can't do this later. You can't do this 15 years later and you may or you got to start it like this. Okay, you got to make them Worship you that's just it. You have to start it off like that way that this is what you expect This is what makes me happy. This is what gives response You know, you got to train them to worship you so, you know, you compliment yourself Oh my god, my hair looks so good today, doesn't it? Yeah, baby, it looks good. You don't ask them. Do my hair look good today because that means you need their approval Okay, you got to be like, oh my god, my hair looks so good today doesn't it James? Yeah, it does Tell me you like I love it. Okay, see gotta do stuff like that you I just saw like some fuzz while you got to be like You already know this Okay, and they don't know what they're stupid You got to take charge like that They'll be like dang she really knows her value Okay, I'm waiting rich men like to talk about themselves. They sure do So what if you start two months later? Oh, no, you've already set the tone for the relationship um Like I said, either you're gonna have to take it over take him over sexually and dominate over him Um, just to kind of try something new See if he goes for it. If you if you start with sex, they usually will okay You can't do it any other type of way because they're not going to be a they're not going to compromise something that They got into on a different perspective. So you're gonna have to switch it up You know, I've been holding back and you know, I've been playing nice But what I really want is To do this to you and make you my slave If it's sexual he's gonna go for it and then you could kind of Pull it into the real world like Okay, I want you to do this for me, you know, and then he'll be like, huh? Yeah And you know later on in the bedroom. I'm gonna do this. So, you know, you're taking it out of the bedroom into real life So for for him to do that, you got to start off with the sex part And that's just how you dominate over me sexually you don't dominate over them by Putting them down or emasculating them you dominate them through sex Okay, because if you emasculate them, they don't want you they want to go replace you with somebody more feminine who they can impress But you can control them sexually, okay And they don't feel emasculated at all. They feel like They're gonna get some you're you like sex. They're gonna get some This is exciting. You know, she lets me be a man, but secretly on her slave So, yes You got to do it sexually. You can't do it like You know a boss or their mother Okay Y'all Y'all don't worry about dawn. He's a very unhappy person. He doesn't have a girlfriend. He's single. He's lonely. He works He makes mediocre money You know, he probably eats canned food cold Don't even worry about it. Do you have to conceal what you're into spiritually? Yes, keep your eye on the goal, okay Keep your eye on the goal. You don't have to tell people your life's story Okay, they don't have to know all of this women talk to them. That's why y'all can't get it Stop talking so much rule with sex and rule with seduction, okay Don't tell them your whole life story. That's why you get dumped after three days. They know too much. It's boring You're no longer a mystery. You're not exciting You know, let them figure it out. Let them guess and still don't ever confirm It's a mystery, you know So make sure you're not giving all your information away because you just like to talk talk to your friends at home Talk to your mama. Talk to your sister. You know, don't don't just talk about everything Everything you say on a date should be strategic not just some Vomit coming out of your mouth because you're so used to talking Every word you say should be strategic on a date, okay You don't tell your life story how you grew up what you're into spiritually that that's boring you're there to excite impressed and Make this person feel like that they need you in their life, okay So none of that crazy small talk Y'all are doing it all wrong on dates This man should be like shocked when he leaves He should be excited shocked and can't wait to see you the next time That's how you have to go in on a date I don't care if you gotta take a few shots before you get there get your buzz on so that you can do this That's what you need to do. You can't go in there just blah Okay, these guys have a lot of these guys have money You know, they don't they're not sitting here paying you to just sit there and look at them You know, they want to see You know why they need you Where do I learn how to better my conversation techniques what to talk about especially these Let them do all the talking all you're doing is seducing Okay, you're not talking you're seducing Okay, you're not talking you are seducing if any if if something comes out of your mouth and it's not A way to make them feel good about themselves or to seduce them then you don't need to talk about anything because First of all, they don't care Second of all, they're not paying attention and they won't remember what you said anyway So don't waste your time You know make them feel like you're some new exotic exciting thing that they like a new toy like very exciting You don't talk about the average normal boring every day stuff, you know, you surprise them Wow You know, she's very mysterious and sexual and but Classy and she's very mysterious. I don't know what to make of her but she compliments me I feel like such a man around her. She's pretty. You know, she's very excited. I just I I gotta see her again. Yeah Um, I like her. She's different but in a good way So you've got to make sure You're giving them what they need. That's what they need. They need to feel good about themselves manly And that they don't have to convince you for sex because you're already a little bit sexual in a classy way So they're not going to be pressuring you for sex off the bat because you know, they see that you're already there, you know, and Just because you mention it doesn't mean you have to do it, you know, you can keep pushing I want to make you suffer. I want you to want me so bad, you know, and You know And a lot of times guys just like to see your reaction on your face Everyone they say something sexual to see if you really like them or not, you know, that's a test So if they say, oh, I can't wait to get, you know, get you get you in the bed and then you look like this They automatically know you don't like them and that you're just there for the money So that's why you got to come in with it You know when you when you whisper in there, I can't they can't see your eye if you whisper in, okay I can't wait For us to be together. Oh my god. This is gonna be so good. I have so much You know, um tension built up and I just want to release it all on you I haven't had sex in like 20 days and for two months and you smell so good and da da da just lie lie lie lie like maybe look And so they won't even be able to see your face to see that's your line because you're whispering in their ear And they're gonna be turned on because you're so close to their ear. They ain't gonna think about it. They're just gonna be You know, so That's it A lot of guys will say something sexual to see your reaction Because if you look like Terrified, they know you don't like them That's why you got to trick them first with the sexual talk Okay Shoot get drunk pick, you know do what you got to do At the end of the day, you'll have whatever you want. Should I talk loud? Only if you want to be ratchet You should whisper in their ear. I said whisper And this will work with any type of man, okay They're they're they're putty in your hands They don't even work on dawn He'll give you his mcdonald's shit. I had a man who is smiling at me How do you get him to come to you lick your lips chat? Okay, so men smile at you across the room and you see him you're like You know, lick your lips like in a sexual way My lips are all crusty from this dry lipstick And like look him in the eye for like two seconds while you lick your lips like and then slowly look away Like I know you see me looking at you look at my lips if you want to come over here come on Okay, I ain't gonna come over there and no dog So that's how you do that Let him come on over And When he comes over So that's like he's not gonna acknowledge that was you looking your lips at me He seemed like hi, my name is such and such and then you'll be like, oh hi, how are you? Um, he was like, oh, yeah, you're very beautiful. Uh, that's like, oh, thank you and then You stop and you go Oh my god, you smell so good, you know in a sexual voice And then whisper like then like lean over because the place is crowded right lean over and like kind of get close to his ear and say Um Thanks for coming over, you know, I saw you looking at me from across the room and I was you know, I was very flattered And so he's gonna feel good because you acknowledged him, you know and Then you can go from there, but make sure that he knows that you appreciate him That's the sexual thing. You just whispered in his ear. He's turned on you told him. He smelled good now. He thinks oh my god It's a lady But don't be too forward just be like He doesn't know if you're flirting or you had a little bit too much to drink or You know, don't be too forward Don't make him think you're a hooker. It's like, oh my god. He smells so good. Wow Then back up then smile You know, don't be all over and like That just back up And then look him in the eye keep looking him in the eye And he's like And just said, oh, you know Tell me about yourself. You seem very interested. Then let him talk Girl always broke man coming out tonight Then work the whole Um double shift overnight weekend and now they finally get to rest but they they're on youtube Getting mad at women because Even though they work all that them hours, they still can't get one Okay How do you determine what type of rich guys for you? Like what's out of your league? Nothing is out of your league. You're a woman. Okay. Nothing is out of your league. You know You compare yourself up with any type of man and Still be in your league. Okay. Women can do lots of things to improve their looks You know, but be honest with yourself, you know, if you're going to date a millionaire and You think he's out of your league ask yourself. Why is he out of your league? What is it about you that makes him out of your league? You know, he's just a man He responds like every other man to sex If you're not sexy if you're unable to turn him on perhaps he is out of your league Find another one that looks a little bit less attractive That isn't really you know So you kind of gotta think about it like that. Maybe a little bit older Yeah, well, I just came on for a few I wanted to let y'all Ask me some questions And I'm getting ready to go Okay Anyway, I want to make a husband more romantic and make him taking on vacation um Well, you got to make him feel guilty first so that he feels like he has to pay you back for something Okay, and to get your forgiveness for something That's how you have to do you got to make him feel guilty Because um If you don't then he's just gonna think that you don't deserve it But if he messes up the next time he does something really bad um Make it make it seem like that you are really hurt and that you've never forgive him until he offers you something that you want Okay, stop having sex with him. Stop cooking for him. Stop doing all that crap until he offers you what you want Go on strike. Be like, you know what? What you did last time what you said to me it really got to me and I'm you know, I can't forgive you for that I'm just I'm done And stick to it Golden strike you're done. He's gonna try everything to make it up for you. What can I do to make you right? Well, you can take me on vacation Well, I'm not doing that. Well, then don't even come to me anymore. You know, you asking what you can do. I just told you That's how you do it Act extra hurt when you're not hurt about something like when he's arguing with you the next time Or something like that act will hurt. Don't forgive him for that Provoke him to say something mean like You know what gets him then don't forgive him until he offers you what you want. That's how you get it You can't be cooking and cleaning and thinking he's taking you on vacation. You're not on strike. Don't cook. Don't clean Don't do his laundry Cook you something eating in front of him Really make him know that you are on strike and you don't forget him He's gonna be so well, how come I don't have nothing clean. How come you didn't cook for me and how come I'm mad at you. Okay, you don't do nothing right. You offended me You know, don't talk to me Bye Let him think that he really messed up and the only way to get you back Doing what you need to do is to take you on vacation. You have to go on strike Right how to shoot Go on strike go on strike for a long time however long it takes That's how you long you stay on strike Okay No man is out of your league. Have you seen have these ugly women that these guys these famous guys are sleeping with? Okay, obviously No one like kevin is in there saying oh, oh, there are men who are out of your league There ain't no man out of any woman's league men will have sex with a donkey, okay So There is no man out of your league. They will sleep with anything with a pulse So don't ever don't ever think that a man is out of your league. You could get anything you want At least sexually Now if you're trying to get them the other way mental games We'll get you So Like guys will have sex with anything even yeah, the guys will have sex with a transsexual or bisexual Or a female a male a dog a hawk a cram or a ham potato, you know They will stick anything moving. Okay, so that's why I don't care what they think I know How they think and I'm like, you know what? You don't do what I say You don't do what I want. I know how to get it Okay, so we don't hear you your opinion is so low at this point in time In America and all over the world We don't care. We know how to get what we want Women are winning. I don't know what you I don't know what planet you've been on but women are winning We're getting at whatever we want. We know how to get it Y'all over there sticking everything pretending. It's what you really want and can't afford so you know We know how to control you with it because you'll do anything for it and you'll take anything with it No matter what it looks like So we know we already know We already know y'all are up on Pornhub looking at transsexuals We already know we already know well, you know They think like a man They're more sexual than women or you know, it's easier to get on They look just like a woman just because I think you know, uh, this doesn't make them, you know You're reasoning with yourself at this point. So like for example I don't trust a lot of gary So why would I take your advice or listen to them? I know how to get what I need and at the end of the day That's it. That's all I want If you could just search the browser history of some man, you will be surprised Okay I'm gonna just tell you that so You know, they're on here talking alpha male and this is that and go look in their browser history See what they're looking at Okay Bye So do you get a man to want to marry you after being with him over a year? How do you get a man to want like I said if he can't live without you He's gonna want to marry you if you say that you have to leave, you know You know, I really want to be married and you know, this is something that I've been saying I want to be married um You know, if this is not something that you want then, you know, you need to let me go so that I can find it, you know Don't be afraid to lose that man. Do you understand? You got to put it all on the table. You got to take the risk If that's what you want, you got to let him know that he's gonna get ready to lose you if you don't put a ring on it You know, if he never intended on putting the ring on it, then he's gonna let you go So in a year, it's not too long a year is not long enough. Okay Unless they're super old and you know, they ain't got left long left to live and you know And they're used to people getting married Back in the old days quick. Yeah, you could get away with it, but in this day and age You don't have to date a couple of years Seriously, then you can get engaged. Maybe after a year Get engaged after a year and then get married, but you can't rush people to marriage You know, especially if they're young What? Rackets are worse. Somebody's saying worse than me. I'm trying to answer this Hey Oh my god Someone says my boyfriend watched an old lady get f'd with the f So you saw him watching old lady porn? Wow Interesting Y'all now go check them browser history. Can you'll see You might have something to use and some leverage against somebody like I saw your browser history. I know what you do. I know what you went to Do Go check if you check a broke man's browser history. Oh my god, some crazy stuff on there for they they are alone a lot They're already alone a lot then they start getting desperate and thinking well What else can I try? What else can I get into if these women don't want me? Maybe I could do porn and get some money then they start looking And they start shaving and stuff and then they look at the mirror and realize they didn't hit the wall too Wait a minute Poor things I'm just going here and go back to McDonald's with this burger. I could drink though Okay, so I'm I'm getting Okay How do you attract older men? Go to places that older guys hang out, you know um look You can't look like a little teenager or a child either. You know, you gotta look like a woman um Dressing heels nice dresses classy you know, um Go to places where you know, they hang out she'd go to lubies Stakehouses at the bar, you know a nice steakhouse that's expensive Golf golf clubs tennis clubs, you know stuff like that That's what they're richer. Oh nice gyms and nice area. We'll find a lot of them there And it's 15 years older a good range. It depends on how you look and how rich they are Okay, I always say go 20 years older Okay Someone says art galleries wine tasting nice bars nice restaurants. Yeah But see a lot of people that are in art galleries a lot of them go there You can't tell if they have money or not like the art galleries are a hit or miss because Um, you'll just have people don't try to find stuff to do for free. You know what I'm saying? Oh, this is a this is a cool date, but it's free So you got it, you know, or this is where I can meet women at you know, and it's free and I look rich So you got to be careful or not Okay, how can I get a plan B man? I'm married um The best way to do that is online Get you a plan B man online. That's local You know, that's that's all you can do but uh That way If you do leave a divorce your husband He's there Right Hmm Why hasn't this man called me back when I made him wait eight months then finally he's the sixth Eight months. He made somebody wait eight months. Of course. He ain't gonna call you back. She He's embarrassed He He waited eight months and then was done in two seconds. He's embarrassed And now you made a wait eight months So that's a double double thing Mad and embarrassed Woman should be submissive and obedient to her man. That's the good way And as always have Okay, yeah, only if he's rich not if he's broke, okay Women do not respect broke men. Women don't trust broke men. So women can't comfortably submit to a man that they don't trust Or are even attracted to So unless you're rich, you're gonna get no submission out of most women. Okay Get your money up if you want to submit the work Submission comes with trust trust that she's taking care of her bills are taken care of She ain't got to worry about nothing. She ain't got to go to work Then of course she'll be like anything you want, baby She got to go to work every day and you got your hands out at build times and like So tired You know, she ain't gonna submit to you How do I gain back power? I gave it up too quick Dominatrix new fantasy sex Let's play a game. You got to be like saw. Let's play a game Hmm Okay, y'all I'm going it's been too long. I gotta go and I'll see y'all on the next one Thanks for tuning in and I will see y'all next time. Don't let the trolls get to you because They walk anyway, they can't do nothing for you I'm gonna go now things to do And I'll see y'all later um Good night y'all You