 Hey listen, every Christian struggles with sin, it's not that big a deal. I mean, we're trying our best, but we'll just need to wait till Jesus comes back to do something about it. We need to get this victim mentality out of our churches and repent of it in our hearts. Take lust, for instance, yes, many men and women struggle with this, but that doesn't mean that they can't find victory in this area of their life. Maybe you struggle with watching pornography. There is hope that in time, through Christ, you won't be tempted anymore. This victim mentality has been so ingrained in you that you can't even picture being free from this sin. But God wants to bring healing and transformation in your life. Submit yourself therefore to God, resist the devil and he will flee from you. But I say walk by the Spirit and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. Yes, sanctification takes time and you're not going to be perfect here on earth. But we must begin by daily submitting ourselves to God and seeking Him and relying on Him to help us find victory.